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That's so true. I didn't even think of that. So he's had an unsettled day, crying on transport which is understandable and then hospital for bloods?
I couldn’t figure this out either- times made no sense?
she used to be friendly with kisscub and now they are not- there was some definite tea which another SEN mum mentioned and said no more. I think even friends have seen her for the fraud that she is?
Kisscub seems to have completely disappeared which is Jesu her a shame as I really like her
So I had a read of this thread yesterday. Normally with SEN parents I leave well alone, but Kaytee has changed big time and I wanted to see if others opinions were the same as mine. They were.
She really has changed so much and I just can’t understand her extravagance. She must be using the fundraising money surely? I mean, who can afford a hot tub on a whim like that?
I work in the NHS too, full time. My husband also works full time. I looked at the prices of the Shard hotel (can’t remember the name of it
) and nearly fell over. We are debt free and after our bills we are comfortable. But I definitely could not justify staying there unless it was a big occasion. Even on a credit card, it still had to be paid. With the benefits she will receive she needs to be careful showing what she spends otherwise they will be capped further.
She must be earning a decent amount from ads to have a management team now, as they don’t come cheap.
Then the kittens
Oh my! I have owned cats for a long time so watching how those poor kittens are treated is breaking my heart. (I won’t use his name either) Her son isn’t to blame, young children do grab. As the kittens get older though their teeth and claws are going to hurt him. She will then blame the cats for hurting her son. Don’t even get me started on the 100% dry diet for them. Especially as boys, this could cause them urinary tract issues that can be fatal. Seeing her story this morning makes me think she has read and sent herself a message
She is all about the money and self importance now. ‘Oh look at me I am a nurse I’m important’ yes nurses and all members of the NHS are important but the rest of us don’t hold the same self importance. I sometimes lie when people ask me what I do during the current situation
The self importance raised again when she went on about people who do fillers that aren’t nurses. ‘I have the kit to stop reactions’ meh meh meh. Unless you have experience of anaphylaxis your kit means nothing. When I was new in my job my experience from placements was very little and I still needed to ask help and advice. All the gear and no idea as they would say.
She seems to lack friends too. Even pre Covid, she never really spoke of or met up with friends. I guess everyone knew what she was like.
I’ll hand it to her, she’s a good mum, I wouldn’t ever knock that. But the dishonesty and self importance needs to be reigned in.
She really has changed so much and I just can’t understand her extravagance. She must be using the fundraising money surely? I mean, who can afford a hot tub on a whim like that?
I work in the NHS too, full time. My husband also works full time. I looked at the prices of the Shard hotel (can’t remember the name of it
) and nearly fell over. We are debt free and after our bills we are comfortable. But I definitely could not justify staying there unless it was a big occasion. Even on a credit card, it still had to be paid. With the benefits she will receive she needs to be careful showing what she spends otherwise they will be capped further. She must be earning a decent amount from ads to have a management team now, as they don’t come cheap.
Then the kittens
Oh my! I have owned cats for a long time so watching how those poor kittens are treated is breaking my heart. (I won’t use his name either) Her son isn’t to blame, young children do grab. As the kittens get older though their teeth and claws are going to hurt him. She will then blame the cats for hurting her son. Don’t even get me started on the 100% dry diet for them. Especially as boys, this could cause them urinary tract issues that can be fatal. Seeing her story this morning makes me think she has read and sent herself a message She is all about the money and self importance now. ‘Oh look at me I am a nurse I’m important’ yes nurses and all members of the NHS are important but the rest of us don’t hold the same self importance. I sometimes lie when people ask me what I do during the current situation
The self importance raised again when she went on about people who do fillers that aren’t nurses. ‘I have the kit to stop reactions’ meh meh meh. Unless you have experience of anaphylaxis your kit means nothing. When I was new in my job my experience from placements was very little and I still needed to ask help and advice. All the gear and no idea as they would say.
