Thenursemum

[Spyglass]

Unfortunately I think everything she has done has been planned from the start.
I believe she's always wanted to be an influencer.... And what better way to use her son to get into that world.
The filming from hospital. Making ads whilst her son is laying in a hospital bed. The whole having carers stay with her son in hospital whilst she went home to clean. To get her shopping parcels. You know the £200 parcel Zara lost. She buys more. Then proceeds to tag Zara in reels of her son wearing their clothes (you know on the limited time she has) saying he is model material. Begging for a modelling contract for him.
Every rush to hospital there is a picture or video of her son in an extremely vulnerable state. Where is the privacy!!? Why take a video or photo of your child in clear pain and discomfort!?
I feel there should be a cut off point. However I'm seeing no privacy what so ever for her son.
There has been a few times a hospital admission has come when she's bought herself something expensive or got back from holiday. And there's always trolls mentioned at those points.
Hair and full set of makeup and lashes on in hospital.
When most complex needs parents are walking around a hospital with birds nest hair do, no makeup and bags from living in the hospital with their sick child.
Nothing adds up in any aspect of her life.

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

I asked our consultant at GOSH about a hot tub after seeing Kaytee get Js, I wondered if it would help my daughter too. I was told under no circumstances to let her get in one let alone buy our own. I was told she would be at high risk from the legionella bacteria that can cause legionnaires or Pontiac fever. As she is tube fed the tube site is more prone to letting bacteria in and even if the water was changed each time there would still be a huge chance of infection. She explained we would have to constantly check the water and even that might not be enough. She also explained no young child should be in hot tubs due to dehydration and not being able to regulate body temperature but then went on to explain how the skin around her tube is alot thinner than your average child and even though she is 6, being tube fed means she is underweight so definitely wouldn't cope with being able to regulate her temperature in one.

We was also advised against getting a cat for similar reasons, those with a lower immune system are more prone to the different bacterias cats carry, we was told to wait until she is older before considering a cat.

Theees some sen parents who wont do fundraisers because of the backlash kaytee has had and they dont want to be put in the same bracket as her, incase people think they are abusing it too. I know really desperate sen parents in awful situations and they haven't told people incase people think they are being like her.

Jules is a good dad from a good family, he does not deserve being made out to be a bad dad all the time. He does pull his weight when hes allowed to. He can be more involved when shes single, when she was with her ex he was pushed aside or used when she needed someone to have J so they could go away. She invited him on the glamping trip only because she was now single, would he have been asked if she was still with her ex? No, it was done so her ex would see she was away with him.

I thought the same, I was always under the impression children under 5/6 should not be in hot tubs due to their risk of overheating. Never mind someone who is it higher risk of infection from his tube site, also, she also says about his low potassium, does she not realise putting him in a hot tub is going to cause his electrolytes to go off if he’s sweating and trying to regulate his temp, causing his potassium to drop even further??

 

[OutrageouslyScarlet]

I thought the same, I was always under the impression children under 5/6 should not be in hot tubs due to their risk of overheating. Never mind someone who is it higher risk of infection from his tube site, also, she also says about his low potassium, does she not realise putting him in a hot tub is going to cause his electrolytes to go off if he’s sweating and trying to regulate his temp, causing his potassium to drop even further??

You’d think so given she’s the top nurse in nursing ever.

 

[YomAsal]

well I feel like Ive found my people here I knew a few of my SEN instafam knew exactly what she was like but it seems to be more widespread than I realised, now how do I find you all on insta without outing ourselves?!

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

Glad someone mentioned her mum! When I started following her I assumed she had issues with her family and no contact because she never mentions them and says she has zero help. Then showed the video on her birthday of what seemed like quite a loving family.

Her mum has 2 younger children and works full time I think. She has made out before that she doesnt have family that support her but her mum does have J for a few hours every saturday I think she said, which is understandable if she only has a couple of days spare and has other children at home. I always thought it was a bit mean to mention not having much support off family when her mum does help if she can.

 

[Lotso2018]

This thread I unfollowed a while back because of her constant moaning, her woe is me attitude, the constant spending on herself/really extravagant treats and holidays, her very entitled attitude etc. I’m glad other people are seeing this woman for what she is! Watching her stories made me feel uncomfortable for so many reasons, but like you’ve said filming her son in vulnerable situations was one of them and I definitely felt she always told half a story (her own narrative of lies) rather than the truth.

 

[Squiggle]

Also on her stories today was something that made me cringe but it hasn't been brought up here so I haven't mentioned it incase she was doing a Colleen and trying to out people

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

Also on her stories today was something that made me cringe but it hasn't been brought up here so I haven't mentioned it incase she was doing a Colleen and trying to out people

now I’m intrigued

 

[YomAsal]

Also on her stories today was something that made me cringe but it hasn't been brought up here so I haven't mentioned it incase she was doing a Colleen and trying to out people

hard to say, nettle, its all cringe

 

[AreYouJoking?]

The hot tub purchase wash highly discounted by the supplier, and come on they aren’t even that expensive if you’ve had the kind of money influx she had.
She started by saying it wasn’t even for her because she’s allergic. So how are you even in it AND in it when he’s not even there???. Remember her all glammed up drinking bubbly (but she doesn’t drink. Who else saw her pished up and talking about her new Tiba + Marl bag that we’ve never seen her even use? The day she’d been in the park day drinking with a male friend).

