The Ingham Family #328 Sarah Ingham is a shameless grief thief

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Even with all of yesterday's orchestrated bullshit, the video still only has 21k views. Their marketing team are absolute plonkers.
 
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Don’t know about anyone else but I really hope she has been sterilised properly and there’s just been a mistake with the sample sent to Histology.

I’m sure there will be more temper tantrums and tears from Princess Delong that she was coerced into being sterilised!

As for not being able to attend an appointment because of Jace’s piles and piles of tat to be opened for his birthday!! Seriously- they are hardly out of their bed before 9:30am what would it have mattered!
 
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The comments on that last vlog are a great read. I just can’t get over people telling her to threaten to sue the hospital if they don’t see her as soon as possible. She had the opportunity to be seen as soon as possible but she chose to swan off in a van for weeks on end. Holidays can always be rearranged and if you are on 10k a day what’s a little extra expense to sort out an issue with your health. Surely if the nhs “butchered” her insides as she claims she would want answers and would see that as a priority. But no Lazy Ingham expects everyone to fit around her plans and her life because she’s the most important person on the planet. Ffs.
 
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Don't project your assumptions onto people who comment bases on the war like stance your parent have taken with "haters". Stop assuming that it's you against the world. We see what's happening and we are worried.
The only thing I add to your comment is this..

From experience of being trapped in ‘family bubble’ (which I know was nothing like the inghams) you are not allowed your own opinions on ANYTHING and if you have them they are quickly bullied out of you. You exist to take on your family’s opinions and carry them forward to next generation. Your family are RIGHT everyone else is WRONG and god help you if you suggest otherwise.

I felt for a very long time, and right now, like it’s me against the world. At one point, like now, people being nice to me simply caused me to physically collapse in an emotional heap because so many people, including those who should be helping are not. I know I can be rude to people, I know I can snap and ‘be angry’ irrationally, put simply the alternative would mean losing what little of myself I have, and, that likely will be the same for her. She controls her eating, i rigidly control my emotions (without choice) and both can be catastrophic.

Her bratty parents see everyone as a threat because, simply, they are. They don’t want jobs but to doss around on ‘holiday’ all the time. Don’t want to go on holiday? then it’ll be wall to wall lecture about what a dreadful, dreadful ungrateful child she is, ruining everyone’s lives and that’s best case scenario, people who don’t get it because they werent treated like that will compound that experience - your life oth your parents IS normal even when it’s not because you know no different and she has people telling her they WANT her life..

She’s woken up to her life and is petrified.

Going back years Isabelle was an outgoing child who wanted to be a doctor, many want to do this but can’t, and find another career they enjoy more. Shes been thrown to the wolves. I don’t think for a minute they will allow her near therapy. My parents were a nightmare when I told them I was having therapy even turning up and manipulating the therapist. I failed my GCSEs (big time, I got one), I went to college a long way away and basically worked from 9-5 on my course, passed and did my degree but it was exceptionally hard. Throughout my life I’ve had problem after problem, as we all do, but I don’t have the option of parents to help. My parents were told to contribute to my student grant, did one year, then reported me to the police for theft, yep I was found guilty. When I was 23ish I was being chased by bailiffs because the ‘documents you must sign when 18’ were bank cards and loans taken out in my name, again I was found guilty.

I took my sibling aside and talked to them about issues I had, but even if she’s tried that’s not gone into Esmés head. I don’t see her life panning out any different - right now she’s the star, she’s the one ‘everyone’ wants, but with every day she’s heading towards being ‘too old’ and dropped; at one point Isabelle was the one doing the provocative dancing - with Chris (long before tiktock). It’s a never ending cycle.
 
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Not a leg to stand on anyway. You sign a disclaimer for sterilstation. She wanted it reversed anyway. What’s her fucking issue?
 
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Well exactly. The child isn’t going to have a birthday party, or friends round or even family round for his birthday so going to an appointment really wouldn’t be a big deal.
 
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Not a leg to stand on anyway. You sign a disclaimer for sterilstation. She wanted it reversed anyway. What’s her fucking issue?
Melodramatics.

