Julie needs to get into the shower, tidy herself up and tidy her house up. Start learning how to cook and make some proper nutritious meals, we are all guilty of throwing things into the oven or air fryer for convenience, but for me it’s usually after a 10 hour shift. If I had half the time she does I wouldn’t be sitting around in a smelly dressing gown giving out about kids that I kept from my ex and send off to crèche every week so I can sit on my hole for a bit longer. I’m not trying to brag but I have 2 kids and work shift hours with a partner who works away and my house is NEVER like hers, we have healthy meals as often as we can, I spend any free time I have playing with my kids and the odd time I do get away from them, I sort bills, shopping etc. This is normal life to me, and I wouldn’t change it for the world. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was suffering with mental health problems, I would be too if I lived her life but it’s only her can change it. Lazy uneducated slob