I come from quite a rural area, I recently moved to a city but I don't know many people here apart from the few I already knew before moving here. I don't know any other real life vegans. I don't even know anyone who is vegetarian. If I were to cut out all non-veggie/vegans, I would be all alone in this world.
What kind of life is that?
I think we can hold onto and practise our morals and at the same time engage with those who do not share out views. At first I struggled with it, but after years I have come to realize it's most important to not force your diet and morals onto someone else when they are not open to it. In stead, I have learned that it means more to slowly and lovingly bring my values and views to them. I gently tell them how I feel about certain things and I have noticed that throughout the years a lot of people around me have changed their views a little bit. I see they are much more gentle when it comes to animals and I have noticed they have become open to eating vegetarian or vegan meals once or twice a week. It may not be a lot, but I see it as progress. For example, my dad would kill any animal in his sight at first, but now I notice he doesn't anymore. He used to refuse to even try to eat vegetarian or vegan meats, but now he has a couple he thinks that are "alright" (alright = high praise for my dad, he is not easily impressed when it comes to food lol). The same goes for my brother.
I have baked vegan cakes or banana bread for my friends in the past, and I even got a couple of them asking for recipes because they or their partners (very very much non-veg) liked it so much.
I know on the big scale it's not a lot of change, but I see it as progress when people become more open-minded about it throughout the years and understand/accept it more.
When I got really angry and upset with people I noticed they closed off pretty quickly and wouldn't listen to what I was saying.
It's a difficult world to navigate isn't it?
It's difficult to do the right thing when so many people think it's wrong what you are doing. I just don't understand how they think what I am doing, not harming animals, is NOT the right thing to do and that harming animals IS the right thing to do.
As someone who is very ill, I frequently get emails or articles mailed to me why I should quit my vegan "diet" because they are sure it's the cause of my illness. Sorry but what do you even know? They have no idea what I eat, what I consume, what I do. Also, I got ill way way before I went vegan, so that doesn't even hold up. But when I tell them, they still tell me it would be better to just eat animals again. No, it's not. The things I'm dealing with don't even have anything to do with the food I do or do not eat.
It's just weird that at this point all my doctors say it's totally fine to eat vegan yet people around me think they are some kind of doctor telling me to quit being vegan because that sure as hell will solve all my issues
Anyone else here ever dealing with this? People blaming all your life problems on you being vegan?