I dont know much about his love life, but he had one long relationship, then the fake one with Taylor Swift, then has apparently been in another 2 year relationship with Zawe. Not sure why that means hes scared of commitment. I know hes 40 and single, but he is an actor. They travel round a lot and people get married later than they used to anyway. I would say the Leo di capri type guy is scared of commitment, hanging out with 20 something Instagram models but not really Tom! Maybe he just cant get a woman to take him seriously?