Thank you so much for the advice and for listening to me. I have been trying to get her to meet up with me but although she says she will, she also says she is really busy at work ( which she is) and she crams her weekends full of running/seeing friends/more work so no time for seeing me.
I keep thinking if I am stressed and upset about this how much worse they both may be feeling. Neither of them are good at dealing with feelings and both tend to ignore problems in the hope they’ll disappear.
My sister in law from NZ was in touch yesterday, she is organising her travel to attend the wedding which is a lot of money and time off work for her plus we have potential guests coming from Canada, Sri Lanka, Boston as well.
I don’t know what to say to these people.
My younger daughter is also sensing something is up and has asked her sister to go for a drink and a catch up but has been ignored.
I’m getting so uptight about this it’s starting to rub off onto different areas of my life and make me touchy and grumpy and over emotional.
Again, thank you all for letting me get it all out!
@Namima how are you doing? I am thinking of you. Grief is such a horrible exhausting and relentless thing to endure. I hope you are managing to sleep and look after yourself. And that you have people to hold and comfort you. Lots of love xxx