Everything is a contradiction.
every time he has a new feeding plan implemented by a medical professional (in hospital) and he gains weight she then comes home and changes/adapts it and then starts to complain about his weight loss. She drops feeds. When she went to Dubai other SEN mums hailed her as a saint for putting his ‘memories’ above his food intake and his physio. Remember how he fell off a swing while there, bumped his head but then she let him sleep it off. Erm never heard of concussion?.

 

[Oneofthesencommunity]

I also find her rude when some of her followers offer her advice and she is really dismissive and says she has already done what they are advising!
Also to me the little boy seems to be doing a lot better! She posts so much of him but he seems to be making good progress, maybe because he is older and less babyish now!

I thought the same, I was always under the impression children under 5/6 should not be in hot tubs due to their risk of overheating. Never mind someone who is it higher risk of infection from his tube site, also, she also says about his low potassium, does she not realise putting him in a hot tub is going to cause his electrolytes to go off if he’s sweating and trying to regulate his temp, causing his potassium to drop even further??

I've read people say nobody can dispute that shes a good mum, things like this make me question how good of a mum she is. I dont know many sen parents who would take risks like this.

We are in the middle of a global pandemic, sen parents have been cleaning their groceries, shielding from the outside world - kaytee decides to start a job as a nurse in a hospital where there will be a high risk of covid. I haven't seen her do any posts about washing her food shopping like other sen parents have done and the extra precautions we are all having to do.

Instead I've seen her start a job in a high risk environment whereas other sen parents have not been to work, shes talked about using public transport to go to GOSH instead of driving, stayed multiple nights in a hotel and used the restaurants, nottingham was the highest area for covid yet she travelled to london not caring if she was taking the virus with her, shes visited GOSH where children need to be kept safe from the virus so many parents are taking extra precautions so they dont risk other peoples children and the staff, she abused the childcare bubble by implying to 60k people you can go away for the weekend with your friend if they are in your childcare bubble when this is wrong, your childcare bubble is for your child, not for you to socialise and go on a weekend break together (where J was sent to his dads whilst they was down there so her friend was not needed for childcare). She did a story showing another child having a sleepover when at the time in nottingham it was banned, but even if it wasnt I dont know many sen mums who would have let another child sleep over during a pandemic when their child is high risk.

 

[Pollyponsonby]

Also on her stories today was something that made me cringe but it hasn't been brought up here so I haven't mentioned it incase she was doing a Colleen and trying to out people

The Kitten in his bed?

The Kitten in his bed?
The GOSH appointment and hotels not open? She used to stay in the heavily subsidised accommodation that looked more than adequate!

 

[YomAsal]

The Kitten in his bed?

surely that cat didn't get in there by itself, those bed sides are enormous

 

[Bunbun1]

hard to say, nettle, its all cringe

I was gunna say the same thing!

Has she been posing by her landing shrine again?

 

[Squiggle]

The Kitten in his bed?

Thats the one. The kitten could've quite easily thought his tube was a toy and grabbed at it, as kittens do.

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

Thats the one. The kitten could've quite easily thought his tube was a toy and grabbed at it, as kittens do.

you could see the kitten attempting to play with the tube on the video! I reckon she probably put him in there for a quick minute to show how “funny” they are together

 

[AreYouJoking?]

Who saw her go for her haircut (a free one btw) in Nottingham and ag off strangers for not wearing masks in public. Fast forward a few weeks and she’s prancing round convent garden completely mask free?

surely that cat didn't get in there by itself, those bed sides are enormous

you mean his OTT special needs bed for a child who needs restraining? Not for a child who is sick in the night and needs immediate intervention. I’d say unlocking his cage first isn’t immediate action.
but he can sleep in a hotel bed no problem. And glamp in a travel cot.
anyone else trying to work out what home adaptions she’s desperate for when he can sit, crawl and go up and down stairs by himself?.

 

[Spyglass]

The kitten in his bed is just asking for trouble.
Kittens claws are Sharp, Jaxon has no concept of danger and let's face it hasn't been shown by his mum to be careful to the kittens (she laughed at him being very rough with them)
She's mentioned many times her sons Gastro site is very sore... Anyone remember the kittens pooing everywhere, walking in their own faeces? To the point she bathed them
Now her son has an open gastro site already sore that is just so vulnerable to infections.
With her being a nurse too I really wish she would disconnect his tube when not being used. The tube is always out, dangling, trailing on the floor, the grass, filled with bile or milk (the tube should be flushed with water then disconnected) yet its always hanging out, which is like a toy to some children... And most children will tug on it or catch it. Which means it could be ripped out of his stomach. However she's complained in the past it's him self harming himself?
Common sense would suggest she removes the tube after every feed/medication when not in use?
But I am no nurse... She is

 

[TwinkleTwinkle21]

you mean his OTT special needs bed for a child who needs restraining? Not for a child who is sick in the night and needs immediate intervention. I’d say unlocking his cage first isn’t immediate action.
but he can sleep in a hotel bed no problem. And glamp in a travel cot.
anyone else trying to work out what home adaptions she’s desperate for when he can sit, crawl and go up and down stairs by himself?.

she’s already requesting a bigger house for all his equipment! Then next breath she’s wanting to put a pole in the room so she can continue her pole dancing!!
she hinted a while back about a chairlift for him too, and because they said they’d assess closer to the time ie. once he’s too heavy to be carried / once they know he won’t be able to take himself up and down, she threw her toys out the pram and started slating the OTs

 

[Starshining]

Also on her stories today was something that made me cringe but it hasn't been brought up here so I haven't mentioned it incase she was doing a Colleen and trying to out people

Is this what you are alluding too?
Nah, doesn’t remember her lies to be Wagatha