He only became the “abusive ex” when she found out he cheated or whatever and she stopped getting all the designer bags, belts, glasses and trainers he was funding for her!
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The disparity with what fundraiser gets attention is down to how things are shared. If you can get someone to do stories where they are talking and explaining to their followers, those fundraisers will get the attention they need and donations come in fast. Like the homeless man go fund me Kaytee shared, where she encouraged all her followers to donate. If one influencer jumps on something, the others do their performative posts jumping on the same thing.
Other go fund me/just giving fundraisers struggle because they cant get people to share or they just do a quick repost to their stories with no explanation/pleas to their followers.
When Kaytee took to her stories to get people to donate to the homeless man, other sen parents had already asked her to share their fundraisers. Most of these parents had shared all of Kaytees posts when she needed help. The dubai mum set up Kisscubs fundraiser for the trike, Kaytee should have shared it as she was friends with kisscub.
The Dubai mum deactivated her insta account. You would have to ask her why but I assume it is because of the online bullying that kept happening. Even after all that had settled, Kaytee would do stories about trolls and imply things were connected to the dubai mum when they wasnt. It was cyber bullying with Kaytee pretending she was the victim when in reality it was the other way round.
Anyone with common sense can see she’s not been trolled here. There’s genuine concern about how she isn’t representative of the SEN community and how’s she’s been very manipulative with her lies.
I wouldn’t put it past her commenting on here, then making out its trolls. She loves to play the victim card all the time. My sympathy for her has long gone, instead it’s with all the other SEN parents who don’t get as much help, support and financial aid that she does. They are the real heroes in my eyes.
She gives no people about other fundraisers, as long as hers has more in the bank! She’s got a big enough following to at least share 1/2 fundraisers a week but she doesn’t want to.
Kaytee wants all the attention on her and wants to be the face of the SEN community. It’s all bull.
She didn’t even have the balls to call out Susie Verill who slated the SEN community with her vile tweets, along with black people, gypsies, asylum seekers etc.
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she posted a link about “cancel culture” and how it’s awful at the time Susan was outted.
(her past tweets were truly vile - was there a minority she didn’t offend?)
but kaytee wouldn’t say a thing because of how much money she got from her go fund me.....
Theres a lot she could be sharing each week and people would be more forgiving if she did help others. Shes not going to call out Susie, she purposely aimed to get in with the insta influencers, she would pay to go to mum events in london knowing there would be a few influencers there. If you speak out about one, the others will close ranks.
Kaytee is different now though to how she used to be. Her accent has changed and its not how she talks offline. She's adopted a insta friendly voice and got rid of the 'white girl who thinks shes black' voice, although you will hear hints of this occasionally when her guard slips.
Her ex isn't as manipulative/abusive as she will have people believe either. She has focused on him being rich but his line of work is what brings in his money, he works hard for it and quite a few have mentioned certain things that have come from people who know him that dont fit with the image she has given of him. She gave the impression of being a single parent using the excuse he worked away alot. So do soldiers in the same location that he worked in, they all get to come home every few weeks but you dont see soldiers wives claiming to be single. From what I have been told, he got fed up of her using him for the nice gifts, not being acknowledged for anything, her attitude and certain things not adding up.
I didn’t even know she had done this to another mum! That’s awful. Why would you even imply that you could blab sensitive information out to thousands
Her accent has definitely changed which is too funny
I remember her asking her followers about things their ex’s had done to them, and sharing them all over her stories.
she seemed to think because her ex earned a very good wage, that he should’ve lent her money to clear her credit card debt! Maybe stop spending money to keep up with appearances!
The fact that she would pay to go to events in London is pathetic and desperate. She’ll do anything to become insta famous. She never spoke about about Susie Verill because she didn’t want to lose the go fund me money! How embarrassing, how can you not call out racism, ableist comments and derogatory comments because of money. She gives no people about Black Lives Matter. It’s just another bandwagon to jump onto now and again.
