Thenursemum #4 Supposed to be a nurse, more bothered about her purse, forgets to be a mum, Kayteee, you ok Hun

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But she saved £8? She goes twice a month, every 2 weeks to do a big shop - so it costs £8 to save £8 - and if she doesn’t go twice a month then she’s saved nothing? Doesn’t sell it to me really? I’d still be cheaper going to aldi!
 
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Oh my god her latest stories are so irritating, you can’t just post a lie ‘the midwife threw the cord away even though I wanted it to go to AN’ - they’re not a part of the NHS, they have their own staff and equipment and procedures. Us midwives have enough to do we can’t also retrieve and safely label and store the stem cells in the 30 minutes post birth you need to do it in! They probably didn’t an AN staff member free to do it. But hey let’s just bash the NHS and the staff who work in it hey Kaytee?! And then cue the passive aggressive ‘do your own research story’ - so infuriating!
She ALWAYS bashes the NHS. Doesn’t matter that she’s had millions of pounds spent on keeping her child alive for free, she wanted her bleeping umbilical cord saving!! Such a waste NHS are. How dare we still be around.
 
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I want to know even if she shops twice a month how for a single person her shopping costs £80?! Given that she eats take away at least a couple of times a week as well.
 
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And she’s back moaning that she’s wasted £280 as she hasn’t got the result SHE wants. How about listen to the professionals! They must know something . Doesn’t matter how much money she spends they aren’t just going to write down what she wants to hear.
 
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she probably fed the Dr so much bullshit and he has had to speak with people already working with J to find out she has over exaggerated everything and found out what is really going on with him! like all this medical professionals would just turn their backs on him if something seriously needed doing! he is putting on weight and thriving well so there is probably no concern, be a different matter if he was seriously losing weight (like he did when she starved him on the feeding school) it can't be nice for J being sick most days but it's not half as bad as she makes out and that's obvious.
 

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she probably fed the Dr so much bullshit and he has had to speak with people already working with J to find out she has over exaggerated everything and found out what is really going on with him! like all this medical professionals would just turn their backs on him if something seriously needed doing! he is putting on weight and thriving well so there is probably no concern, be a different matter if he was seriously losing weight (like he did when she starved him on the feeding school) it can't be nice for J being sick most days but it's not half as bad as she makes out and that's obvious.
Looks like nothing is going Katie’s way today. The anti body testing hasn’t gone her way either.
 
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Why cant she just accept it and move on stop digging and trying for anything thats not actually wrong
 
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Most people would be relieved it’s one less condition or one less test or investigation for their child. She thrives on the drama. If I thought there was something wrong with my child and multiple professionals told me that it wasn’t that I would be relieved. I know sometimes professionals do get things wrong but this is multiple hospitals, surgeons, doctors, specialists in their fields vs kaytee from the block
 
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The only person that needs a professional here is her! She seriously has a problem. J is clearly doing well . She needs to let the Drs do what they’re trained too.
 
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Why is she absolutely DESPERATE to find more and more things wrong with him. World leading specialists locally and in GOSH have confirmed their diagnosis, even her paid for consultant agrees with them. Why is this 'arse licking'?

Obviously the vomiting issue has now become number 1 priority as part of her Kieras appeal, but surely she has to accept repeated expert medical opinion. Totally bizarre overreaction to the private consultation. She's probably got Kieras for the rest of this year as appeals take many months, but the desperation is bizarre.
 
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Kaytee, I know you read here. Instead of throwing money at people to get ‘second opinions’, why don’t you use the money for some therapy for yourself. You quite clearly have your own personal issues; which for whatever reason are causing this manic, absurd behaviour. Take 6 months out and get some well needed help.
 
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The desperation appears to be for the carers appeal. She was hoping a private consultation with a doctor who hadn’t physically examined her child would lead to a severe diagnosis on the basis of her word alone, potentially leading to her being able to retain the carers. She apparently hadn’t realised doctors won’t diagnose without examination and certainly not on the word of the parent alone. The most she was ever going to get was a recommendation for further investigation but even that was unlikely. She really wanted the consultant to say that there was severe life-threatening issues from the vomiting.

She’s now reaching out to carers for statements and making vomit compilation videos. This is all for the carers appeal. But they are so far off qualifying on the basis of vomiting alone. To qualify he would have to have “severe, life-threatening reaching difficulties, which require essential oral pharyngeal... suction, day or night”. Vomiting once or twice a day is not this. But this is the reason she always says that when he vomits it is “life-threatening” and requires “immediate” action.

She doesn’t use suction and neither do the carers. He sleeps in a separate bedroom. And she takes him away on her own to sleep in hotel/tent beds and has him in the back of her car (rather than the front) on long car journeys. These are not the actions of a parent of a child who requires instantaneous and unpredictable interventions to stay alive. Children with “severe” breathing issues generally require either constant monitoring overnight or constant mechanical intervention.
 
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Agreed. She always Amps it up and cries when it’s assessment time so that all her little pet followers will be disgusted when she looses Keira’s so she gets them back
 
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Kaytee, they are allllll onto you. It won’t be long before your adoring fans are too. People will start to wonder why you can’t accept and be happy at the fact your son is doing well.

Funny how she barely mentioned any vomits prior to losing the Keiras.

wake up and be a mother you sad, desperate woman.
 
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She really doesn’t seem to understand that the assessors who determine eligibility for carers are themselves qualified paediatric nurses who have experience with children with much more severe needs. The assessors also have access to all of the medical notes. Those notes will include information on his vomiting from environments when she wasn’t present (hospital stays) and notes from all of his doctors and consultants. Those notes will have much more weight than guided statements from carers and compilation videos. Although he has many additional needs (such as tube feeding) in terms of breathing alone, she has a child that is no worse than a young toddler with reflux.

I am concerned as to what will happen from here. She publicly smeared the assessor who initially determined that she was no longer eligible for carers on her stories. She published the assessor’s full name and place of employment whilst accusing her of incompetence and malpractice, all for making an accurate assessment of her child’s needs.
 
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Even if she does manage to convince them the vomiting is as bad as she says, J still wouldn't be eligible for carers anymore would he? There's no way she'd be able to blag high for movement or communication and didn't she say he needs 2 things ranked as high?
 
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She just needs one thing to be “severe”. If his vomiting was considered to make his breathing needs severe (it won’t) then she would remain eligible on the basis that J would need constant monitoring overnight by a carer.
 
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Off topic, but this basically tells us she isn’t working. If she were shielding for any reason then she would still be getting paid from the hospital, which she clearly isn’t. Why she beats around the bush with the “not employed but still have a job” tit is beyond me. Just say you only did it for your narcissistic personality in that you want everyone to think you’re a hero do it all kinda woman.
 

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