I have to agree, she didn’t come across that great and I was surprised to be honest by her reasoning?
He’s clearly suffering mentally really, really badly. Him wanting to post those videos I think was out of pure desperation as he believed it may create change in the prison if people found out about it and get them out of lockdown which sounds horrific - them being confined to a cell, hardly any contact with anyone, made to eat the same meal and not being able to shower apart from once a week is just degrading and it’s no wonder his mental health has taken a massive dip and it’s no wonder he’d sacrifice things to try get out of that situation.
I know it can’t be easy being in a relationship with a prisoner let alone one that is struggling and one that she can now hardly speak to or visit but I think the main issue was, she wanted him to keep chasing her and grovelling about how sorry he is, how much he loves her and he hasn’t done that. He put himself first and she clearly cant stand that and can’t stand the fact even more that he’s standing by that and not grovelling to her about sorry he is… as I said, I’m sure it’s not easy so maybe she has just genuinely lost patience with it all, it sounded like a lot and very full on/hard work for the last year, I’m sure that’s affected her mental health also.