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I liked Nikki and found her funny but since she’s started the ketones and her cat has died she’s gone really weird. It’s so sad to lose a pet but I feel she’s too affected by it. I think there’s other problems and I hope she gets some help.
 
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I agree with all you have said, I don't think those ketones and flogging them, the fizz sticks and what ever this weeks thing she will get "obsessed" with will help, the 7 lips sticks and lip liners didn't help, the extra new tree didn't help, the redoing the spare room didn't help, the setting the dining table for nobody to sit at didnt help and constantly dragging on Mia and the public grieving for insta is not helping, she does need to take a few deep breaths step back and get some help as it has went on for too long and it's not healthy
 
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She paid out for Invisalign ages ago but couldn’t stick to it so gave up
That’s just lazy. I’ve had Invisalign myself and it does take a bit of getting used to but why would you pay out and not stick to it. It becomes old hat after the first month.
 
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Her house gives me anxiety with the crap everywhere she’s at home most days has no children and a cleaner like seriously
 
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How on Earth is her house always such a shit tip?? Seriously, just how?!!!! It’s always such a mess - she’s at home all day, every day so
How the heck is it so messy? What exactly is she doing all day that means she can’t put things away or spend an hour getting these bloody Christmas decorations finished?
 
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Why is she making such a fuss of having to keep her house in order?! She’s got ‘sooo much to do’ and near on having a melt down cos she needs to tidy up and put her Xmas decs up... she is so out of touch with reality! Most people have to maintain a household in addition to going to work full time and don’t moan like she does... she has a cleaner to do the actual cleaning just put your shit away after yourself it’s not that hard! I really used to like Nikki but she’s becoming such a brat!
 
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I honestly can’t fathom the state of her house. She showed the utility room all neat & orderly just last week it feels like. HOW in gods name can it be in that state again. She is just a mink. Or as I like to say, a mink with money.
 
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I think she’s just heartbroken about her cat, we all handle grief differently.: there’s no handbook. I don’t judge people on how they handle grief.
 
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I think she’s just heartbroken about her cat, we all handle grief differently.: there’s no handbook. I don’t judge people on how they handle grief.
no I’m sorry but her behaviour regarding the cat is completely over the top and she’s being ridiculous. It was a cat. They don’t live forever. It was sick and it died - it’s sad yes but she’s acting like the world has come to an end and she doesn’t seem stable or in control of her emotions whatsoever. She’s manic - highs and lows and honestly she really seems unhinged at the moment and in need of professional help. I’m not trying to be cruel at all - I genuinely am concerned, it’s gone way beyond the normal range of emotions.
 
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I'd be fucking heartbroken if my cat died. I worry about him if he's been out for 2hrs That might be thanks to my local Facebook groups and the amount of posts I see about missing or run over cats! 5 years ago I wouldn't have even dreamed of owning one too. I'd like to hope though that if I lost him though I wouldn't come across as erratic as Nikki. We lost our amazing family dog very tragically and suddenly about 7 years ago and I've never felt grief like it, even after losing all 4 grandparents over the years.
 
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But if you’re cat passed away would you spend the following 8 weeks crying and lying in your bed? Would you get the cats face printed on a mug? Would you get a ring made out of its ashes? Would you get a necklace to commemorate it loosing an eye? Would you spend time collating thousands of photos of the cat and then having over 500 printed off to make a photo album of the dead cat to give to your husband for Christmas? Would you keep its bed/food dish and have an emotional breakdown about giving it away to a charity? Would you sit and cry and have a breakdown multiple times on camera?

Because she’s done all of the above and seems completely off the scale at the moment. It’s a huge over reaction and really isn’t normal
 
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I’m not feeling that room with the Xmas tree in it, not my taste at all it’s a bit cold imo
 
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I’m not feeling that room with the Xmas tree in it, not my taste at all it’s a bit cold imo
Yeah I hate all the black, I make a point of having no black items in my house (if I can help it) it reminds me of my first decorating mistake I made years ago.. I had black sofas AND a black carpet.. what a mess lol
 
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Link to her coat, £100! Yeh I’ll have 4 please she will prob only wear it once!
 
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Yeah I hate all the black, I make a point of having no black items in my house (if I can help it) it reminds me of my first decorating mistake I made years ago.. I had black sofas AND a black carpet.. what a mess lol
I used to have black wallpaper in my front room, just on a feature wall it had a black background with grey flowers on and black curtains and black leather couches omg it became so depressing we had to get rid of it, we kept the couches but changed everything else lol it’s sounds awful but at the time it was very “in”
 
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