I had an 8 month long affair with Alan Shields from the Xmas lockdown in December 2020 until July 2021. It was quite intense for those months. I ended it when I realised he did not want a relationship with me . I met Alan online on the POF dating website his profile was quite bare he said that was for work privacy reasons . We began chatting which lead to us meeting 2 weeks later…. it went on until July . I did see him one more time in December. He made no mention of a wife.