honestly I don’t know how she’s so tired.
She’s probably depressed and traumatised by what she has been through.
While I fully appreciate children need to spend time with both parents, handing over a baby and small child would be soul destroying for most mothers. The children are intrinsically linked to the trauma she has suffered, even though they of course have not caused any of it.
I agree it isn’t healthy to use social media as a way of debriefing trauma. If she ends up in litigation she will most likely regret a lot of what she has posted. I’m surprised she isn’t being more savvy.
And all those things bring me back to her probably being depressed which can cause such debilitating tiredness the thought of getting off the sofa for the loo can be overwhelming.
I find her posts and stories uncomfortable to watch and they make me feel almost voyeuristic. I wish she had an excellent psychologist to work through all this with.