I think the ultimate problem is in 2 days they’ve crossed 2 Red lines and it’s giving Lazy reasons to say they being stalked.
In their situation (worried about their address getting to Inghams) then surely their best move in the ikea situation would have been to avoid Inghams completely, only mention they were there as a passing fact and actively try to avoid them.
And secondly important rule is leave the kids out of it, if that video was on another young girls Instagram why were they even looking at that to find it?, if anything was mentioned about it they should have gone for a positive spin and said it’s good that Isabelle was able to act normal for a change instead of constantly being told what to do.
Unique Fam also need to be a little careful, the anti-ingham group have history of unceremoniously dumping youtubers who no longer fit their viewpoint. If they don’t sort themselves out soon they could end In trouble from multiple directions