gimme5mama
Chatty Member
Hiya tattlers , I’ve had to adult the past few days so just getting properly caught up 
that video just shows how much of a narc he is , he’s not sorry at all for those tweets !!! I’ve seen a few horrible comments on Tik Tok about Susie , I just feel really sorry for the woman . Her whole life as she’s known it for almost 30 years has been ripped apart in such a public way . I’ve seen a few comments saying she’s as toxic as him , I don’t know Susie at all but have said previously I messaged her when all this blew up just to say I hoped she was ok . As far as I can see the only bad one in all this is Alan , I’ve seen no evidence at all that Susie is just as bad . I asked her to come on here & chat to us but I think she’s a bit scared as she’s read a few comments that were a bit mean . I think Kerry Ann isn’t to be trusted at all and takes advantage of Susie being so vulnerable in all this . A few comments on tik tok about Susie defending him by asking for the post about the tweets to be taken down but I think he’s went mad about that post and taken it out on Susie and told her to get it taken down . I could be totally wrong with all this but I’ve been in relationship with a total narcissist too and by the time that finished , 10 years together , I honestly didn’t know if I was coming or going . Didn’t know what food I liked or music or hobbies because for that 10 years it was always what he wanted to do , places he wanted to eat , movies he liked and stuff he liked doing . That level of control starts very subtly and before you know it you’ve totally lost who you are . I think we all pre judged Dianne and were completely wrong and I can see the same thing happening with Susie . I know we are all entitled to our opinions and this is exactly what tattle is for and as I said before I could be completely wrong about this but we’ve all seen the way he is and how much of a narcissist he is . Being controlled by him for so many years is going to be really hard to move on from and once the dust settles on the whole saga it’ll just be the beginning for Susie , she’ll need to start a new life for herself and find out who she is again and that’s a really hard place to be . Sorry this has turned out to be a total essay
that video just shows how much of a narc he is , he’s not sorry at all for those tweets !!! I’ve seen a few horrible comments on Tik Tok about Susie , I just feel really sorry for the woman . Her whole life as she’s known it for almost 30 years has been ripped apart in such a public way . I’ve seen a few comments saying she’s as toxic as him , I don’t know Susie at all but have said previously I messaged her when all this blew up just to say I hoped she was ok . As far as I can see the only bad one in all this is Alan , I’ve seen no evidence at all that Susie is just as bad . I asked her to come on here & chat to us but I think she’s a bit scared as she’s read a few comments that were a bit mean . I think Kerry Ann isn’t to be trusted at all and takes advantage of Susie being so vulnerable in all this . A few comments on tik tok about Susie defending him by asking for the post about the tweets to be taken down but I think he’s went mad about that post and taken it out on Susie and told her to get it taken down . I could be totally wrong with all this but I’ve been in relationship with a total narcissist too and by the time that finished , 10 years together , I honestly didn’t know if I was coming or going . Didn’t know what food I liked or music or hobbies because for that 10 years it was always what he wanted to do , places he wanted to eat , movies he liked and stuff he liked doing . That level of control starts very subtly and before you know it you’ve totally lost who you are . I think we all pre judged Dianne and were completely wrong and I can see the same thing happening with Susie . I know we are all entitled to our opinions and this is exactly what tattle is for and as I said before I could be completely wrong about this but we’ve all seen the way he is and how much of a narcissist he is . Being controlled by him for so many years is going to be really hard to move on from and once the dust settles on the whole saga it’ll just be the beginning for Susie , she’ll need to start a new life for herself and find out who she is again and that’s a really hard place to be . Sorry this has turned out to be a total essay 
so they were doing a thing called Shag Tag & trying to get people to join,big shagger was already going to play by the time I joined.....suprise,suprise 
they were trying to get him in the box but he was shy 
& didn't do it.Game didn't go ahead due to lack of guys playing so think he took the huff 
so if yous fancy a wee read at the comments then here you go....TW 
. #TheCodfather 
can’t think where from though