You are not entitled to a girlfriend just by existing. We're not accessories to your dick and until men, of this sort, realise that, it won't be helped.
I'm currently not dating because my peace is worth more to me than having someone disturb it and I'm not alone in that viewpoint.
We don't need to be mothers, wives, or sold off to the highest bidder. We can live alone. Work hours we want and spend our money and time on whatever we want.
That's what people need to accept and not think they're owed
Sorry, I'm a bit ranty this morning.