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During one of the events she paid to go to last December she decided to mock a fundraiser that was happening to help fund a little boy in Africa with cerebral palsy and epilepsy. He was in desperate need of equipment and it was suggested that just a £5 donation each would make a huge difference to him.
She was filmed at the event and shared the mentioned story of her laughing while other influencers pretended to wave £5 notes at her. Talking about how well off she was.
It was sickening.
Yet she is given free coffees while she’s in hospital with J (some kind of app where you gift them to people). She’s always showing how little petrol she has. She displays her parking tickets (often received because she abuses disabled bays) and even shared her bailif demand recently. All so she will be sent money. She’s sent online shopping from strangers for god sake. And her thank you’s are so lame and half hearted.
Firefly (a company I myself had championed for years) gifted her a product called an upsie. It’s to help children who can’t walk or weight bare to experience walking. She shared one still image of it on her stories and has never mentioned it again. Mostly because J did not need it. Something other SEN families can only dream of receiving she seemed embarrassed to endorse!!!.
She was filmed at the event and shared the mentioned story of her laughing while other influencers pretended to wave £5 notes at her. Talking about how well off she was.
It was sickening.
Yet she is given free coffees while she’s in hospital with J (some kind of app where you gift them to people). She’s always showing how little petrol she has. She displays her parking tickets (often received because she abuses disabled bays) and even shared her bailif demand recently. All so she will be sent money. She’s sent online shopping from strangers for god sake. And her thank you’s are so lame and half hearted.
Firefly (a company I myself had championed for years) gifted her a product called an upsie. It’s to help children who can’t walk or weight bare to experience walking. She shared one still image of it on her stories and has never mentioned it again. Mostly because J did not need it. Something other SEN families can only dream of receiving she seemed embarrassed to endorse!!!.
The Walker was free? Are you serious? It’s a few hundred pound at most (you can buy them on eBay) and she still hasn’t even paid for that herself out of the funds?
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I remember this! Another SEN Mum had shared a story about the fundraiser, asking if anyone could spare a fiver... The next minute Kaytee is sharing stories of herself being asked if she could lend a fiver to one of the influencers at an event and waving a 5pound note looking smug at the camera.
Such a caring, kind advocate for the SEN community isn't she.
I didn’t even know she had done this to another mum! That’s awful. Why would you even imply that you could blab sensitive information out to thousands
Her accent has definitely changed which is too funny
I remember her asking her followers about things their ex’s had done to them, and sharing them all over her stories.
she seemed to think because her ex earned a very good wage, that he should’ve lent her money to clear her credit card debt! Maybe stop spending money to keep up with appearances!
The fact that she would pay to go to events in London is pathetic and desperate. She’ll do anything to become insta famous. She never spoke about about Susie Verill because she didn’t want to lose the go fund me money! How embarrassing, how can you not call out racism, ableist comments and derogatory comments because of money. She gives no people about Black Lives Matter. It’s just another bandwagon to jump onto now and again.
Most wont know about this other incident, nobody has ever mentioned it on here either. It's not that people haven't wanted to call Kaytee out about it, she probably doesn't even realise people know or noticed what she did in her stories. It's just that it's more important to not let this get out in order to save that family more heartache. If it did get out, it's the type of thing that would show Kaytees true colours, how spitefully manipulative she is alongside being immature, with little consideration for SEN families and what they face. You cant advocate for SEN families if you behave like this with this particular situation, as it's something some SEN families face. Her following would decrease instantly if it did get out, not many would follow somebody whos cruel and heartless on that level.
All the BLM stuff was performative. Being woke is a must if you want to be a influencer. Susie said things in the past but so have alot of influencers, alot wont call her out when they know they are just as bad and dont want people snooping into their past.
Her ex paid for alot from what has been said, he might not have cleared her credit card debts but why should he when he was kept secret and never acknowledged for everything he did for them. He was there on one of the holidays that she made out she travelled solo on. You cant use people and then expect to use them a little bit more.
