Sorry for the long spiel but I had to get this off my chest tonight.
Hi Chris! I know you read here so I have a quick question?
I just really wonder if it passes your mind on a daily basis -
"Only if... I hadn't messaged those under age girls...what would my life be like now?"
For me this is one of the major things that still triggers me to this day. They carry on as if nothing has happened, as though he did nothing wrong although we have all the proof in the world he did what he did. I suppose you could argue if he admits he did it or not, the ramifications are the more or less the same. Without YT you will not get a normal job in the real world. You name is tainted.
Hi Sarah! As a mother and wife, I have never been in your situation and hope to never ever experience what your husband has done to you and your family. I have a few questions for you...
I've wondered how someone can stay with a man who has disrespected and humiliated you so much in your life by the constant cheating and lying to you? Even though you might of / or pretended to work things out, it really intrigues me how you are able to trust someone like him after all that? Let's be honest, when you love someone so much you can perhaps turn a blind eye a couple of times and forgive, try work through it and possibly forget what has happened. But surely after a while you start going a little stir crazy wondering what the the silly bastard is doing when you go to bed at night? At the time of the allegations, why did you stay with him? Maybe you had just started reaping in the benefits of that YT dream of being "rich and famous" (more like infamous now) and you could not bear for anyone to rip that away from you so you decided to stay. I know you fell pregnant around the same time but I can only think that he manipulated in thinking that you would not be able to do it alone. Whatever happened you were determined to get back on that bicycle and hope that no one noticed what he had done. The psychology of it all is very interesting but I feel for your children, sadly they will never live a normal life and they will be discriminated. They will be judged continuously based on their father's actions.
I don't mean to be nasty in this post but it is really unjustified that YT allow these family vloggers to continue as they do. YT continues to condone what they do is acceptable. In this world, by placing these vloggers on a platform what are we trying to tell the youth of today - "it's ok for a 34 year old man to message young girls/boys inappropriately and carry on with life without any consequences - Look at the Chris Ingham, he is still doing YT and getting rich at the same time, it's ok to leave your baby alone on the beach while your whole family goes into the ocean to swim, it's perfectly acceptable to let your children not wear any life jackets while swimming in deep unknown waters, it's normal and ok to make a replica doll of your child and then sell it to others to make a profit, it's ok for my "almost adult" daughter to make personalised videos and send them to "fans" or strangers. I can go on and on because there are loads of shameful examples. Also, they not the only family on YT, they are all tainted and you should not be allowed to showcase their kids they way they do.