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The most important thing is the perception she is giving people about sen parents by claiming to be a sen advocate. Her t shirt moto should be 'advocating for myself' or 'attention seeking for $ on the gram'

To talk about that you have to talk about where the money come from, why and what's been spent on what. If she had fundraised for something that actually needed funding and spent that money on what it was supposed to be for she wouldn't have any problems with people questioning her. Even the amount of money raised would not have been a issue if she was greatful for it and didnt continue to portray herself as needing help and being poor.

Instead she raised a high amount but has continued to play the poor single mum of a SEN child card. For alot of people that's not a card they play, it's their reality. She will say how bad things are for her but then adds it's a nationwide problem and other people are in the same boat. Theres not many in kaytees boat wearing Valentino's. It leaves a bad taste when someone abuses other peoples realities to get them self some dollar.

She will say people troll her or are jealous of her even if nobody mentions what she spends cash on, it's good content, gets some sympathy and engagement.
I can relate in the sense that she is not portatraying the single mum life of any single mums that I know (myself included).
 
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I've always wondered why her followers don't see the way she speaks to them is disgusting. She is so blunt and aggressive. You'd think she'd rein it in if she's actually telling her followers she needs them to comment, like and share her ads.
Sometimes she puts on the fake nice angelic voice and that slips and she's some kind of gangsta 😂
Talks down to people.
Thinks she's the best at every single thing she does. Makes out she's a qualified highly professional nurse... Yet openly admits missing her sons life saving medications, forgets to feed him (she wonders why his weight has declined since leaving hospital) tells her followers she's exhausted... I for one wouldn't want her looking after me in hospital knowing she's "exhausted" and not practising what she's supposed to do in a hospital to her own home life at home.
I'm at a loss as to why she takes on so much but then.... She has the time. With her carers, school, his dad having him and the few hours her mother has her son.. She hardly seems to have him?! The things she does always seem to be on a whim.

The botox and lip fillers.... That came about straight after the fundraiser iut of no where. She'd never mentioned her interest before, then soon as she got the fundraiser money... She has herself a table, the kit which is supposed to be a heck of a lot of money, etc... How did she afford all of that to then get fed up of it a few months down the line? She openly said she had wasted filler that cost hundreds...
She seems to be one of these who wakes up and decides she's going to be a rocket scientist one day, asks recommendations on it then either does it and gets bored of it or it never comes to anything.
 
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I did nearly once message her following the hot tub purchase. I chose not to because I knew I’d be snapped at. Because she said she purchased it for J’s benefit. Now, I personally do not have any shade on what she ends up spending donations on (people need to appreciate that their donations aren’t necessarily going to go on what they think- that is why I don’t donate to anything Instagram), but hot tubs are awful breeding grounds for harmful bacteria. You can clean them all you want, but you can never be sure the bad bacteria has been killed with all the pipe work. My toddler niece has a respiratory condition and has been told she can never use them when she’s older either, to not even stand near one. So I was pretty shocked that she was having a two year old in one. J is clinically vulnerable, and can be hospitalised for a respiratory infection. And like someone said, the peg too is an area that could become affected by it. I saw anyone had a comment about the tub in general got pounced on, so I couldn’t be arsed to say anything. I wondered why a nurse would have one for her kid.
 
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This begging for stuff is so annoying.

she will be gifted a mattress and will do an unboxing of it etc. So predictable.

also why does she never strap Jaxon in his car seat properly? It is so dangerous
 
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This begging for stuff is so annoying.

she will be gifted a mattress and will do an unboxing of it etc. So predictable.

also why does she never strap Jaxon in his car seat properly? It is so dangerous
There's also been the letting him play with knives and forks, throwing them around and bashing himself in face with them.
There's a few things that are very questionable that are very dangerous. Your right, the constant beg is so noticeable. She follows a lot of influences and I can bet she's followed and watched how they do it. She's quite intelligent in a way (I hate to say that) as she knows the tricks and trades of being an influencer, throwing in the sympathy others don't have as an extra selling point.
 
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‘You deserve it’ is a frequently written comment after she spends huge amounts of money or posts something gifted. She had £550 micro blading done in London recently #gifted I truly do not understand why people think she is SO deserving of such luxuries that have zero benefit to her son.
I wonder how much of the gofundme money she has spent on herself?
 
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I would like to strap Jaxon into his car seat properly. That harness is going to do him no favours in a crash.
 
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I think the only reason why people focus on what shes spends is because she paints this picture that she needs more money and doesnt have much. If she had got the fundraiser money but then made it clear that her life is not as bad anymore financially and showed she was greatful people had helped change her life, many wouldn't have minded.

Instead she has continued the woe is me act, and that's all it is now. A act, which is disrespectful to those who's life is really like that. It's like these people who fake being seriously ill, its lying and disrespecting on a different level.

It's obvious she has spent alot on things that dont benefit J, people will talk about it when shes telling people shes worse off. She gets new people following her so some wont know about the fundraisers, they will be looking at this 'voice of the sen community' wondering why sen families complain about the difficulties we face when shes wearing £700 trainers.

