I think she maybe she does have traits that if we look for, we could find them somewhere on the spectrum but I don’t think she has Autism or ADHD.
I don’t see the ‘first sip of the day’, DUD etc as routines she has to follow, more as ways to trick her gullible followers. She wants them to think they’re her friends and they mean a lot to her (so they’ll buy what she sells) plus she’s so dramatic and does a clapback almost daily before not posting first sip of the day/DUD tricking folk into thinking there’s something wrong = them raising her engagement and feeding her ego by giving her validation.
Her house is a tip but I think that’s laziness.
I think she has Munchausen’s Syndrome and a smaller amount of Munchausen by Proxy as I believe she kept Harper off school a lot (when she was lazy and or hungover and didn’t want to do the school run and Aimee’s Dad couldn’t do it). She has health anxiety to a certain extent imo but that is also a great way to get the huns to engage with her too. I don’t believe she gets antibiotics every time she asks for them (so she’ll lie to enhance her story) and she LOVES to tell the CDiff story (which was caused by antibiotics I believe
).
She stays indoors a lot because she pisses people off. I’ve gone back over some of her old threads and one Christmas the postie accidentally put someone else’s mail through her door. She did a story about this and how she wasn’t going to give the stuff to the neighbour because it wasn’t her job! The chances of the story getting back to her neighbour was high (people tend to follow local folk) but I’d didn’t bother her because she thought she was right and she’s selfish. She got a lot of stick for it (which she didn’t expect I don’t think). She wasn’t expecting that and doubled down for a while (“the trollllllls”). It’s things like that that stop her going out. Plus she’s all Billy big balls on camera but if someone confronted her for her actions, she would
tit herself.
I genuinely think her not wanting to take Harper away and being responsible for her is the reason behind that. If you go back to May/June last year her, Harper and her mum went away and it really looked like Wendy did the looking after Harper while Aimee sat and drank cocktails and ate snacks. The anxiety about leaving the resort yesterday I think is because she read here and saw people were taking about safety/Madeline McCann etc. She had that kid for the wrong reasons and now resents her.
Her appearance/not washing her hair I think is laziness but that may also be a trait of ASN.
Sorry for the long post. I have an autistic child and I get a bit prickly when the general twattish-ness of folk who have threads on here is potentially being passed off as ASN. Sometimes she’ll do or say something and I’ll think to myself ‘she’s really thick’ but I do think she is very manipulative and calculating and I don’t know how many autistic people have that thought process/ability. She’s very tricksy with how she words things so she can say “I never said that!” and she loves nothing more than setting her rabid dogs on folk. There’s that age old saying that we’re all on the spectrum somewhere but I don’t see her as being anything but a bit of a
bleep in all honesty