The.Yes.Life Abi Jenkins

[youaintnoone]

Same, I felt like a thinking this, but the more I watched the more I felt uncomfortable.
I had to watch Abi in the end, like you so I could get updates on Erin. But I can’t bring myself to watch now. I should imagine there are lots who feel like we do as time has gone on.

I feel the exact same way, there’s something definitely off about her and I now rarely check Abi tiktok account. The fact she baited people to keep checking her account for the “24-48” prior to Erin’s passing and still hasn’t yet told this story it screams to me she’s all for views! Erin had been through so much in her short life and honestly my heart breaks for her husband and children NOT ABI

 

[allforthegoss***]

Also with the money going to HER account she ensures she has control (again) of what Dan can access and that she stays involved.
I wonder with the comment about the press whether she is courting them, almost goading, as SHE wants to be interviewed to get HER name out there even more to raise her profile even more.
She is very self-promoting... on the live she was listing out all the "directorships" she's had, that she had her own pub at 18, how she doesn't NEED the money for herself. I wonder how much of her income sits below the HMRC radar and what benefits she is scamming.

Jesus. I’m only realising this now. So Dan has no accesss to the funds? What does her husband do and where is she getting all this money ? Even the camper van!

 

[Faith61]

Same, I felt like a thinking this, but the more I watched the more I felt uncomfortable.
I had to watch Abi in the end, like you so I could get updates on Erin. But I can’t bring myself to watch now. I should imagine there are lots who feel like we do as time has gone on.

It's for sure looking that way
I felt so bad too, it's all so bizarre!
I'm so glad Erin did that final Tesco shopping trip,it's what she wanted, bless her, she had the final say on that one!

 

[allforthegoss***]

Well the thing about funeral etiquette is you don’t send invites, right? It’s not the done thing to turn people away either. But actually saying it’s OK for internet randoms to attend is wrong. Most would say it’s a private family funeral and not publicise when it’s happening.

I know she said she turned someone away from the chapel of rest. I’m in Ireland. Does this mean funeral home or church? Also, who did she have to turn away?

 

[witchtwiccan71]

It's for sure looking that way
I felt so bad too, it's all so bizarre!
I'm so glad Erin did that final Tesco shopping trip,it's what she wanted, bless her, she had the final say on that one!

Same I loved watching her last tiktok. Abi wasn’t happy she went, but ffs Erin was dying it’s not about you Abi it was Erin, yeah sure it may of been a inconvenience to you, because she may of been very poorly when back home, but honestly, if my mate had wanted to go out shopping like Erin did, I’d of made sure she went and enjoyed herself.
it’s all really odd now.

 

[allforthegoss***]

I too feel like this and think it's time to stop watching. Something just doesn't sit right about all of it, the way she controlled the situation, kept people away etc. I do get that she's a compelling person, and if someone is vulnerable they could easily assume she knows what she's talking about.

It sounds like Erin had quite a few friends, I wonder what they think of the way Abi kept them away at the end.

I was also shocked she wasn't sat with all night, only the night before they were doing shifts!

She also spoke in a live recently her relatives had a timed 15 mins slot to see Erin.

 

[SmugglerJess]

I am so glad this thread has been started. I couldn’t stand this woman from the off. I saw a video of Erin’s from hospital and you can hear Abi in the background chipping in, trying to be heard. Then next thing she’s doing her own updates. It didn’t sit right with me at all. Then in the last week of Erin’s life, imo she was creating a lot of click bait comments - going live, another video to explain etc etc which I thought was very sinister.
For someone apparently in the depths of grief, you can practically see her rubbing her hands with glee over her new found popularity.
And as for Erin’s husband, I’m sure he’s only in his 20’s and probably quite vulnerable himself. That woman is the most overbearing creature. I bet he couldn’t stand up to her no matter how much he wanted too. She’s an opportunist whose ship really has come in. And thank god people are starting to see through it. Vile, vile person with an even more vile agenda

It seems Erin hated her guts from the off too, abi's own words included dramas,court cases,hate.
I think abi was and still is Erin's Frienemy. Abi buys her friends with trips on her speed boat and pouring them champagne or tales of how rich she once was . I think she wormed her way in to Erin's life when she was most vulnerable after losing her 2nd son then whey hey Abi hit the biggest clout when Erin told her she had terminal cancer invited her to come and take over her life quite literally

Message to Chris
Your wife needs reining in mate! She is making a fool out of you and your family.

 

[MsGilmore]

I looked through Abi’s Instagram yesterday and one of the posts mentioned earning six figures. This is I assume from MLM and the trips on speedboats were probably bonuses for recruiting people etc. I think Tropic skincare and the like do these kind of bonuses. She said on her second live yesterday that she is also an NLP practitioner. Jack of all trades, master of none!
Chris intervening says a lot. Abi needs to stop running her mouth and let Erin rest in peace.

 

[SmugglerJess]

I looked through Abi’s Instagram yesterday and one of the posts mentioned earning six figures. This is I assume from MLM and the trips on speedboats were probably bonuses for recruiting people etc. I think Tropic skincare and the like do these kind of bonuses. She said on her second live yesterday that she is also an NLP practitioner. Jack of all trades, master of none!
Chris intervening says a lot. Abi needs to stop running her mouth and let Erin rest in peace.

Know all duck all

 

[Mrsturnerreturns]

I looked through Abi’s Instagram yesterday and one of the posts mentioned earning six figures. This is I assume from MLM and the trips on speedboats were probably bonuses for recruiting people etc. I think Tropic skincare and the like do these kind of bonuses. She said on her second live yesterday that she is also an NLP practitioner. Jack of all trades, master of none!
Chris intervening says a lot. Abi needs to stop running her mouth and let Erin rest in peace.

