I feel so, so sad for her kids. Imagine being shouted and sworn at on a morning then sent into school. Poor weans heads will be mashed. But of course it's all about Aimee. How this affects HER. How this makes HER feel.
No-one is saying parenting isn't hard, but this was her choice. Her choice to have 3, soon 4 kids. Her choice to move away from all her support (enablers).
Here's an idea Aimee, maybe if you didn't go to bed at 6pm every night and actually spent the evening getting organised for the next morning then it might be a bit smoother. Maybe if you spent a bit of proper time with your kids - kidS plural, not just wee Megamind - then maybe they wouldn't act up for some attention.
It isn't nice to see anyone in that state, but the fact her go to is to sit on insta videoing herself sobbing just says it all really. You'd speak to your partner, your friend, your family. Not strangers online. Infact, I think the best person Aimee should speak to her is GP because she's clearly not coping and there is no shame in seeking help for that.