TwinsandMe #12 Christmas time, Covid and wine, Julie mór just wants a good time

[Sandyclaws]

Julie telling porkie pies again so.

I wouldn't believe the Lord's Prayer from her tbh.
I do think the dad/dads family should be stepping in to intervene with a clearly unstable mother, but we have no idea what's going on in the background. For all we know he has sent stuff and cards and gifts/money to buy gifts

 

[Wildone]

She made a point of saying he sent nothing not even a card

 

[Lorz19]

did she say similar around time of twins bday? I don’t think so? But min it’s mentioned here he has new partner she’s on with the woe is me shite for ppl to feel sorry for her

 

[lena234]

She made a point of saying he sent nothing not even a card

But on the contrary- does she pick up the phone and let the twins call him?
does she send a card on the twins behalf for birthdays and Christmas??
its all a sob story with julie poor me I’m a single parent blah blah blah but hunny are you doing your bit to allow the twins interact with their dad? My bollox- its very easy to Open the FaceTime app and Ring. im sure they ring uncle Sean when they want I’m sure they could atleast ring their daddy!!

 

[Wysterialane]

She made a point of saying he sent nothing not even a card

Really bothers me she’s so public about all this. It says a lot about her character. My sons father isn’t a nice person either, doesn’t acknowledge his existence most of the time, but I would never dream of behaving like that. You shelter your babies from the harder things in life to protect them, not to air it on the internet for thousands of people to see. She will definitely be one of these mothers that badmouths their father to the children which is so so so wrong. When my parents divorced my mother was very bitter and she played that card constantly ‘he left us’ when really, it was her he left, he was always there for us. And 20 years later my brother, sister and I can still repeat the exact conversation because these things cut very deep on impressionable children, Julie needs to be very careful and chose her words wisely

 

[PandoraRose]

But on the contrary- does she pick up the phone and let the twins call him?
does she send a card on the twins behalf for birthdays and Christmas??
its all a sob story with julie poor me I’m a single parent blah blah blah but hunny are you doing your bit to allow the twins interact with their dad? My bollox- its very easy to Open the FaceTime app and Ring. im sure they ring uncle Sean when they want I’m sure they could atleast ring their daddy!!

Very good point, Julie is so selfish that she wouldn't even think of that, everything must be done for her she'd never think of others. If she was any kind of a good mother, she'd put her own bitterness at the relationship breaking up aside and do everything in her power to make sure the twins had contact with their daddy and their dad's side of the family.
Instead she's bad mouthing him on Instagram and talking about how Sean is stepping in to help Fionn, she's pathetic.

 

[PandoraSkye]

Julie telling porkie pies again so.

I wouldn't believe the Lord's Prayer from her tbh.
I do think the dad/dads family should be stepping in to intervene with a clearly unstable mother, but we have no idea what's going on in the background. For all we know he has sent stuff and cards and gifts/money to buy gifts

I know a family who's not allowed to see a child purely because the mother is selfish. The dad had a hard time and couldn't pay maintenance, he lost everything and she said he wasn't allowed see the child and neither could any of his family. 2 years they tried to send presents/cards/money and the mother sent them back then sent a letter saying not to contact them ever again...... maybe the twins other family have tried before and Jules ignored them...as always 3 sides to a story.. but sad out of it all is the children that stuffer from the relationships their missing.

 

[Ola Ola]

Very good point, Julie is so selfish that she wouldn't even think of that, everything must be done for her she'd never think of others. If she was any kind of a good mother, she'd put her own bitterness at the relationship breaking up aside and do everything in her power to make sure the twins had contact with their daddy and their dad's side of the family.
Instead she's bad mouthing him on Instagram and talking about how Sean is stepping in to help Fionn, she's pathetic.

Exactly she made a point of saying I would never stop him seeing the twins I drove up and down the country and said ages ago I'll never talk about this here cause the twinnies will see when they're older but totally contradicted herself last night on her rant . And so sick of they dont need anyone only my family okkkk

 

[Puffin]

Well as she is clearly reading here with her electric picnic comment maybe some of the points that people have raised here might resonate with her.

Whatever she feels about her ex, his family and the ending of the relationship she should be thinking of her children and the long term ramifications of using them as pawns in her one sided Instagram battle

 

[PandoraRose]

To be fair, when has Julie ever shown herself as anything but a selfish, self serving person? Her poor dad needs shielding from covid during the first wave and julie is off partying and going on weekends away with her friends and straight back to her dad, the minute the second lockdown ends shes off out socialising with over 20 people while the twins are at her parents, putting her dad at serious risk.
Sean has documented mental health issues but has to drop everything when Jùlie Mòr can't handle everyday life.
The twins are moved from pillar to post to suit Julie not being able to manage them, she showed the kids on the street minding them until it was pointed out on here how dangerous that was. Fionn could also have been badly hurt or worse because Julie wasn't watching him in a busy car park and Julie thinks it's funny and nothing more than a 'mom fail'.
She can't even get her life together enough to make sure the twins main present was assembled properly and safely because she's too busy out and about during a pandemic when she should be staying at home.
Now she's using the fact that her family have to step in and help her so much simply because she's hopeless as a way to get at her ex and his family, those poor twins, a physically distant Dad and a mam who's checked out mentally and uses every excuse to get away from her babies

 

[Taylor17]

If the other family are attempting to have a relationship with the twins and she is thwarting it, they are very quite people to put up with her spreading lies about them.I think julie is a pathetic creature. I think she loves playing the victim and she is too thick to see how bitter she is and the damage she is doing to the children but he is in Australia so when people defend him it shocks the hell out of me.If he gave 2 shits about being a parent he wouldn't be in Australia end of story. If a woman did that she would be annihilated. She said before that the pictures he has up are taken from her social media accounts. Those twins have 2 tit parents but she is the better parent of the two. If his side wanted access they would probably get some through the court system.

