Sorry, been lurking on this thread for a while without commenting as I've only just actually watched this families TV shows recently. What did Noel do?I just don’t get how he’s got away with what he did
Sorry, been lurking on this thread for a while without commenting as I've only just actually watched this families TV shows recently. What did Noel do?I just don’t get how he’s got away with what he did
Sue fell pregnant for the first time when he was 17 and she was just 13. Pretty sure there were posts on here saying they’d been sleeping together before then as wellSorry, been lurking on this thread for a while without commenting as I've only just actually watched this families TV shows recently. What did Noel do?
I actually pity her. It’s a real shame she can’t enjoy the kids she’s got. She’s missing out on their lives. The need for wanting another and another and another goes way beyond just wanting a big family. She has an addiction and she is going to have the biggest breakdown ever when she stops being able to get pregnant.I’m sorry, I think she’s a bellend and a big one at that but I find it really uncomfortable you’re dismissing her re-adoption rejection. Children are first and foremost the victim in that situation and it’s very obvious she has issues that stem from this. Talking about her being adopted is bit of a cheap shot....
My comments aren’t a personal attack on your life decisions! From a professional perspective, believe me the blame for many (read majority) adoptions lie firmly at the parents door. Like I said it’s not post-war times of girls homes and forced adoptions.I don't believe anyone is 'judging' her, just passing comment on how her adoption has clearly affected her (personally I feel sorry for her, I don't judge her for that at all).
Your talk of blame makes me very uncomfortable. Now who's judging? I'm very aware many adoptions these days are not a case of it being the birth mother's decision. Mother's who have their babies take away have usually been through an incredibly tough time and have often had an incredibly tough life. Sure, many of them may have made unwise decisions of which some 'blame'can be pinned but many are victims themselves in terms of how they got to that stage in the first place. Of course, some people are simply the lowest of the low in terms of how they have treated their children, but you don't usually get to that stage without being incredibly let down somewhere along the line yourself. These things are often vicious cycles. The people you 'blame' were probably once upon a time the ones you describe as blameless.
Time to get off your high horse maybe and take a look at the judgements you are making yourself.
Tetley ?My
My actual name!
My first name, which is enough. My it’s not a very common name.
it was enough to be sent some disgusting messages from her minions.
This is what I don’t get! The guy is a baker who must have massive stocks of flour and “ingredients” yet they buy in cakes/cake mix and pancakes (amongst a whole host of other things they could easily make in bulk a lot cheaper).They could have fried up a pile of pancakes for pennies. I'm sure Noel is supposed to be a cook
I’ve always thought Tilly looks really thin! I’d love to make her a good homemade dinner she looks like she needs it I’m not blaming Tilly at all but how are sue and Noel not noticing how thin she is she looks frailOh gosh I remember that episode!!
Tbf none of the kids looked very happy about dried up pancakes for breakfast.
Not a healthy or even a "treat" choice for me. My kids would rather have strawberries and some decent yogurt.
Tillie still looks incredibly thin and they hardly ever show her. But she's not of interest for them now she's better.
We have been known to do that. Nothing wrong, IMO, we don’t have a deep fat fryer and our sausages are much better than the chippy ones.As much as I want to believe they all get a full portion, this the Noel who fed the whole family on 1 box of fish fingers and bought the chips from the chippy and cooked the sausages at home!!
I probably should add that at the time, it was said it was to save money.We have been known to do that. Nothing wrong, IMO, we don’t have a deep fat fryer and our sausages are much better than the chippy ones.
. If it’s chippy and we are all having pie and chips , I’ve usually got Holland’s pies in the freezer. So throw them in the microwave. With8 -10 having them it can save us nearly £20. Which then pays for a load of doughnutsDone the cooking sausages or whatever and bought chippy chips myself, loads of times.
I don't have a massive family but more than the average amount of kids. Honestly apart from the blatantly obvious, I think a lot of what they're criticised for is the kind of stuff that happens in absolutely loads of families.
I think it is fair enough to save money, the kids feel they are getting a chippy tea at a fraction of the price.I probably should add that at the time, it was said it was to save money.
Its been mentioned on this thread before by others.
I really think you are missing the point.I think it is fair enough to save money, the kids feel they are getting a chippy tea at a fraction of the price.
Please enlighten me then.I really think you are missing the point.
You just need to read the comment properly.Please enlighten me then.
I think this is called paranoia, are you the only new account?I'm a new account. I haven't derailed whatsoever. I've stayed entirely on topic. Or is not seeing every little thing they do as a red flag for them being tit parents considered derailing? Ohhhkayyy.
No, but the comment was directly after mine. Oh right, private messages.I think this is called paranoia, are you the only new account?
And was mentioned by other people who messaged me directly on here.
I wouldn’t listen to her. She’s an ex best friend of Sue’s and is extremely obsessed with her and also severely paranoid. Anytime she doesn’t like what she’s reading she’ll accuse them of being minions of Sue’s, which she used to be. I’ve liked what you’ve had to sayI'm a new account. I haven't derailed whatsoever. I've stayed entirely on topic. Or is not seeing every little thing they do as a red flag for them being tit parents considered derailing? Ohhhkayyy.
Ok so no misunderstanding by me, just your defence when you are being shown up for an irrational attitude. That reply is not a legitimate way to elaborate .You just need to read the comment properly.
Other people being those also with a axe to grind due to having ‘known’ Sue!I think this is called paranoia, are you the only new account?
And was mentioned by other people who messaged me directly on here.
I'm new to this thread, so don't entirely understand the "what's what" and "who's who". It would seem you know the family personally is this correct?I think this is called paranoia, are you the only new account?
And was mentioned by other people who messaged me directly on here.