She says it's so he'll eat, doesn't look like he's eating to me!
I've just done a weekend away at a wedding with my husband a 3 year old and a 9 month year old, which included 5 meals out (2 hotel breakfasts (only a premier inn, but still!!), 2 evening meals and a wedding reception meal at a very child unfriendly restaurant).
It wasn't easy, they weren't quiet or perfectly behaved, and we didn't get a whole load of adult conversation but it's the only way they will learn how to behave without looking at a screen.
And once you do the tablet/phone thing once that's it and then you have to deal with the tantrum when you say no to the tablet.
It's a very Instagram thing to take kids on these long haul foreign holidays, but I'm sure most people my age (mid 30s) didn't go abroad until they were older (11 ferry to France to buy cheap cigarettes...) I can see why they are tempted with his job but is it fair for the kid if the only thing keeping them happy is a screen?
I know it sounds judgemental and I'm not a screen free parent - I've seen Cars 1,2&3 more times than I care to mention. But two adults should be able to have a meal with one toddler.