I recently started on ADHD medication. It's been life changing, but not in a hyper /buzzy way. Its calmed me down and focused me.
I'm 35 and feel I can finally start my life
I'm 35 and feel I can finally start my life
I feel this! Sometimes I am so on top of my house and washing and then I’ll have a dip where i have 0 drive to get anything done. It used to really bother me and send me into a bit of a depression but I totally understand myself now. I think I felt that way because I worried that my house was forever going to be a tit hope. But now I know that the energy will come, it’s just waiting it out. I feel incredibly guilty when my husband comes home from work and tidies all the toys away, does the dishes and cleans downstairs. I know he understands and doesn’t mind but I can’t help but think at some point it’s going to wear thin on him and he’ll have had enoughMy partner is extremely extremely supportive of me and all choices I make. But I feel so guilty for the days I can’t function. We have 3 kids with ADHD thanks to my genes! And some days I’m brilliant I am smashing out job after Job around the house, getting the kids into school etc and sorting all that out (I’m my daughters carer as she has very extensive needs) and now my partners carer as he has cancer. BUT the days I can’t function and need to just lay in bed I feel really tit about and useless. He would let me lay in bed all day if I chose and wouldn’t ever moan but I can hear him with the kids and I can hear they aren’t behaving and yet some days I just can’t be sort of bothered to help, but it’s not that I can’t be bothered it’s just too much. It’s very very overwhelming sometimes having ADHD I guess I’m just ranting as I can’t talk to no one else about it. Bevause all I get back is oh I wish I could lay in bed all day!, sorry but I don’t want to be?
This is exactly it. I’ve never realised that before though what you’ve just said that the energy will come to sort it out again. In my head if I haven’t done it that exact minute then it’s a bad life and a tit hole house. I really need to give my self a break but god knows how. And I feel the same that one day he’ll say that’s enough but again I think that’s just what we tell ourselves to make ourselves feel worseI feel this! Sometimes I am so on top of my house and washing and then I’ll have a dip where i have 0 drive to get anything done. It used to really bother me and send me into a bit of a depression but I totally understand myself now. I think I felt that way because I worried that my house was forever going to be a tit hope. But now I know that the energy will come, it’s just waiting it out. I feel incredibly guilty when my husband comes home from work and tidies all the toys away, does the dishes and cleans downstairs. I know he understands and doesn’t mind but I can’t help but think at some point it’s going to wear thin on him and he’ll have had enough
I am exactly like this. So many hobbys abandoned. Must have now watched Never Have I Ever on netflix about 17 times.I had an appointment with my GP yesterday after dropping in the self referral form. She says I’m scoring very highly and definitely does sound like I have ADHD. Waiting for referral to specialist now but who knows how long that will be
RE: obsessive. I get fixated on items for weeks whether it be food or a certain product then I completely hate it. Music is a big one for me also, I can easily listen to a song on repeat for hours then end up hating it.
Does anyone else take up hobbies then never finish it? I started diamond painting in the new year, bought about 5 kits and haven’t touched them
My life is full of Unfinished projects.Does anyone else take up hobbies then never finish it? I started diamond painting in the new year, bought about 5 kits and haven’t touched them
Hi,How do you all deal with the obsessive traits also? If I see something I like I’ll have to get it in diff colours, if I eat something I like I’ll eat it daily for 2 weeks until I’m sick of it and then I’ll never buy it again. Also got addicted to house plants once cause they made the room feel fresher and made me feel grown up had them every where hanging up, on shelves. Had to give some to me nan and dad as too many was around and I kept forgetting to water them.
I’ve never spoke to another person who has 3 kids the same! It’s so hard isn’t it? I’ve got 3 with adhd and 2 of them have Autism. The youngest one is showing a lot of signs of autism but we are still waiting to have it confirmed. How do you cope?.Hi,
So I'm literally in the middle of the house plant thing. I know I'm doing it. I know why (change in circumstances so I'm feathering - I also totally get the fresh thing). However I also know (and fear) they will all be dead in 3 months.
I'm not officially diagnosed but I have 3 autistic children, two of them with ADHD as well (they are watching the third for that). The other two children don't have diagnoses but skirt the boundaries in my opinion.
It's hard to explain unless you've lived it but I don't need a diagnosis to know that I've found the thing that explains me. I always knew I was slightly different, I just didn't know why.
My obsessive traits flare when I'm stressed and I get a bit giddy about things. Fortunately over the years I've bought a lot from ebay. Converse are a big thing of mine. Mostly all bought from ebay.
My SIL has been told by a consultant that she probably has ADHD. She was quite surprised but I wasn't. Firstly she's married to my very clearly ADHD brother and secondly she has some mad obsessive thing with food going on. She'll suddenly get really into a particular food and eat nothing but that for weeks and then suddenly the love is over.
It's hard to explain to people who don't get it.
For me, understanding meltdowns has been the biggest help. I'm not sure it takes away the embarrassment I feel about some stuff in my past but it does give me a chance to forgive myself.
It's really hard if I'm honest. We have good and bad days. My eldest moved into assisted living last year which helped a lot because it gave us more space which helps the kids not be so on top of each other.I’ve never spoke to another person who has 3 kids the same! It’s so hard isn’t it? I’ve got 3 with adhd and 2 of them have Autism. The youngest one is showing a lot of signs of autism but we are still waiting to have it confirmed. How do you cope?.
I find the noise the worst part as all my kids scream and shriek and it really really overwhelms me a lot and I always feel bad and think so they see me as a snappy mum? I don’t know
Have you been reading my diary? That’s my life with my two. The noise. God the noise. It’s so shrill and loud. I started smoking again after 11 years just to calm myself down.I find the noise the worst part as all my kids scream and shriek and it really really overwhelms me a lot and I always feel bad and think so they see me as a snappy mum? I don’t know