It's more about the image shes projecting, she could have done everything shes done if she just made it clear she is now a privileged sen parent with not much experience of the difficulties we all face due to the help shes had and the fact shes only had 3 years experience of being a sen parent. She cant claim to be a advocate for the sen community when she doesnt understand or respect what most families go through who dont have her support and platform. She got carers extended only because she kicked up a fuss on a national scale, other families go to court costing thousands.

If she thought it was fine for her to blow Js money and she deserves it, why doesnt she just say 'hey look at this hotel room I've paid for with the donations' or 'thanks for the donations I love my valentinos' If she thinks it's fine and not anybody's business to question it, why doesnt she just say? Because she knows deep down shes being cheeky and taking advantage of people who become invested in strangers on the internet they feel sorry for.

I hope she cant sing or she will be on the next tv talent show with her poor single parent sob story
 
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Asking peoples coffee preferences on an #ad for clothes.... just me or is that just a ploy to get faux engagement......
 
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#girlgang........3.2.1. Oh all the trolls on tattle are so mean, I’m being bullied, I’m starting a petition to have it taken down wah wah wah.....change the record- I give it another day and she will be moaning about tattle! Should be good though because will probably send some more people over here, maybe some of her new colleagues who must think she’s so stuck up telling them how much better she is than all of them!
 
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Asking peoples coffee preferences on an #ad for clothes.... just me or is that just a ploy to get faux engagement......
Just seen what you're on about 🤣 getting gifted items from river island and doing affiliated links and ensuring she gets engagement by asking people about coffee? Obviously engagement begging, like she gives a damn what people think about coffee. Next it will be 'heres a ad for a vacuum...who uses tampons and who uses pads'

I think she read this thread earlier and saw my comment about getting ready to do a photoshoot in her new corner shrine so switched up and decided to pose next to the kittens cupboard instead
 
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"you actually told me your coffee preferences" - well you did ask?! This is like she's mocking people who replied.
 
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Just seen what you're on about 🤣 getting gifted items from river island and doing affiliated links and ensuring she gets engagement by asking people about coffee? Obviously engagement begging, like she gives a damn what people think about coffee. Next it will be 'heres a ad for a vacuum...who uses tampons and who uses pads'

I think she read this thread earlier and saw my comment about getting ready to do a photoshoot in her new corner shrine so switched up and decided to pose next to the kittens cupboard instead
Sorry, pose next to the kittens cupboard has killed me 😂😂
 
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I wasted a good hour or so trying to find out where J’s latest trashy looking designer trainers were from and now it turns out they are RI 🤮
Although I’m kind of pleased I thought I’d lost my knack of putting a price tag on her lavish purchases!
 
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Was she seriously charging £20 for a calendar??
Shes ordered her super king pointless bed, now she’s hinting for a mattress.

Some of the companies she does ADs for ought to be contacted and asked if they really want this type of person working for them.
She wont be paying for the bed, she hinted about beds awhile ago and started following a bed company back when she was asking peoples thoughts on a super king and a 4 poster ~ the company is called Get Laid Beds 🤣🤣🤣 maybe that's why shes asking for a good mattress
 
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I really want to know something ~ The engagement party? What happened that night because I got told that's why she had to get away and suhir (dubai holiday mom) felt sorry for her and helped her go over there? Does any1 know?
 
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I really want to know something ~ The engagement party? What happened that night because I got told that's why she had to get away and suhir (dubai holiday mom) felt sorry for her and helped her go over there? Does any1 know?
She put a story up about it a while back after they’d broke up when she decided he was the worst human ever and tried to out him for her sob story. I think she said something along the lines of they’d called of the engagement on the same night so that might be why?

Although a few months before, she shared a photo of a £700,000 house her “friend” was looking at buying (I’m assuming it was her then fiancé) that she was asking for ideas for decorating in, so how she would have played the poverty single mum card then I don’t know! She was definitely all about the money with him, it’s only since they broke up she’s decided he’s the most abusive person emotionally, but that didn’t seem to phase her when he was buying her designer bags and whisking her off to Paris and Venice 🤔
 
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She put a story up about it a while back after they’d broke up when she decided he was the worst human ever and tried to out him for her sob story. I think she said something along the lines of they’d called of the engagement on the same night so that might be why?

Although a few months before, she shared a photo of a £700,000 house her “friend” was looking at buying (I’m assuming it was her then fiancé) that she was asking for ideas for decorating in, so how she would have played the poverty single mum card then I don’t know! She was definitely all about the money with him, it’s only since they broke up she’s decided he’s the most abusive person emotionally, but that didn’t seem to phase her when he was buying her designer bags and whisking her off to Paris and Venice 🤔
Not that it mattered but I was absolutely fascinated by what he did career wise. He evidently was on a very comfortable salary and was also away for long periods of time. I couldn’t work it out!
 
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I wasted a good hour or so trying to find out where J’s latest trashy looking designer trainers were from and now it turns out they are RI 🤮
Although I’m kind of pleased I thought I’d lost my knack of putting a price tag on her lavish purchases!
Ha,me too! Google’s Dior baby trainers 😂
 
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