If she does have HMS Herpes, then more fool her. She’s a grown adult (questionable) but at that age surely you’d be responsible for your own sexual health? She’s not a foolish teenager (mind you teenagers are more savvy than this creature)
I wouldn’t dance the bareback tango with anyone after a couple of days (we know it’s days not weeks or months).
I made my now husband,when we were dating, wear a rubber overcoat for a very long time, for months, then I made him and myself get tested. Why? Because I wanted to stay healthy, and both of us were married before and who knows what our partners did or didn’t do.
I understand in the heat of passion things get overlooked, but is it worth it? At best pubic lice at worst HIV. But I guess her fanny comes first.