The Ingham Family #244 No one is judging your children. Everyone is judging you.

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I wondered how they work too
Seems they get commission šŸ˜šŸ˜
Also if you click the amazon links but.dont buy the product but go on to buy anything else they still get commission due to cookies and tracked links (not 100% on the terms)
 
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It's time the relevant authorities did something re: these fruitloops ,a N once and enabler who use their own children as cash cows .Who knows what paedos and weirdos have photos and videos of those kids ,but Chris and Sarah won't care one bit šŸ˜ŸšŸ¤¢
 
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She should be going to festys and films and cafes and trawling through vintage shops looking for outfits to wear to those places with her mates, She should have mates.
Loads of her kids her age from around Leeds / Bradford go to Leeds Fest with their mates , its almost like a right of passage , my kids did

You pack them off with tents , sleeping bags , pot noodles and drink hidden in ingenious methods and they have a great time and celebrate/commiserate their gcse results together .

But what my kids took with then the most useful thing was common sense and already amount of street wise sense and some hefty lectures and discussions about what you can experience and encounter at a festival , they learn to look after themselves and others .

They come back starving , knackered and filthy but have had an amazing experience and matured through it .

As Isobelle gets older and she still doesn't mix outside the family surely that is the offence of coercive control ? Your parents are not in charge of you now , you can go where you want , piss them off even if its just get a taxi to the next town, walk about , go in a cafe , people watch , just be free to do what you want !!
 
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Wonderful to see that the birthday vlogs* have been such smash hits this past year!!
Isabelle 330k and 111k (441k total)
Sarah - 68k
Jace - 101k and 68k (169k total)
Isla - 266k and 90k (356k total)
Esme - 139k and 55k (194k total)
Chris - 71k
Mila - 53k and 46k (99k)

*Opening presents is the first figure and a day out is the second
 
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Wonderful to see that the birthday vlogs* have been such smash hits this past year!!
Isabelle 330k and 111k (441k total)
Sarah - 68k
Jace - 101k and 68k (169k total)
Isla - 266k and 90k (356k total)
Esme - 139k and 55k (194k total)
Chris - 71k
Mila - 53k and 46k (99k)

*Opening presents is the first figure and a day out is the second
They really should treat Isla better...she clearly brings in the better views šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø karma really considering how they treat that poor girl.
Awkward Sarah even less people give a tit about your birthday than they do your noncey husband.
 
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Wonderful to see that the birthday vlogs* have been such smash hits this past year!!
Isabelle 330k and 111k (441k total)
Sarah - 68k
Jace - 101k and 68k (169k total)
Isla - 266k and 90k (356k total)
Esme - 139k and 55k (194k total)
Chris - 71k
Mila - 53k and 46k (99k)

*Opening presents is the first figure and a day out is the second
Interesting to see that the forgotten child is second to Isabelle.
Time to now show interest in Isla eh Lazy?
 
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Loads of her kids her age from around Leeds / Bradford go to Leeds Fest with their mates , its almost like a right of passage , my kids did

You pack them off with tents , sleeping bags , pot noodles and drink hidden in ingenious methods and they have a great time and celebrate/commiserate their gcse results together .

But what my kids took with then the most useful thing was common sense and already amount of street wise sense and some hefty lectures and discussions about what you can experience and encounter at a festival , they learn to look after themselves and others .

They come back starving , knackered and filthy but have had an amazing experience and matured through it .

As Isobelle gets older and she still doesn't mix outside the family surely that is the offence of coercive control ? Your parents are not in charge of you now , you can go where you want , piss them off even if its just get a taxi to the next town, walk about , go in a cafe , people watch , just be free to do what you want !!
Agree with you my granddaughter went to Leeds festival last year when she was 16 and going again this year she loved it
 
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Just seen this on TikTok

I love what this young lady has done ! I donā€™t use TikTok but if I did she would be my first call to support. She explained a very deep dark murky LONG ASS situation very clearly and by keeping it short and to the point adding just some main bullet points , she will keep people engaged and they will investigate!
Round of applause ! šŸ‘ šŸ‘šŸ‘ itā€™s very hard to tell the story because thereā€™s so much to say and so many twists and turns but sheā€™s hit all of the main points !

Loads of her kids her age from around Leeds / Bradford go to Leeds Fest with their mates , its almost like a right of passage , my kids did

You pack them off with tents , sleeping bags , pot noodles and drink hidden in ingenious methods and they have a great time and celebrate/commiserate their gcse results together .

But what my kids took with then the most useful thing was common sense and already amount of street wise sense and some hefty lectures and discussions about what you can experience and encounter at a festival , they learn to look after themselves and others .

They come back starving , knackered and filthy but have had an amazing experience and matured through it .

