How is flashing your bare bottom in front of the international press, dignitaries and diplomats not of epic proportions and an exaggeration? She did that over years, there were many calls
over years in the press (even by Liz!!!) to bloody weigh her skirts and dresses. She even did the flashing in Asia at the wreath laying at a war memorial during a tour, only a few years ago (so the flashing wasn't some "accident" at the beginning, she frankly wouldn't learn over nearly 10 years).
Coming to a conservative muslim country and being asked by the king not to wear any heels (he hates the sound of clacking heels and loves his marble floors) and dress modestly, but then come with the lowest cleavage to date (at the time) in sky high heels is also a massive misstep.
Ignoring the king of Spain when he extends his hand in greeting is a massive misstep (by both Will and Kate).
These are missteps for any Jane and Joe in private, but in the professional world? In diplomacy? Utter shyte fests.
These things are all very well documented, by press and blogs.
If Meghan had done any of this, flashed just once or twice, ignored a head of state and purposefully dressed exactly the opposite than she was asked to by a (conservative) king (ie ignoring the laid out dress code), I could just imagine the vitriol. But since Meghan's own fck-ups, Kate has been elevated to sainthood image wise.
Will had his willy out to pee many years ago, before marriage. In which countries' press it was shown I don't know as I came across it much later, I do believe it was in the British press though and should still be online when looking for it. Articles telling you as much definitely will be when looking up "prince William peeing outside", coming across the picture might be harder, but some bloggers have it and tend to post it when asked for it.
(one article here
https://www.glamour.com/story/a-photographer-caught-prince-w)
Wills and Kate also left 8 month old George with the nanny and Carole for a jolly in the Maldives back in the day. Could've brought him along with the nanny, but nope. Prep for public school? Start 'em young.
Before anyone thinks this, esp Cambridge fans, no I don't hate them. But I've followed them a bit for a long time and I'm also realistic. They fudged up many times and put their feet wrong also many many times and many times it was unnecessary and utterly stupid and avoidable. I mean a weighted skirt would've avoided much of this, as would've adhering to dress codes and not being arrogant, but greeting someone when they extend their hand to you, at an event where you know the guest list of and know that people "above" you will be present.
Diana even said a long time ago that her biggest enemy was the wind, don't think we've seen her arse whilst greeting dignitaries and laying wreaths.
Btw the Camdridges's image was lacking in recent years and they were called out on many things, the flashing, not being prepared well enough on tours (Will openly laughingly saying he doesn't read his briefs), their massive spending (on renovations, Kate's wardrobe, which isn't thrifty at all and she doesn't rewear ("recycle") nearly as much as it's made out when the press feels nice and props her image up as "thrifty Kate loving High Street rewearing old clothes" and "hands-on parents Wills and Kate", what are the fulltime nanny and the part-time nannies for then? Before Louis came along the Cambridges had more nannies employed than the Waleses ever had, funny that; but you only ever see the one full time nanny, the part time nannies are kept in the background).
Well, then Meghan came along and the rest is history, as they say.
Also every negative press and calling out and soon after a nice prop-up article is published, the Cambridge PR being as busy as the Wales and Sussex PRs.