The Ingham Family #260 Sarah Louise Ingham - Cut that out.

[Nickyjay]

I’m glad that the forgotten child has had a day to herself, my mum as middle child has always said how forgotten she felt as a child, I have a middle of 3 that I probably spend more time with her to reinforce her place in the family.

Ironically she’s just slightly older than Isabelle, she has developed confidence in herself in the last few months and she’s made a decision to move away to university next year, hopefully she’ll be driving in a couple of weeks, she’s looking to going on nights out clubbing.

Has Isabelle been groomed into her life, surely with social media would tell her it’s not normal. 17 is an age where you grow massively and make decisions about your future mostly independently with an input from family.

 

[Otterwise]

I’m reading comments latest Sarah says
so many ifam saying you should adopt you can choose age gender/you can take tablets to lactate
They have absolutely no idea what the adoption journey is.
For a start social media is searched and just take a look at what comes up
i am a bio parent of 4 /adopted parent of 3 /former foster carer of many 3 of them in their 20s still living with me.

It sounds as if the Ifam are referring to a puppy instead of a child. What is wrong with these people?

 

[xxme2uxx]

I’m sure they don’t. But I wasn’t taking about them. She definately made the wrong decision staying with Chris after what HE done and her and the kids are suffering. Yes so are the other girls after what CHRIS done

It's your opinion but I would never feel sorry for a woman who throws her children to a pe*o and worse her step daughter who is now the age that creepy likes I may add and they now go driving listening to lovely music apperently... That's not a bad decision that's grooming and selling your daughter to your husband.

Infact she's worse ... She could have stopped this and saved her children

Infact she's worse ... She could have stopped this and saved her children

 

[Maisie842]

Part of me feels sorry for Sarah. Now I know she isn’t very nice but someone mentioned on here a week or so ago about an old vlog of izzy and how she was a lot more confident and happy and about how nice Sarah was and how she was a lot prettier and just took a lot more pride in herself and her children. I watched the vlog and she just seemed to thrive off of being a good mum raising her children and having a lovely home. Chris had ruined everything for this family, Sarah is now a bitter defensive horrible person I think she’s depressed and has lost interest in the important things like her kids being clean healthy and happy and I think she just finds escape in shopping. The children are no longer allowed to go to school or socialise due to Chris. And now he is trying to convince her to have another baby the moment she is talking about possibly letting the kids go back to school or have any freedom. She is trapped by him and while I don’t think Sarah is very nice I think it’s all CHRIS GROOMER INGHAM’S doing and it’s so unfair his whole family are suffering as a result of his actions. Him staying up all night looking at prams and changing bags - very bloody strange. Get a job you creep (not exploiting your chULdren)

There was a point I felt sorry for her too, but then I remembered she’s a mother who pimps out her kids for her own financial gain, deprives them of everything except oxygen and not only protects, but actively defends her depraved husband by abusing yet more children on his behalf. My sympathy meter for her ran out a while ago.

 

[Joris Bobson]

Poor Isla. Fancy having to walk round with that wonky fringe because Vidal Baboon thinks she can cut hair

That always makes me cry. Vidal baboon. I’m sat here with tears trying to laugh quetly. I should be in bed but not long got in from a concert and now my brain won’t switch off.

 

[StrangeAsAngels]

I just finished watching the episode of Law & Order SVU where John Stamos played an evil guy who had manipulated dozens of women into having babies. They referred to it as reproductive coercion. I find it reeeeally hard to conjure up any sympathy or compassion for Sarah these days, but the Stamos character reminded me so much of Chris Ingham, even down to the over the top affection. Man, she should've made a run for it the moment those first accusations came out. What a messy sham of a life they lead!

 

[Impleo]

I just finished watching the episode of Law & Order SVU where John Stamos played an evil guy who had manipulated dozens of women into having babies. They referred to it as reproductive coercion.

Never heard of that term but makes sense.

Remember Chris prefers not to wear a condom when he is cheating on Sarah. Confirmed by one girl we know he slept with and there is the alleged other son that I believe to be true.

 

[Bonnybob]

im actually quite suprised sarah for sarah says hasnt used gem wholesale and done the ordering a pallate of returns for sarah says it satisfys her shopping addiction and people like to watch those videos.

 

[StrangeAsAngels]

Never heard of that term but makes sense.

Remember Chris prefers not to wear a condom when he is cheating on Sarah. Confirmed by one girl we know he slept with and there is the alleged other son that I believe to be true.

I would love to know if he, at the very least, financially supports this other child.

 

[anywaygigi]

Sorry if this has been discussed already. Have they mentioned issy doing driving lessons at all?

 

[curious cookie jar]

There was a point I felt sorry for her too, but then I remembered she’s a mother who pimps out her kids for her own financial gain, deprives them of everything except oxygen and not only protects, but actively defends her depraved husband by abusing yet more children on his behalf. My sympathy meter for her ran out a while ago.

