I honestly don't understand this "admin" business. We have a joint account, both our salaries are paid in, the direct debits/ standing orders go out.
With mobile/internet banking you can log into your account is seconds... There's no "Admin" involved.
School stuff is all cashless and again is all done with a couple of clicks on your mobile phone. The same with clubs, activities etc
I've got 12 kids, my mental health is great, myself and my husband both work full-time in our professions. I do all of my own washing/cleaning and laundry. I cook from scratch everyday. My family eat very little junk food or crap. They have clothes that fit, we don't do hand-me-down clothes unless they are labels... My kids do like their labels. They all have socks, they go to the dentists, opticians and any health appointments needed they attend.
My house is spotless, uncluttered and comfortable.
There's no excuse for her life/ home or kids to be neglected or uncared for. The hovel that they live in is a filthy, cluttered, disorganised tip. She needs to sort herself out, quit vlogging, and the pair of them get off their lazy arses and get a job.