She seems to lack friends too. Even pre Covid, she never really spoke of or met up with friends. I guess everyone knew what she was like.
I’ll hand it to her, she’s a good mum, I wouldn’t ever knock that. But the dishonesty and self importance needs to be reigned in.
So I think kisscub was close to the mum that sorted her holiday in Dubai and sourced stuff for her, bought groceries etc, and was there with her helping her and was upset when Kaytees social media was all about being on her own and doing everything herself... I think Grace stayed friends with the other mum and not Kaytee.
The hot tub was paid for by fundraising money, she said she was getting it as “hydrotherapy” for her son and that she won’t use it herself. I think it’s raised some eyebrows because it’s not advisable for young children to use hot tubs.
The hot tub was paid for by fundraising money, she said she was getting it as “hydrotherapy” for her son and that she won’t use it herself. I think it’s raised some eyebrows because it’s not advisable for young children to use hot tubs.
She's earning loads from ads, they typically pay between £750-3k per ad and she does at least 6-10 a month. Add to this her 80k fundraising pot, and she still complains about carers and money. The moaning about her job is tiresome, we're all stressed and tired in all jobs.
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She holds herself in very high regard! She’s been a practising nurse for all of 5 minute, but acts like she is a consultant
It’s so funny to watch! Also how can she bash people doing fillers when she was doing the same thing without any experience just a degree! She’s so hypocritical!
I don’t think she has any real friends, as you never see her with anyone. It’s pathetic that she’d rather spend so much time online doing a million stories to show how extravagant her life is, instead of spending time with friends
The moaning is absolutely tiresome! She needs to learn about gratitude, nothing is never good enough for her.
It’s so funny to watch! Also how can she bash people doing fillers when she was doing the same thing without any experience just a degree! She’s so hypocritical!
I don’t think she has any real friends, as you never see her with anyone. It’s pathetic that she’d rather spend so much time online doing a million stories to show how extravagant her life is, instead of spending time with friends
She’ll soon have to stop claiming benefits if she’s earning so much.
The moaning is absolutely tiresome! She needs to learn about gratitude, nothing is never good enough for her.
Can’t be that stretched for time- she made a fashion reel of her son’s clothing. What a total waste of time.
I know the whole truth about her lies and deceptions, she lost true real life friendships through greed and lies. She is not accepted by many of the other SEN parents.Imagine having a child with needs way way higher than her and receiving a fraction of what she does,struggling to feed your family and you see her go to Lanzarote,Cape Verde,Madrid,Venice,Paris and Dubai in 18 months and raising over £100,000 for a standing chair that was actually funded by the NHS it would make you feel pissed off.
I think it’s sad that she has used her son for money making,she knows that showing the most graphic moments of his vomiting, hospital admissions and appointments is going to really pull on her followers heart strings.She is the most beggy of all insta accounts, to post exactly what to do for optimum engagement to support a poor single Mother is pretty tit,nobody else could get away with that.
She now has management so expect an influx of ubiquitous adds and she will leave her awful NHS job which she has been gagged from discussing on social media,I am sure no medical staff can talk about their workplace publicly but to an online audience of 75,000 ? she is nuts! She used the title of ‘nurse’ for years yet only qualified this year and has worked 2 days a week for about 2 months.
Ahhhhhh, she makes me so angry
I was told you could claim back money donated to her Gofundme as the original reason for financial help was not actually valid ( the standing chair was funded she didn’t need to pay anything) so I was going to claim back the £50 I donated from Gofundme but couldn’t be arsed!And been to her last Personal Training session before lockdown,who can afford that when she posts that she only gets £69 a week carers allowance
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She should’ve been honest about the NHS funding that standing chair from the start. She is very deceitful and manipulative! Her lifestyle is not representable of the SEN community at all.