As Isobelle gets older and she still doesn't mix outside the family surely that is the offence of coercive control ? Your parents are not in charge of you now , you can go where you want , piss them off even if its just get a taxi to the next town, walk about , go in a cafe , people watch , just be free to do what you want !!
Though I wasnā€™t quite so liberal with my under 18s I have to admit , between 16 and 18 when they went off to uni , I did most definitely allow them to experience things that their friends where doing , there where lots of birthdays, some discos , after school clubs , weekend meet ups, shopping trips , cinema etc. my eldest and her friends where all in sixty form and working at 17 and having weekly meals out to restaurants Iā€™d not even been to šŸ˜† I was super over protective for a long time and in some ways I regret it but also kept them safe ! However when the time came for me to loosen the apron strings I did it , I donā€™t pretend it didnā€™t hurt because of my own childhood etc I was scared but I did it and they went off to uni at 18 ready and prepared for the experience! They did awesome btw and graduated & have incredible lives that I am in awe of.

Reading this post and all the things that Izzy SHOULD be doing makes me sad for her. Sheā€™s made Esme her best friend in the world . Thatā€™s lovely and Iā€™m so glad that they have each other but thatā€™s only because sheā€™s had no choice ! Go back a couple of years and she was being mean to Esme and resented her a lot of the time ( especially the camera catch when she was talking to her friend on the phone and gave Esme evil eyes , because she tried to speak to her ) they are so proud of their childrens relationship with one another ! They have zero options so of course they will confide in one another ! It would be so much worse if she didnā€™t have Esme and visa versa !

Letā€™s see what happens between 17- 18 surely they wonā€™t get away with keeping her the way they have up until now ? SURELY ? šŸ‘€
 
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Isabelle is being coerced in to living a life of control and isolation, very similar to the religious abuse being perpetrated by cults as the members cannot freely socialise or participate safely in the outside world (and know very little of mainstream society). It is sad to think about the limiting conditions theyā€™ve put on her. The withdrawal of her right to a good education is so disturbing, but itā€™s even more obvious now that sheā€™s at the crossroads of ā€œgrowing upā€ as options are closed off to her - a time when many of her peers would be choosing further education or a career. Isabelle hasnā€™t mastered the basics of independence that weā€™d expect of a 17 year old.

Driving? No. Visiting places without her parents? No. Friendships or a relationship? No. Hobbies or talents outside of the home? No. Time away from the immediate family? No. Work experience? No. Travel with companions or school trips? No. Community activities or volunteering? No. Practicing life skills such as cooking, cleaning, budgeting, public transport? No. It is so appalling what Sarah Ingham has done to Isabelle for her own selfish convenience and ego.
 
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Sarah will just keep saying that Isabelle doesn't want to do things like festivals, she wants to sit in the van with her siblings instead. But everyone knows she doesn't have a choice. She hasn't got anyone to go with anyway. She doesn't seem to have any interests anymore because she isn't exposed to anything or anyone outside of the family and can only do what everyone else does.

It would be fine if she could go but genuinely chose not to, my friends went to festivals and it really wasn't my thing so I didn't. But because it was entirely my choice I still loved to hear their stories when they got back, I was just glad I hadn't had to go. Looking back I'm happy that I didn't miss out on anything, all the Ingham children will look back and see they had choices taken away.

At this point I don't think she knows what she wants because she can't see that there is any option than the life she has so will just sit there nodding in the background when Sarah says why Isabelle doesn't want to go out, drive, get a job, go to college and that Esme is her very best friend anyway.
 
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With Izzy coming up to 17 itā€™s a reminder of everything that should be ahead of her, but because Sarah and Chris Ingham have denied her an education there is so much she is missing out on. Education gives you choices in life. That pair of poor excuses for parents have wrecked her choices. She has been a golden goose earning them money and what does she even have to show for it? A freebie holiday where they cannot reveal their location due to her step fathers penchant for teen girls? A holiday in a caravan again keeeping a low profile? Babysitting her siblings, all day every day. It was not Isabelleā€™s choice for the family to expand. It should not be on her to assist with the care of her younger sisters and brother. Sarah and Chris need to parent properly. They need to stop selling their children online. I remember how much aspiration I had at 17, all the things I wanted to do. What on earth does poor Isabelle have to look forward to? What plans can she make? What fun is there for her? What aspirations for her future does she have? When can she feel independent? Itā€™s truly sickening what Chris and Sarah Ingham have done to all their children. Just now though I canā€™t imagine what hope Isabelle has. Her mother never ceases to put her down. Her step father is a pervert. That set for life money they have stashed for each of those five kids had better be used for driving lessons. Isabelle lives in a village with I am guessing poor public transport. Get her a provisional license and lessons. Funny we havenā€™t heard about the ā€œset for lifeā€ bank accounts for the kids in quite sometime. Given their house was over 700k I believe. What amount do you think they would regard as set for life for each child? A few million surely?
My nephew passed his driving test at 17
 
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My niece turned 16 in April, done her GCSEs and then got a full time job for the summer. She's earning around 70 a day. She knows what college she's going to and is hoping to be a lawyer, so uni is in her sights as well. She has a great bunch of friends and after work goes out , stays at friends houses, has a steady boyfriend and is just the greatest girl I've known. We are all so proud of her.. It is maddening and so sad that Isabelle won't experience any of this. Also , watch some of Avias vlogs from the Shaytards, almost the exact same age as Isabelle and see the crazy difference in the two of them.
 
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