I think it would be better for her to find an older man who wouldn’t mind as much and has a lower sex drive than a 32 year old man. Actually it would be better for her to have an older man- period. When she got news of the failed biopsy the first thing she did was ring her uncle (an older educated professional) to help her out and explain what she should do. An older man in her corner would be good for her situation.My God! If they remove her vagina, she will not be able to have sex. Will Matt stay with her. I feel horrendous for her. It truly is awful.
No. Whatever you think of her, this situation is absolutely unimaginable and noone should ever have to go through it. It's horrific beyond belief and as much as we can all try and imagine, none of us can truly know the depths of terror and despair she will be in. I am absolutely heartbroken for her and her behaviour doesn't take that away at all. I don't know how anyone wouldn't to be to be honest. Really sobering tonight seeing it actually all sink in for her. Truly harrowing.Does anyone else here struggle to feel proper sympathy for Tiffany because of what seems to be her wilful ignorance (not to mention Matt's)?
I wonder if it’s similar to M to F transgender surgeries, they use dilators to keep the wound from closing. Hopefully she wouldn’t need to do that because it sounds very bothersome and time consuming, in addition to taking care of two bags.Anyone that would leave their partner because of that is horrible and the person is better off without them!
I think she can have a vagina reconstructed. And I believe once healed an individual could have intercourse with that... I am not sure how it work regarding sensation though.
Very sad.
No the vaginal opening is closed up, there is no hole left. Sometimes they can leave the clitoris and nerves intact so that the woman can still enjoy stimulation etc but there is usually no opening left.I wonder if it’s similar to M to F transgender surgeries, they use dilators to keep the wound from closing. Hopefully she wouldn’t need to do that because it sounds very bothersome and time consuming, in addition to taking care of two bags.
They took muscles from thighs to reconstruct vagina, that is why there must be plastic surgeon.I wonder if it’s similar to M to F transgender surgeries, they use dilators to keep the wound from closing. Hopefully she wouldn’t need to do that because it sounds very bothersome and time consuming, in addition to taking care of two bags.
Yes, vagina would be reconstructed by muscles from her thighsAnyone that would leave their partner because of that is horrible and the person is better off without them!
I think she can have a vagina reconstructed. And I believe once healed an individual could have intercourse with that... I am not sure how it work regarding sensation though.
Very sad.
When you say vagina, do you mean the internal part? The labia minora and majora remain intact right? If there is muscle used by the plastic surgeon to create the vaginal wall, does this mean penetration is still possible? Sorry to sound very bluntThey took muscle from thigh to reconstruct vagina, that is why there must be plastic surgeon.
I have to admit it's really upset me too. I don't subscribe to the whole 'be grateful, people have it worse' thing, but this is one of the worst there is and to think this is actually someone's reality, is really fucking awful. I can't even begin to imagine how she must be feeling and it's seriously devastating. I'm glad she has Amma but my God she needs better than Matt. I hope combined they can get her through this but I'm just not convinced. Part of me thinks the cancer is going to be worse than they expect and they won't bother in the end or that her recovery is going to be really awful for her. I just have a horrid feeling about it all and have since the startThat video had me in tears. It makes up for all the other videos that frustrated me
who´s that gonna be ?I think it would be better for her to find an older man who wouldn’t mind as much and has a lower sex drive than a 32 year old man. Actually it would be better for her to have an older man- period. When she got news of the failed biopsy the first thing she did was ring her uncle (an older educated professional) to help her out and explain what she should do. An older man in her corner would be good for her situation.
In some cases if the patient requests it and they are able to they will reconstruct a vagina. I think it’s done case by case. Its just very sad, however you look at it. Cancer is a bastard.They took muscles from thighs to reconstruct vagina, that is why there must be plastic surgeon.
Yes, erm, newsflash: older men have very high sex drives too. I should know, I'm married to one and it's exhausting.I think it would be better for her to find an older man who wouldn’t mind as much and has a lower sex drive than a 32 year old man. Actually it would be better for her to have an older man- period. When she got news of the failed biopsy the first thing she did was ring her uncle (an older educated professional) to help her out and explain what she should do. An older man in her corner would be good for her situation.
Ive felt bad about this for a while now. My mom had rectal cancer. After a gradual decline it then got worse very quickly. All that time lost for Tiffany does not bode well, I fear.I have to admit it's really upset me too. I don't subscribe to the whole 'be grateful, people have it worse' thing, but this is one of the worst there is and to think this is actually someone's reality, is really fucking awful. I can't even begin to imagine how she must be feeling and it's seriously devastating. I'm glad she has Amma but my God she needs better than Matt. I hope combined they can get her through this but I'm just not convinced. Part of me thinks the cancer is going to be worse than they expect and they won't bother in the end or that her recovery is going to be really awful for her. I just have a horrid feeling about it all and have since the startI know she behaved badly but it's horrific to think her denial could cost her her life.
I mean, even denial tiffany said the surgery was brutal and life changing 8 weeks ago, so..I had never heard of this surgery before finding this forum. I can’t believe such extreme surgeries are performed in 2022. Can’t they just remove the bulk of the mass and treat the cancerous ‘tentacles’ by injecting stem cells or something? Just unbelievable they have to do these London dungeon surgeries.
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