One thing I don’t understand is that she’ll bash her baby daddy and say things like he is inconsistent or unreliable, but as soon as she’s in London or a hospital he is left holding the baby
surely you wouldn’t leave your child with someone you don’t trust! And they were able to go away together camping
One thing I don’t understand is that she’ll bash her baby daddy and say things like he is inconsistent or unreliable, but as soon as she’s in London or a hospital he is left holding the baby
surely you wouldn’t leave your child with someone you don’t trust! And they were able to go away together campingI personally reckon they have a much better relationship than she portrays, she can’t play the single parent card if she admits to him helping. She uses everyone in life, including her son. Must be such a sad existence.She should’ve been honest about the NHS funding that standing chair from the start. She is very deceitful and manipulative! Her lifestyle is not representable of the SEN community at all.
One thing I don’t understand is that she’ll bash her baby daddy and say things like he is inconsistent or unreliable, but as soon as she’s in London or a hospital he is left holding the baby
Yeah that little boy is with the dad quite a bit he seems? Yet she says he is not in his life a lot?
He’s definitely not the deadbeat she made him out to be!
why lie about getting help though? As a parent you’d take all the help you could get and be grateful
She’s quitting her job soon isn’t she... having the carers package withdrawn will be her get out clause, even though she appears to have the money to pay for them.
With that said, isn’t she training her friend to be her sons carer? If so, she doesn’t need to quit
With that said, isn’t she training her friend to be her sons carer? If so, she doesn’t need to quit
100% quitting soon! Dont even know why she took the job...she was moaning about it before even starting it!She’s quitting her job soon isn’t she... having the carers package withdrawn will be her get out clause, even though she appears to have the money to pay for them.
With that said, isn’t she training her friend to be her sons carer? If so, she doesn’t need to quit
She takes for granted the medical deliveries ( cost to the NHS every month ££££, cost to Kaytee 0) But her 60 hours a week carers would cost her about £7,200 a month! I would love to see more gratitude from her.She’s quitting her job soon isn’t she... having the carers package withdrawn will be her get out clause, even though she appears to have the money to pay for them.
With that said, isn’t she training her friend to be her sons carer? If so, she doesn’t need to quit
I have a child with life limiting diagnoses, been through the same fights with continuing care etc. We didn't get care hours either and my daughter is far more complex than Jaxon. I can't even imagine the difference 60 hours care would make to my life, or even an involved ex, or a huge go fund me account, or a mate who could be trained up as a carer. Yet all she does is moan about Jaxon and the extra work he is while showing herself having long baths/going to the gym/nights out in London/leasing the most expensive motability cars. This isn't the reality for the vast majority of us with kids with complex needs who are just about keeping our heads above water and Im dismayed that people might think this is what we do with our lives.
She uses Jason for attention and its revolting, how undignified to have your bowel habits and your vomiting shared on social media by your own mother. He's a clever kid, he may well understand all this one day, and even if he didn't its not okay IMO.
She uses Jason for attention and its revolting, how undignified to have your bowel habits and your vomiting shared on social media by your own mother. He's a clever kid, he may well understand all this one day, and even if he didn't its not okay IMO.
I have to agree 100% with you. I’m a single parent with a disability which means I can’t work, my youngest is autistic and I get very little support. I live on very little. I’m lucky enough to currently have a mobility vehicle, but one where the advance payment is zero. The advance payment for the car Kaytee has is not cheap. There are plenty of other suitable cars that don’t cost that much. A Hot Tub could make such a difference to my pain, but it’s just not possible to afford one. I may sound jealous, and maybe I am, but as you say it’s people living like Kaytee (expensive hotels, holidays abroad etc) that give people the wrong impression. I can only dream of visiting the places she does. Sending you lots of love
The problem with having a friend as a carer is that if something goes wrong or a mistake is made, the friendship will end and she’ll be back to begging for help.
I get the impression that she thinks she can do things better without continuing care and working her 2 shifts a week. But the influencer market is fickle and she’ll burn through that go fund me money so fast, especially with her obsession with designer items.
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