Exactly this. She had her chance to go it alone and come out of that tit show with some morals but chose to do the exact opposite. No sympathy

 

[slmapg]

So even without him, it still ends up being the Jace show. She is obsessed.

 

[Tilly Kister]

Exactly this. She had her chance to go it alone and come out of that tit show with some morals but chose to do the exact opposite. No sympathy

When a wife is so complicit in her husband's documented sex pestery that she blindly looks past every shred of evidence available to not just deny all allegations but to persecute, defame and abuse anyone who speaks out against him or to express even mild support for his accusers, she becomes an abuser too.
She is just as guilty as he, of all the things he has done. Especially in relation to helping him groom her own daughter under her own roof.

Chris Ingham is something repugnant that crawled from under a very slimy rock and Sarah Ingham is the tit clinging to its hole.

 

[nattis]

Yer if i remember right it was right at the start of covid, when it was still just a warning. They were in the maldives when lockdown actually happened

It must have been end of february early march. And remember the major panic almost happened over night. You heard about it but did not think it could Get as crasy as some predicted.

 

[StrangeAsAngels]

When a wife is so complicit in her husband's documented sex pestery that she blindly looks past every shred of evidence available to not just deny all allegations but to persecute, defame and abuse anyone who speaks out against him or to express even mild support for his accusers, she becomes an abuser too.
She is just as guilty as he, of all the things he has done. Especially in relation to helping him groom her own daughter under her own roof.

Chris Ingham is something repugnant that crawled from under a very slimy rock and Sarah Ingham is the tit clinging to its hole.

*Edit: I'm sick, and this turned into a rant. Tl;dr Chris is a narcissist, and Sarah is his flying monkey. I have zero sympathy for her NOW, but i know exactly how she got to where she is.*


He's so very obviously a narcissist. I have a lot of experience with a diagnosed narcissist, and they can be very dangerous to get involved with for some people. He got Sarah so deeply under his spell very quicky into their relationship that hell would freeze over before she would willingly leave him, no matter what he does. But what has happened to her is also normal for a person in a relationship with a narcissist. You will defend them to the death. You might not even consciously know that there's anything wrong with them. They are extremely manipulative and conniving, and no matter what they do, they'll always find a way to convince you that they are not the problem. It is highly likely that he had her beaten down within the first few weeks of their relationship, and she didn't even know it was happening. I bet they fell in deep passionate "love" overnight, and their relationship moved very quickly. It takes a lot of strength and support to leave a narcissist, and if she had even considered it in the beginning, she probably didn't have either of those things.

But, with all of that said, she is responsible for five children. She never put those kids first, especially her oldest daughter who was not much younger than the girls he groomed. For that, she is 100% responsible and 100% complicit. She also had something a lot of people in abusive relationships don't have - resources. She had money (or access to money), and a "job" that she could've easily gone off and done without him. She made a choice to stay with him. She had all of that information in front of her, and she chose to not only stay, and keep her young daughters around him, but to defend him, and try to destroy the girls he groomed. There is no excuse in the world for that. She is a human pile of tit. So is her husband. It's just a shame that they have all of these children in their care that they're bleeping up at every turn. That's the saddest part.

 

[PeanutGallery]

I was really impressed with Isla’s skills on the climbing wall. She must be getting some exercise somewhere. I was always a homebody and became more so with the pandemic. My fitness and motivation are terrible (depression and chronic pain).

 

[M_stalker]

The mum in me cringed seeing Isla scull a Dr Pepper after playing

 

[Romer]

A couple of thoughts….it was nice to see Isla enjoying her day out and about time she was made to feel special…but oh my god that chavvy mother screeching like a banshee..how embarrassing ….and that dance I have no words for….that’s baby is being abused in Their full sight and they are failing her….I think she is letting it happen for the reaction she is getting….esme is clearly doing no schooling at all and they are enabling her not to by telling the world she is not bright…I think her talking up creepy and his wanting more children and over protecting Izzy and letting him fawn all over her is to cover something major that may be going down in their home…I also think that maybe Izzy has pulled the pin on her blogging so much and she has realised that they have ruined her life so far…and is maybe going out with friends but keeping it all to herself and good on her if she is….and doing the odd Insta post to keep them happy….otherwise she may look as appalling as that fizz girl does at the moment….and lazy is talking up her relationship with Izzy as if to cover some cracks that may be appearing…like her lack of a proper education and opportunities for a future…and as for that poor little 3 yr old terror…..they Have taken away his right to a safe, happy and joyful childhood, with a secure home and education by using him as their pawn For negative interactions ..because remember even bad publicity is good and a money earner…they show him doing all the things that will cause concern and I am sure he is told to do these things, such as attacking the baby, yelling, being selfish and controlling….very like his father figure that I have no words for either…

 

[HelloCreepy]

What’s this talk about another child? Is there information about that online?

 

[Tilly Kister]

What’s this talk about another child? Is there information about that online?

Oh good grief I hope they don't find it necessary to share the conception attempts this time.