Give yourself some slack.. You’ve had a hard time. Maybe seek help for your mental health as a separate’problem’.I don’t really know if it belongs here.
Why are the nights always the hardest? I’ve been having wrist problems since September 2019, had surgery in June 2020 and that only made it worse. No one knew what was going on, I’ve seen so many specialists and they couldn’t figure it out. After 2 years of illness in my country you have to apply for benefits, but they declined. Because I didn’t have a diagnosis, so no prognosis and therefore my wrist would be fine anytime soon. That made me so angry but also so upset, but because of that I asked for a referral to a different hospital for a second opinion. The decision to not give me any benefits really knocked me down and I knew the second opinion was going to be useless. Every time I got my hopes up a bit, even though I knew I would get disappointed every single time. I questioned myself, questioned why I went through with it. I really felt shite for weeks/months on end, didn’t want to do anything, didn’t want to eat, didn’t want to come out of bed. Slowly my mental health got better, even though I got disappointed a few times in hospital. Last Thursday I had an appointment with 6 specialists at the same time and finally one of them recognised what I have. I am happy and relieved, because I was almost doubting myself and it turned out I was right and it wasn’t all in my head. But at the same time I’m so angry, frustrated, upset and scared. The pain and energy it has cost me. What if that one specialist wasn’t there? They would’ve send me home without a diagnosis and I would just have to live with it. I’m scared because I need surgery again and the road ahead is still long and it will be tough. I’m scared because I don’t know how I will cope, I know I will be able too, but I just can’t see it. My emotions are all over the place and I feel bad that I feel bad and not just happy. Why can’t I just feel happy?
Thank you for your response, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Glad to hear that you finally got the help and treatments you need(ed)!Give yourself some slack.. You’ve had a hard time. Maybe seek help for your mental health as a separate’problem’.
A similar thing happened to me after I gave birth. I had problems but I was brushed off for YEARS until one day ‘the penny dropped’ for one doctor and I was diagnosed, had multiple surgeries that requires regular follow ups and I have to have more surgeries every few years BUT once I was diagnosed they couldn’t help me enough.
We've been together nearly 9 years so they know him very well and most of the time he's absolutely fine and has a laugh with them, yesterday he was just being grumpy and just wound me up and I was venting. I understand what you're saying though.@WilmaHun that is just bloody rude. One of my favourite things about my partner is that he is so incredibly and genuinely nice towards my frankly mad family. Even I'm not that patient with them! It's been 8 years and he's still the same. Have a word with your bf and nip it in the bud early, your family have probably noticed but don't want to upset you by pointing it out. It makes life very uncomfortable going down that road!
I’ve just tested positive and I want to go home even moreI’m here to complain about my holiday being ruined by my boyfriend getting covid, me feeling ill because of hay fever/pre period flu/possibly covid off him.
We already had to get the coach a day early last week because of the rail strike, plus his nan has missed an entire week of the holiday because she had covid :/
Honestly I’ve spent most of this fortnight wishing I was at home in my own comfy bed with my cat
It’s time to just go home and call it a day. Well, I would anyway. That’s no fun-I am sorry your holiday has been a bust!I’ve just tested positive and I want to go home even more))
So apparently my husband was condescending to her, he kept her waiting when she had other dogs in the van and that she wouldn't have taken him if he'd just eaten as it could cause stomach issues. FMLDog walker....but also possibly husband.
Husband hurt his ankle last night (fell down a hole in the garden the dog had made) which was bit of a nightmare as he was doing the dog's big walk in the morning as I was working. Messaged the dog walker we use on a 'as and when' basis and she was able to take him for an afternoon walk which was great as son took him for a quick walk round the block before he went out for the day.
Husband messaged me to say dog walker had turned up at 12 but dog was eating his lunch so he said it would be a few mins and he would bring him out. Next thing, dog walker drives off. Hasn't been seen since and no communication as to why.
I've messaged her but haven't heard back however I'm holding off judgement as I think it was maybe that my husband took so fecking long getting him ready that she got pissed off and left as she had a schedule and other dogs in the van. He's a form for taking an absolute age to do anything, even if it makes you late so I'm inclined to think that's the case. Annoyed though that I'm left in the dark wondering what happened though!
Mostly I'm just gutted my boy didn't get a decent walk. I'm about to take him out but not quite the same as a beach romp with 4/5 other pooches that he should have had.
Following on from this, the listing finished this evening and this buyer cancelled the order saying he didn’t think the bid would get so high! So don’t put in a max bid that is above what you are willing to pay!!! Man I’m bloody pissed off. Stupid time wasters.Sold my sons phone on eBay for him as he’s broke, 2 days pass and no payment so I message the buyer. Arsehole doesn’t get paid for a whole week so can I hold off until then? Can I fuck!! How hard is it to send a message and ask if that would be ok instead of just expecting me to wait 7 days. He probably wouldn’t have even let me know had I not asked for payment. Now I’ve had to list it again.
Don’t even get me started on eBay fees
so yeah I hate eBay lol
Can you get/make a wedge? At least that might help for tonight?can’t get my front door to lock so looks like I’ll be staying up all night until I can get someone out tomorrow to take a look at it. Fantastic. Been telling my dad about my dodgy lock for the last week and he’s adamant there’s nothing wrong with it and it was fine when he tried it. I could actually just scream.
Has it swollen in the heat? Try putting something cold oncan’t get my front door to lock so looks like I’ll be staying up all night until I can get someone out tomorrow to take a look at it. Fantastic. Been telling my dad about my dodgy lock for the last week and he’s adamant there’s nothing wrong with it and it was fine when he tried it. I could actually just scream.
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