I think she’s one of those people who think they are intelligent as duck but too thick to actually get a career as well as having no sticking power so bounce around from various new ventures and MLM’s in the hope of hitting the big time. She must be absolutely beside herself with joy right now. No wonder she’s the happiest grieving person I have ever seen

 

[allforthegoss***]

Anyone wanna order a yerbermate?!

 

[LennyBriscoe]

I know she said she turned someone away from the chapel of rest. I’m in Ireland. Does this mean funeral home or church? Also, who did she have to turn away?

I haven’t seen that video, that’s awful! Clearly a lot has gone on but surely the death of a 31-year-old would be enough for people to tolerate each other? Or maybe Erin did say she didn’t want certain people there but I just don’t know what to believe.

I’m assuming it’s at the funeral home as the funeral is still over a week away I think. I liked that people wrote on Erin’s coffin, that’s a nice touch.

Abi - “Erin didn’t want the funeral life streamed but everyone is welcome!”

Also Abi - “Not you, you’re barred! Out!”

 

[SmugglerJess]

POV: Abi most recent upbeat TT we got PJs we got festivals we got charity
Real life : Abi rocking back and forth with thumb in mouth in fetal position

For duck sake Abi we all love a bit of charity and we all loved Erin. Do you have no bleeping compassion in your whole body at all. Let the poor woman rest in peace, think of her children her family her real friends.

Erin isn't even been gone a week and your non stop targets amazing festivals bleeping stop you insensitive witch

 

[LennyBriscoe]

I’ve been thinking about Erin slipping away and there not being anyone there. Sorry for the merail but my dad was taken into hospital a few days before he died and I was there with him night and day, only nipping home to freshen up when someone else was there. By the end of the week I was shattered so I went home and the hospital phoned me to say he’d passed. I was crippled with guilt for so long and one of my friends kept saying maybe he didn’t want you to be there at the end and that did make me feel better.

I’ll never know if that was the case because we weren’t able to talk about it (because of his health conditions). But Abi volunteered the information that they were taking shifts and never leaving Erin alone and that didn’t happen. Loads of people should have been there so they all got a sleep and did shifts. The narrative is changing all the time and I can’t help but think Abi was dictating who should be there and when and in the end her shattered husband fell asleep.

I had a browse through Erin’s Instagram and she looked like she had a lot of friends so I’m not sure how it ended up with Abi and her guest list. There was someone I would rather not have seen in hospital and at my dad’s funeral but I tolerated them for my dad’s sake. I know that’s not easy for everyone to do.

(Sorry I know my posts are long on this thread, I don’t mean them to be but then I just started typing and then it’s an essay)

 

[SonicTheSpikeyThing]

Did Erin even want a charity made? Pretty sure she said she just wanted to raise awareness.. and that she did bless her.

 

[suzieQ60]

I didn’t want to think badly of Abi, at first I thought wow what a great friend to have; she’s amazing! It doesn’t please me to think of Erin being exploited in some way. But I have such a strong gut feeling all is NOT well. It’s so tragic

 

[Mrsturnerreturns]

Full steam ahead when the poor girl hasn’t even been buried yet. Constant lives, on the beg for donations, freebies etc. This should be about holding a space for the grieving children and husband. Family time to help them get used to life after Erin. Imagine having to listen to that maniac bellowing into her phone 20 hours a day in your own house. Even worse when she’s expecting them to put up with some random baby crying constantly as well. She needs to go home to her own family. This all feels massively inappropriate.

 

[mogthedog]

I never post here but I came on to have a look after Abi signposted the site in her TikTok. I was honestly so touched by Erin’s story, she was so young and had been through so much grief in her life. I followed her last months through her videos and was genuinely saddened by her passing. She seemed a real force of nature but also very vulnerable and I initially felt like it was good she had Abi there advocating for her.

Now, not so much. The whole dynamic in the family is unusual, so fair enough, but I just can’t really understand how Abi is front and centre in all this when Erin seems to have had lots of friends and relatives and an actual husband! I do genuinely think there is something dodgy about the donations aspect - why would it be in Abi’s name and not Dan’s? Why is Abi posting all these giddy videos in full eyeliner when Erin hasn’t even had a funeral? It’s odd at best. At worst Abi has inserted herself into this situation for whatever weird reasons she has and is now profiting from it. The whole going out for a meal video was really strange - I can understand wanting to get out of the house, but that was a quite fancy three course job, when you’re supposed ‘little sister’ died about two days before. I can’t understand it.

Mind you I see Dan is away getting a new car today. Wonder where the money came from for that?
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I’ve actually just watched her latest video. Merch? MERCH?! For your dead ‘sister’? I’m sorry, I can’t even…

 

[Imadethis]

I’m like a lot of you, I can’t watch Abi at all anymore. It’s all very shady.
Dans getting a car? Why has she said this? She’s got an agenda.
I’m sure this has been planned by her for a while. Erin and her lovely family are a gravy train to Abi. She’s referring to her and our very real concerns to try and get sympathy. More and more people are going to see through you, Abi. Mark my words.

 

[twinkleunicorn]

I'm honestly shocked by that part. Surely when someones you loves dies from cancer and you know that it's her last day or two you take turns and you make sure that there's always someone by her side?? It's heartbreaking that she died alone even if she was asleep.

I’ve just found this thread…I got the impression that Abi was with her when she passed? But she was on her own??