From what she says it looks like laziness but we don’t really know what issues they have around using the toilet, I know a 12 year old who does not wake up at all to pee and has accidents most nights, I know kids who are petrified to poo in potty/toilet and will only poo in a nappy
I think its so cruel to restrict liquids
and that’s laziness aswel not wanting to get up and bring your child to the toilet
Now obviously I wouldn’t be giving mine tea before bed but they go with a drink every night, no accidents but both very different when it came to training, one got it straight away and the other took forever
The public health nurse will tell you not to force it until your child is ready! Sounds like erin is ready now