I know a few people who spin lies to suit their narrative, and it's genuinely lies, about certain family situations and things that have happened (or not happened) and life instances in general, but they really and truly believe themselves, or that they are hard done by and the 'victim'.. Its totally narcissistic and I really think Julie believes her shite and the rest of us are off our rockers to question her. She turns her untruths back on "trolls/jealous" people.