Vegetarian 1.5 years, I started reducing meat in my late twenties and early thirties (36 now) and did Veganuary a few years in a row now. I'd normally go back to having a little meat here and there (1-2 times a week) when Veganuary ended but last year, I just couldn't, and even though I hadn't gone fully vegan, I had gone veggie.
A few moments that I had that eventually made me go veggie were:
1. We were away with boyfriend and went to a small aquarium and saw some fishes from the sea bass family in one of the tanks. They were just so full of life and their scales shiny and healthy, and I was thinking, how can we be eating something so beautiful and so alive?
I didn't go veggie then but practically cut out fish from my diet.
2. I was cycling to work and thinking about stuff, as you do, and I started thinking how can I eat someone else's body? Body that lived and breathed, ate, moved. Who gives you the right to take someone's life and eat their body?
3. I used to live in Cambridge, also throughout most of the pandemic, and Cambridge allows cows to graze on the ancient commons in the city. During one of the lockdowns, I went out for my daily walk one day and stopped near some cows to take pictures, and one looked me in the eyes, and that was that. I also noticed that many cattle in Cambridge are actually bulls and many of them had their horns filed down and it made me really sad.
I still ate meat in small amounts for a few months but I started having guilt. How could I be feeling all this empathy for them but still eating them?
But then I did the Veganuary again and
couldn't go back to eating meat. It's hard to explain the "couldn't" but I think most people here understand.
Also, reading all the comments from the past two days, reminded me how amazing people on this thread are. There is no judgment, just advice, and suggestions how to do better as vegan/vegetarian. When I first joined, I was still flexitarian and there were a few people originally on this thread who were in the same boat and it was so lovely to be able to find out about new veggie releases and have recommendations and mini-reviews of things we wanted to try.
I love you guys. The empowerment on this thread is real.
A few more things: I also love eggs and cheese but feel similarly to you
@StillLucilleBluth. It's sill taking advantage of animals. I think it's a good idea to not have them every single day. With eggs, if it's possible at all, maybe get your own chickens so you know they're being treated very well, or where possible get eggs from small farms or honesty boxes? Think of the cheese as a seasoning, not the main star of the show. Get a nice quality cheese and have small amount here and there as "garnish", if that makes sense. If you haven't tried yeast flakes, get some - they add savoury, slightly cheesy flavour to dishes. Sometime I make a bigger portion of a pasta dish and when I reheat it, sometimes I'd have it with some grated cheese, and sometimes with the yeast flakes.
As much as it's hard to replace eggs in savoury dishes (what would I have in my shakshuka?) it's much easier in baking and there are tonnes of vegan recipes. If you like baking already, you'll probably enjoy the extra challenge of trying to make vegan versions of your favourite bakes. Also, nice eggs are expensive, so baking vegan stuff might save you money.
Clothes/shoes/makeup: It is sustainable to wear what you have and slowly replace with vegan options. Having a rule of only buying leather/wool if it's second hand is an excellent idea. I personally like silk so I pledged only to buy it second hand.
Shoes are a bit of a tricky one for me because I have had bad experiences with faux leather shoes (they weren't even called vegan back then) - they made my feet sweat and stink, and also a very lovely pair of faux leather shoes I had got at first year at uni, fell apart after one winter. I don't buy shoes often and take a very good care of the few pairs I own and this is how I justify still wearing leather. I try to think of the environment as well and wouldn't want to throw away a pair of shoes every few months knowing that they won't decompose any time soon.
I have a small handful of leather bags, including a very simple everyday black bag. I have had it for about 7 years and I had previously had faux leathe bags that only had lasted a few month. I think that if it ever comes to replacing the bag, there would be some good vegan alternatives available, there is so many leathers being developed right now, using mushrooms, pineaple and many more,
Makeup/toiletries: Same as people earlier in the thread, it's important to use up whatever makeup products you have and only then buy the new vegan versions. I still have slip-ups but would say that my toiletries bag is about 90% cruelty free. Also, there might be situations that can't be helped: someone bought for you something non-vegan/non-CF as gift, it's probably better just use up or pass down onto someone to avoid being wasteful.