I have also dated a police officer and am related to one - I think that’s where my ‘crime’ anxiety stems from as I always heard the horror stories or they were over the top vigilant which made me paranoid 🫠🫠It’s horrible trying to get the balance between being aware and being paranoid. I dated a police officer once and they said to me ‘If we are ever out anywhere and I tell you to leave don’t question just go, it will be because I have noticed something potentially dangerous that I need to deal with’ I laughed and said ‘I will have noticed it before you, you were trained when you joined the force I was trained in utero’
I had my first decent nights sleep in ages the night they arrested him. I was exhausted and I thought that the chief seemed relaxed in his press conference so I thought they were going to get him.
My OH now is so laid back, it’s a constant battle to get him to see why I want to do certain things around the house to make sure we’re safe