The Ingham Family #36 Oh shut up, Sarah

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Same, he reminds me very clearly of my son who I just “knew” from days in he was autistic. Jace is very obviously constantly stimming with his arm movement and he does not maintain eye contact or really respond to voices unless they are all up in his face. He also does the sudden unprompted cry out and body stiffening that’s common in spectrum disorder.

In that latest video where he’s laying on his side he doesn’t even respond to her speaking to him, doesn’t even move his head to indicate acknowledging her and that would concern me if I were her.
I don’t feel comfortable or think it’s right to be labelling Jace so early. He’s a young baby. He’s far too young to be able to see the majority of symptoms. I understand some people may have seen signs in their own babies but let’s give him a chance. I’m sure he’s not autistic. We need to be careful that we’re not picking for the sake of picking.
 
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Let’s all hope Jace now piles the weight on and none of the first size baby clothes she’s bought him fits him on holiday 🤞🤣
 
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Nhs and private professionals do miss tongue tie, I'm not surprised so many missed it to be honest but the number has jumped from 6 to 8 in 24 hours so I would take what she says about how many with a giant pinch of salt.
It's definitely a necessary procedure. Tongue tie can effect speech as well as feeding, it does need to be snipped and sadly in certain parts of the country to get it done this side of Christmas you have no choice but to pay privately.
The woman who spotted it will be training specifically to do so, breastfeeding consultants specialise in that area.
My daughter had one and it was missed for around 7 weeks too. It was corrected and she did feed better afterwards even though hers wasn’t as bad as Jace’s sounds.

It’s one of those things that it was missed. It never occurred to me to complain and rant about the people that missed it
 
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My daughter had one and it was missed for around 7 weeks too. It was corrected and she did feed better afterwards even though hers wasn’t as bad as Jace’s sounds.

It’s one of those things that it was missed. It never occurred to me to complain and rant about the people that missed it
No but then you're not princess delonge, clickbaiting and dramatising everything for money is her forte.
 
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My daughter had tongue tie, hers was spotted when she was born. Think we got an appointment to get it snipped about a week or 2 after she was born. It’s a minor procedure. My husband had her on his knee and I stayed in the room too. A quick snip is all it was no anaesthetic or anything from what I remember. It causes then a little bit of pain but doesn’t last long after. My daughter cried briefly and then she was back to feeding and fine. They’ve definitely exaggerated it, how awful using a minor procedure as click bait to be something worse.
They said themselves he was crying before it happened (prob cos Sarah didn’t go with them) I bet if she’d have gone too and managed to remain calm he wouldn’t have been as distressed. It might have been a bit worse for jace than it was for my daughter as he was slightly older and so a bit more aware but it isn’t a scary traumatic procedure like they’ve made out 😡. Also sometimes it’s not as obvious on some babies as others no need for them to spend half the vlog slating the nhs
 
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The Ingham Family #37 Lazy is traumatised, but it's all ok after a Five Guys
 
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Ok so I will admit that when my daughter has her yearly blood tests, my husband goes in with her. But that's only because they have to hold her down and I don't trust myself not to react.

However, I was totally present when they put her under anaesthetic for her heart surgery (and that is BRUTAL to watch, they panic right before they go under) and all through her recovery. It's just what you do for your child. And why clickbait it? They're absolutely disgusting, this is what happens when you give chavs a platform and a willing audience of kids 🤢🤮.
 
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"Tongue-tie is not the cause of all breastfeeding problems, and frenotomy is not a cure all."

LOL this came up for the first thing I googled for 'tied toungue surgery'.
 
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Sorry if I offended anyone with how passionate my last few posts are, I don't always word things with sensitivity in mind. Lazy and Creepy make me so angry, it's always someone elses fault, never theirs and they always find a way of offloading the blame onto other people :mad: Their constant NHS bashing throughout the pregnancy and breastfeeding and their I-know-better attitude can cause so much harm. We all know how little training they think doctors have, Sarah is like a brain surgeon afterall.
 
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The Ingham family #37 he's Jace Pace because #yolo but please stop calling him bloody Rolo!

Obviously had to have a little gangster in there for Chris 😂
 
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Aw poor Sarah and Chris I’m sure it was very traumatic for them 🙄

It is traumatic to see your kid in pain but you get on with it. The fact they’re making it about themselves is ridiculous. Poor Jace. He really is an inconvenience for them.
And how many times did they mention how much it cost them? There's no price on the health of your child
 
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I can't believe these two are roughly the same age. Both are breast fed as far as I'm aware.
I was watching a few of Paige’s vlogs earlier. Anthem is so different to Jace. Makes me feel even more sad for him. There’s literally only a few days between them and he just isn’t thriving like her :(
 
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Here's my summary for those who don't want to view the video itself.
It starts about halfway through the vlog. Chris says they go to Huddersfield. Cue shots of Sarah's eyes in the car's rearview mirror looking worried and happy shots of Jace and Isabelle. Jace is in the front seat with Sarah but Creepy is in the back. Wtf? Sarah talks in the stationary car and says 'Jace has only been gaining weight at an acceptable rate and she is really worried and sorry if you're all sick of hearing this'. Then she says they're at a Huddersfield private consultation for an hour that costs £105 [someone can be heard saying 'oh my god' after that] and will cost another £100 if he needs his tongue tie cut. Creepy leers behind her early on and then he's gawking outside the window and Sarah says 'she guys look what I have to live with'. Then there is a shot in the clinic and Sarah says (Jace is crying in the background) that 80% of Jace's tongue is tied then says 'oh my God, how have we gone for 6, nearly 7 weeks with 8 professionals saying he has no tongue-tie?' She has no real tears while she's saying 'oh I'm not with Jace in surgery right now because it makes me so sick and tearful and I know it sounds dreadful for a parent to do that to her child. But I am so frightened of what's happening to him. Chris is going with Jace with the lady who will do the surgery and J is already screaming his head off. I feel so bad.'
Cut to the family in the stationary car once again, 'right we've just left the clinic. oh my goodness, I'm not even joking about how bad that was. No joke people you would not believe. Jace was unconsolable, inconsolable (?) and he would not stop crying, it was awful. I feel so bad not being with him during surgery but the lady said she saw I was so terrified and it would hurt Jace even more if he picked up how sad I was. Chris said he never wants to go through that again'.

*Like the last summary I will continue this soon*
 
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Ok my thoughts tonight.

1) jace can’t laugh yet Chris. Stop claiming he’s been laughing. It’s a pointless lie.

2 lazy couldn’t comfort her baby because it was too sad for her to watch him upset. Ok. As long as you’re ok then Sarah. Never mind the fact nursing is a babies biggest source of comfort and you’re literally the only one who can do that for him. Selfish lazy mother.

3) I actually thought the knitted outfit was adorable. Shoulda seen the stuff I put my baby in lol. I love alternative and querky baby clothes.

4) creepy tried really hard to pretend he cared after the tongue tie was snipped but his acting skills aren’t as good as his grooming skills.

Drama llamas and attention seekers. Not exactly surprised. Just continue to feel sorry for those children.
 
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With respect, a baby having their tongue tie snipped is a very traumatic procedure for the poor babies to have, but to call it surgery just to bait your young fans to watch is bleeping sick. Its not surgery...it was a procedure. And bully for you duck heads affording private health care with the money you exploited from young kids, I'll stick with the NHS thanks. I'vestopped hate watching the last few days and tonight I feel enraged. Its no good for me to watch their piss poor shite any more. They are depraved.
 
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