Now she has to use the gram to get things. Like 'I need to book a hotel but are they all closed' that's shes done today. Her DMs will now be full of people offering to help
How can someone who complains about having no time to sleep / eat etc. and be desperate for the carers she may be losing.. Be now looking at “self improvement” courses. Why is she continuously trying to pretend to be super woman? If she didn’t take on so much stuff she would probably have more time for herself.
There’s no course that could improve her and her self important attitude 
Surely you would start off small first, buy a book about it then work your way up if you feel the need to.
Surely you would start off small first, buy a book about it then work your way up if you feel the need to.
During one of the events she paid to go to last December she decided to mock a fundraiser that was happening to help fund a little boy in Africa with cerebral palsy and epilepsy. He was in desperate need of equipment and it was suggested that just a £5 donation each would make a huge difference to him.
She was filmed at the event and shared the mentioned story of her laughing while other influencers pretended to wave £5 notes at her. Talking about how well off she was.
It was sickening.
Yet she is given free coffees while she’s in hospital with J (some kind of app where you gift them to people). She’s always showing how little petrol she has. She displays her parking tickets (often received because she abuses disabled bays) and even shared her bailif demand recently. All so she will be sent money. She’s sent online shopping from strangers for god sake. And her thank you’s are so lame and half hearted.
Firefly (a company I myself had championed for years) gifted her a product called an upsie. It’s to help children who can’t walk or weight bare to experience walking. She shared one still image of it on her stories and has never mentioned it again. Mostly because J did not need it. Something other SEN families can only dream of receiving she seemed embarrassed to endorse!!!.
The Walker was free? Are you serious? It’s a few hundred pound at most (you can buy them on eBay) and she still hasn’t even paid for that herself out of the funds?
Shes done this quite a few times with things that has been sent out to her. She will share things weeks later saying she forgot at the time.
All this where she says she has no time to do anything is false. It takes quite a while to do stories and put subtitles, if she was really pushed for time you wouldn't see her on instagram at all.
Most sen parents come and go on instagram because of having little time, nobody bats a eyelid because they know if someone isn't posting it's because they have alot going on. Kaytee is one of the only ones that posts constantly so she should have time to be thankful to those sending her things. Small companies send things out to people like her because they need the exposure. I know companies run by sen parents who have sent her things and are still waiting now for her to post about them.
The fundraiser for the little boy in Africa incident was shared amongst sen parents at the time. So many of us were trying to help fundraise for him. Some mentioned a similar incident that involved one of the well known sen parent pages and a screenshot of a conversation where kaytee made derogatory comments. She isnt the sen advocate she claims to be at all
She does have time, Js dad has him, her mum has him at the weekend for a few hours, she is still getting carers for the time being and she has 15 hours a week of nursery time. If his sleep monitor logs that he is having between 10 and 11 hours a night of sleep shes getting more time than your average parent.
How is she going to fit in self improvement courses when didnt she say she was starting a new degree a few months ago that she hasnt mentioned much about since. Its just another plea for someone to send her free things.
Shes now done a vid to encourage people to send off for swab kits. I know parents who have been asking her to share posts about their children trying to find a suitable match and they didnt even get a reply or was told she couldnt do it at the time but would do it next week, but that never happened.
Ashley Cain goes viral with his little girl, celebs and influencers are sharing so she jumps on it too sharing and now shes doing vids to encourage people to send off for kits knowing full well other influencers will see it and think shes brilliant so will share it. Shes only done it for the exposure for herself. If she cared she would have been doing this for the sen families in the same situation who asked her months ago to do appeals for them
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I cannot believe she done thatDuring one of the events she paid to go to last December she decided to mock a fundraiser that was happening to help fund a little boy in Africa with cerebral palsy and epilepsy. He was in desperate need of equipment and it was suggested that just a £5 donation each would make a huge difference to him.
