I hope you don’t have to wait to long on the waiting list for SLT or on results of ASD diagnosis. It’s comforting when other people have been in similarly situations with their children you don’t feel so isolated. I do agree some groups can be snobby, one in particular I went to when he was a bit younger was just a competition of what their kids could do and I’m not into competing as kids are all different and do things at their own pace. Unfortunately the local council one in my area hasn’t reopened (covid). I agree with the bed sharing, my son has been in our bed a lot of nights during the night basically so we could all get some sleep and I don’t mind the snuggles. I am going to get him a toddler bed once husband has been paid to see if that helps as one of previous posters had suggested. It does sound like it’s just the age of our wee ones x@pinksunsetx91
Omg I could have written practically everything you said. Like everything!! This has brought me some comfort knowing I’m not the only one with an “active” toddler. We are actually in the process of possible ASD diagnosis and been accepted for SLT but on a waiting list. We just go to the toddler groups that are managed by the council so they’re free and I have found that the women who run them and even the other parents are so much more understanding and patient than the ones you pay for. I find those ones are full of snobs with perfect children that can do their 12 times tables by age 3! Lol
The one major blessing I have with all his active behaviour is that he sleeps so so well from like 7:30-7:30 but he is basically bedsharing so makes life a lot easier. Some people say that’s lazy parenting but actually we all love to cuddle and one day they won’t want to. Not “making a rod for my own back” as I’m pretty sure he won’t be asking to sleep in mummy’s bed when he’s 12! He is 3 months older than your boy so maybe it’s just the age they’re at!