 

[Ola Ola]

To be fair, when has Julie ever shown herself as anything but a selfish, self serving person? Her poor dad needs shielding from covid during the first wave and julie is off partying and going on weekends away with her friends and straight back to her dad, the minute the second lockdown ends shes off out socialising with over 20 people while the twins are at her parents, putting her dad at serious risk.
Sean has documented mental health issues but has to drop everything when Jùlie Mòr can't handle everyday life.
The twins are moved from pillar to post to suit Julie not being able to manage them, she showed the kids on the street minding them until it was pointed out on here how dangerous that was. Fionn could also have been badly hurt or worse because Julie wasn't watching him in a busy car park and Julie thinks it's funny and nothing more than a 'mom fail'.
She can't even get her life together enough to make sure the twins main present was assembled properly and safely because she's too busy out and about during a pandemic when she should be staying at home.
Now she's using the fact that her family have to step in and help her so much simply because she's hopeless as a way to get at her ex and his family, those poor twins, a physically distant Dad and a mam who's checked out mentally and uses every excuse to get away from her babies

God forbid he gets the new gf pregnant could you imagine the back lash from julie

 

[Livingindublin]

She is bitter also because no man wants her, she is well known in cork obviously, and not for good reasons, imagine rocking up with her to meet friends and family, she would disgrace you.

 

[Wysterialane]

And the way she comes on like ‘this is real life’ is it? Really Julie? Because I’m looking in the wrong places if that’s the case because she’s having a great time for a single mother of twins

 

[Facesisafool]

I don’t believe for one second that’s he went to oz and didn’t tell her. They were in contact at the time

 

[Buddha]

Unfortunately for her she thought playing the damsel in distress would get her ex back, then the donkey act, then the I've a great life act. None of it worked because he just doesn't want her, she wouldn't be the first to try this but it never works so now it's the my kids need nobody act, he has clearly moved well on and she really needs to. Yes he should do something for his kids but until her bitterness is gone that won't happen. No way she would make it easy for him, all the driving cross country with the twins was more for herself I'd say in the hope he would take her back. I actually feel a little bit sorry for her, she's her own worst enemy but it's the poor kids who suffer cos she can't accept he's not coming back.

 

[Nena]

I'm not a fan of Julie's but he did feck off to Australia. We have no idea if he sends the kids money or presents etc but if he wanted to be in their lives he would move back here. His parents could also take her to court for access. I know people who have done it and successfully got access as grandparents.

 

[Howareyahun]

She is bitter also because no man wants her, she is well known in cork obviously, and not for good reasons, imagine rocking up with her to meet friends and family, she would disgrace you.

Shes also bitter as she is left holding the babies. She always made it very clear she loved Perth and is bitter as the ex has the life she craves. However, she made a decision to come back to Ireland where she would get hand out after hand out. She always said the ex had a great job in Oz so I reckon it was mutual agreement he went back. She mentioned the good money a few times which as we all know she loves.

Plenty Dads could be living on the same street as their kids and dont have anything to do with them so the ex being in Oz is in my opinion not a big deal. SOMETIMES kids are better off with one constant parent than one who makes a half ass attempt.

 

[Wysterialane]

I don’t believe for one second that’s he went to oz and didn’t tell her. They were in contact at the time

But even if he did just up and leave we don’t know his reasons etc. my aunts ex is working in Perth and you best believe they still co-parent as best you can in the situation. If Julie wasn’t so sour things wouldn’t be so hard, she must be bitter he doesn’t want her and has decided if he doesn’t want her she’ll make it hard for him to have the twins which is so wrong

 

[Ola Ola]

But even if he did just up and leave we don’t know his reasons etc. my aunts ex is working in Perth and you best believe they still co-parent as best you can in the situation. If Julie wasn’t so sour things wouldn’t be so hard, she must be bitter he doesn’t want her and has decided if he doesn’t want her she’ll make it hard for him to have the twins which is so wrong

Yes remember that time she went to meet him with the kids then was home just as fast bawling probably rejected by him and stormed back off with the kids even said her parents were giving out to her. It is hard if the father of the kids doesn't want to be with her but if that's the reason he feels he cant keep up the contact cause shes bitter then it's the kids who suffer. He could Skype or ring if he was allowed plenty of men working off shore and abroad cause the money is better and still in a relationship so youd have to ask the question is he not in contact or is he not allowed to be in contact