Meghan and Kate are definitely not role models.
Meghan is a vile human being and no role model to anyone!
Kate seems glowing in comparison though I find Kate strangely fascinating. She hung on for so long, for so many years, through out so many break ups with her family facilitating snagging William. She seems to have no personality or interests except pleasing William, her kids, being thin, and her hair. She never has anything interesting or intelligent to say (Meghan tries to sound intelligent but comes across as a complete moron stuck in 90s live, laugh, love BS).
I also think William is protected by the golden boy PR. He is just as much an arrogant man-child as his brother. He can go to football games and show up for loads of those but do 2 actual engagements in a month that's non-football related? Get real, bro. Step up and work, you're 42.