I was just so worried about running out of cake lol! But people will be too busy dancing/drinking at the end of the night to worry about cake haha 
) so would definitely advise knowingly undercatering on this.Sorry for the confusion, we married elsewhere in Italy (not coastal) but had our minimoon in Puglia
we didn’t have a totally exclusive venue either, I wouldn’t necessarily automatically rule it out if within the venue you have areas that are exclusive to you, and you are confident there will be enough staffing to look after you and your guests.
I never even thought of Lingerie. Although I’ll be braless in my dress, I should probably get nice knickers 
. Mr P will probably be too drunk to function that night though This is the thing! I have big knickers for under my dress but we’re going away for the night am I supposed to make an effort?!
Our wedding is over the entire bank holiday weekend so I guess I better order a few things even if just for day two
I’m really lucky with the cut and style of my dress that I don’t need control pants because I cannot stand them… although I did order some skims just incase I get bloated . and some ivory silk pj’s from Accessorize for getting ready in the morning of the wedding.I have chronic IBS so I can just drink one glass of water and I’m bloatedOur wedding is over the entire bank holiday weekend so I guess I better order a few things even if just for day two
off to take a wee look online now, does anyone have any recommendations for sexy but still bridal underwear?
I feel more comfortable in something high waisted due to the cut of my dress, and I have massive boobs I kind of did. I was braless anyway in my dress and I just bought some nice white lacy brief type thing from next for underneath!
I was the exact same braless and just bought a white lacy pants and also a blue garter
I don’t eat cake so I’d never looked into it before but, it was the one thing my husband was insistent on havingHow much are you guys paying for a cake? My wedding is abroad so I’ve had to look online and try and find someone I really love. I’ve asked my venue and florist too and they really recommended her.
It’s hard because I’ve never tasted her cake
I was so shocked at the price when she showed us designs and said they were fake layers. I couldn’t believe it. But, yeah £800 sounds a decent price, especially if they’ve come recommended! We also had a macaron tower cake with matching flowers which went down a hit!Same and it was a very small bridal party - we were ready just in time for church. photographer took a lio longer than I expected and there was a delay with hairdresser who did an entirely different style to what I had picked that added 40 mins to hair
We had one table of 8 where 3 couples didn't show despite confirmation week before they were coming we had to swap a table around as it was near the top table and looked terribleThank you!
I’m just quite annoyed how many said they’d turn up at night and they just never arrived… I just think it’s so rude when you plan for a certain number and loads don’t turn up and don’t even tell you why!
Very few guests ate our cake we had 3 tiers all diff flavours cut and shared with tea/coffee in evening- I didn't i wasnr going to have a cake die to price but my friend made it as her gift and it was gorgeous- I ate the choc biscuit layer for 2 weeks after
That’s so annoying! People are so rude honestly! I’m lucky it was just my night guests that didn’t show, minus the maid of honour’s partner doing a runner… people don’t seem to realise that these things cost money!
So happy we got it so cheap, otherwise it would be way out of our price range. And I'm also happy because I hope this will keep it a secret for a little bit longer, I would hate to see everyone else also getting married there. 
