Her house in that reel isn't just a bit messy is it, it's horrendous. I don't understand how difficult it is to put something in the bin rather than just drop it where you're standing?! That level of mess looks like it requires effort to create ffs. No house needs to be completely spotless, I'm sure there's plenty of dust on the skirting board behind my bed and 300 cat toys under my sofa, but come the fuck on.
I grew up in a house that was quite cluttered/untidy (disabled dad and mum working multiple jobs), and it's given me a lot of anxiety about tidiness and how I present myself now I'm older. I like how she makes it about being neurodivergent too. I'd suggest that if you're capable of the level of planning raising a child requires, you can put an empty packet in the bloody bin.