I'm bigger myself and it's always been a big thing I've been paranoid about.Yeah when you look at her she thin, just a pot belly that's tiny
But is heavy it weight yet I can still carry her in one arm.
I just feel people judge too much that it's a dig at me as I'm overweight. My MIL is a witch when it comes to my weight & feel she judge her grandchild.
I guess her weight is fine then. I need to be off baby site groups.
We took my second to the doctors when she was almost 1.
She's always been on the 90th+ percentile as I said before and she was born at 11lb.
My partner is slim. Both of us went to the appointment.
The doctor the whole time, whenever he mentioned her being 90th percentile, would look at me and speak only to me.
Talking about what to give her to eat, meals ect. All looking at me.
As if it's all my fault.
I may just be paranoid but with everything else, he addressed us both.
Can guarantee if she wasn't on the top end of the percentiles, it wouldn't be directed at me.
He also used the "We need to be setting examples to our children when eating"
Which I'm pretty sure was his way of telling me to lose weight