She was filmed at the event and shared the mentioned story of her laughing while other influencers pretended to wave £5 notes at her. Talking about how well off she was.
It was sickening.
Yet she is given free coffees while she’s in hospital with J (some kind of app where you gift them to people). She’s always showing how little petrol she has. She displays her parking tickets (often received because she abuses disabled bays) and even shared her bailif demand recently. All so she will be sent money. She’s sent online shopping from strangers for god sake. And her thank you’s are so lame and half hearted.
Firefly (a company I myself had championed for years) gifted her a product called an upsie. It’s to help children who can’t walk or weight bare to experience walking. She shared one still image of it on her stories and has never mentioned it again. Mostly because J did not need it. Something other SEN families can only dream of receiving she seemed embarrassed to endorse!!!.
The Walker was free? Are you serious? It’s a few hundred pound at most (you can buy them on eBay) and she still hasn’t even paid for that herself out of the funds?
That is despicable! How would she feel if someone done that to her child!
Who were the other influencers who joined in the mocking?
Why would you need to do a self improvement course? Didn’t she harp on about about starting a masters?
She makes life harder than it needs to be. Who the duck gets kittens, wants to start a masters and then is crying about losing carers?
She has jumped on the Ashley Cain bandwagon! Why doesn’t she share other SEN families? Because she doesn’t care. It’s all performative to appear like she’s this genuine caring individual when that’s far from the truth.
what a fraud
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Glad someone mentioned her mum! When I started following her I assumed she had issues with her family and no contact because she never mentions them and says she has zero help. Then showed the video on her birthday of what seemed like quite a loving family.
I’m sure she had a dig at kisscub about the blended diet thing too? She was all hollier than thou about how she was doing blended diets but it was a bit of a subtle dig that other parents were just using the tube food?
Same she never mentioned her parents! Turns out her mum helps and she visits her grandma too! The lies are just too much! She purposely hides information in order to appear like a poor single mum. She must think people are dumb
I also find her rude when some of her followers offer her advice and she is really dismissive and says she has already done what they are advising!
Also to me the little boy seems to be doing a lot better! She posts so much of him but he seems to be making good progress, maybe because he is older and less babyish now!
Also to me the little boy seems to be doing a lot better! She posts so much of him but he seems to be making good progress, maybe because he is older and less babyish now!
Things haven't sat right with me for a while now. I'm glad this thread is here, maybe people will realise what she's like as more stories come out about her.
After the whole Dubai situation, I realised what a fraud is she is! I cannot believe I fell for her ‘woe is me’ bull sob story
I asked our consultant at GOSH about a hot tub after seeing Kaytee get Js, I wondered if it would help my daughter too. I was told under no circumstances to let her get in one let alone buy our own. I was told she would be at high risk from the legionella bacteria that can cause legionnaires or Pontiac fever. As she is tube fed the tube site is more prone to letting bacteria in and even if the water was changed each time there would still be a huge chance of infection. She explained we would have to constantly check the water and even that might not be enough. She also explained no young child should be in hot tubs due to dehydration and not being able to regulate body temperature but then went on to explain how the skin around her tube is alot thinner than your average child and even though she is 6, being tube fed means she is underweight so definitely wouldn't cope with being able to regulate her temperature in one.
We was also advised against getting a cat for similar reasons, those with a lower immune system are more prone to the different bacterias cats carry, we was told to wait until she is older before considering a cat.
Theees some sen parents who wont do fundraisers because of the backlash kaytee has had and they dont want to be put in the same bracket as her, incase people think they are abusing it too. I know really desperate sen parents in awful situations and they haven't told people incase people think they are being like her.
Jules is a good dad from a good family, he does not deserve being made out to be a bad dad all the time. He does pull his weight when hes allowed to. He can be more involved when shes single, when she was with her ex he was pushed aside or used when she needed someone to have J so they could go away. She invited him on the glamping trip only because she was now single, would he have been asked if she was still with her ex? No, it was done so her ex would see she was away with him.
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