Or more specifically

(note not ££)

Either way she got no chance.

For those wondering about the 10k don’t forget he was made to put a disclaimer on his ‘business’ that it was no guarantee of that income (ya think?!) and so far it’s been 10k a day, week, month (more realistically a decade)..
 
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At this point i`d swear she`s cancelling apts in the hope she falls unexpectedky pregnant before being seen at the hospital !Sarah ,you`re despicable!Get off your high horse and attend your next booked appointment or shut up!!!
 
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I don't believe any of it happened, there is no way nob head wouldn't sue if it really is negligence
 
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I don't believe any of it happened, there is no way nob head wouldn't sue if it really is negligence
Same. I believe these appointments are for her cyst and the “botched sterilisation” never happened.

I know Sarah’s neglectful of her children’s health (Izzy and Isla’s weight, Mila’s hips, Jace’s eye, Esme’s personality) but she would absolutely prioritise her own health if it was something genuinely dangerous or potentially worth suing over. Anything for that sweet, sweet cash to spend at Temu on plastic tat to fill the gaping void in her soul.
 
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By the way Sunday’s vlog was filmed on Friday March 22. She asked Alexa how many days before Christmas and it was 278. Today March 25 is 275 days before Christmas. They’re only a couple of days behind now.
 
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There's so much I want to say after reading your post. I completely agree with everything you've stated regarding EDs. They are so incredibly dangerous, and very complicated to treat. I've spoken enough about what my daughter and I are going through so won't go on any more.


I feel like crying after reading about your experiences with your daughter, because I understand how utterly horrendous that must have been. I hope things are better for her now, it robs them of so much, and you feel completely helpless at times.

I feel very guilty about commenting re Izzy, as I know it's her own business and noone else's, however, given the situation she's in and the fact her parents are total idiots maybe people discussing this might make them realise (eventually, as it certainly doesn't seem to be the case at the moment) that there's an issue. I have tried to put myself in their position and one million fucking percent if anyone mentioned to me they thought my child had a health issue you can be assured I'd look into it. The problem is they think even the people who have the kids best interests at heart are trolls. Which, going by this thread anyway, we are absolutely not, in fact of all the Tattle threads this one had the nicest, most caring and lovely people. It's a shame they won't listen.
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I’ve been on the ouija board to talk to my ancestors and they all think Chris Ingham is a creepy n
This needs to somehow be made into a thread title
 
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That is fantastically written
 
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I really appreciate that @mags
We don't understand when things happen the way they do, but I still have so much to give to the world. I will not be broken.
You are totally amazing. I so hope that each day, things get a little brighter for you. I am so very sorry about whatever it is that you have been through . No one can break someone as wonderful as you
 
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If I felt my operation had been bodged the 1st thing I'd want to do is get 2nd unbiased opinion. Not NHS but privately. Any findings could then support her argument.
But, ya know, she won't, coz it didn't happen
 
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I'm abit behind but just want to add my say ...

I've just confirmed out from a 3 months stay in hospital. I missed 3 of my children ls birthday I had a choice tho I could come home but loose my bed and one off many operations and I knew for my own health I had to stay in and guess what my children were fine.
I've had to go to multiple tests and pre ops and hadn't been home for 12 weeks because I was in pain and worried ....that's what you fucking do you lazy cow.

Also just to be clear Sarah and creepy I have a family member who works at legal company (not saying which one) that sues the NHS for negligence and you don't have a leg to stand on.

You have 3 Wats to claim.

1) if the negligence results in a manor that changes someones life drastically...not you you still swan off on holidays

2) mentally... If you can't get out of bed from exhaustion or depression because of the negligence or constantly going back and forth to doctors appointments been mentally effected...volgs say a different matter.

3)cost of time and fuel for multiple hospitals visits....you can't turn up for one let alone multiple

They havnt a leg to stand on

Also she would have firms to fill in before hand.

My 1st surgery caused internal bleeding I was throwing up and shitting blood and still made to go threw a&E again for 28hrs
Which took me to my second surgery 3 days later ....I can't sue I signed the forms
 
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