The Ingham Family #231 Massive, huge, big surprise for Sarah!!! Your husband still likes teens..

[PeachyJam]

I don't think it was Harrison's party, they're not in Katrina's TikToks about it and the gift they had was a mathematic and logic ice cream set, which I doubt is Harrison's interest, or any kids interest for that matter lol.

Jace came back saying he was sad because the other kid didn't want to play, Sarah tried to ignore and brush past it but I felt sorry for him. He really needs to be with kids his own age so he can learn these really important life skills, like how to play and socialise with others and deal with rejection.

This was his first ever birthday party he has been invited to at over 3 years old and Sarah left early because she forgot suncream and Chris wanted to go to B&M. They really just won't let Jace have fun and be a kid, everything is always repetitive trips to the shops, sitting in a van for hours on end and going on boring holidays you would do only do when retired. No wonder he is always bursting at the seams, he is under stimulated and has no outlet to learn skills to cope with it all.

 

[Otterwise]

Thank you, I do worry for their future sometimes but it’s one step, one day at a time for us. I absolutely detest the school system, I’ve 4 children and two have autism, one has severe anxiety and depression and my year 7 girl is so angry with the world. If I could home educate I would, I take my hat off to those who do it properly.

Sending so much love to you and your children @Mariemoo43.

 

[whatamess123]

Just catching up so sorry if already been said but is she really claiming all these customers spend over £1500 each?

No Sarah!This says nothing about the "quality of your goods" ,but tells us all about the gullible ifam ,those vunerable (scammed by you) few left watching your waste of time videos ,imagining (rather like you) ,that you`re still "youtube famous" ,and feel they have to buy an item from your shoddy online shop before your channel goes under.Maybe stop boasting and begin to realise the position these people are in ,and then rethink helping them into debt ,as prices and everyday bills soar.When your pityful excuse of a channel does die ,you`ll understand the stress of just getting through from one week to another.Maybe instead of all that pasta slop and cheese ,you should`ve cut yourself a huge slice of humble pie.Then ,and only then ,will you ever be relatable to the majority of the population.

 

[Steelerprincess]

There is no way in hell that absolute shell of a child is going to walk into a college/school filled with others (as an external candidate) alone and sit an exam. It’s all bullshit!

Totally agree There is no way she's taking those exams. Just because you say it Lazy doesn't mean it's happening.

 

[PeachyJam]

Well in my circumstances I’ve told my daughter exactly this.. her mental health which tbh is very poor due to my husband dying last year(her wonderful stepdad) means that she struggles so much with anxiety and depression and is panicking about her GCSEs next year, her school have been useless in supporting her and the hospice councellor has left so she’s had no further support there. I’ve said to her that no matter what happens there are always options

Also my eldest daughter also was diagnosed with autism just as her GCSEs hit in 2018, absolutely fell apart in high school, very clever girl but struggled massively with the school system and the amount of pressure the school were putting on her, basically telling her life was over if she didn’t get her grades so much so the night before her history gcse exam she attempted suicide and ended up in hospital, missed some of her exams and failed them.But she got onto her college course, resat, passed and is now in uni.
I do get why GCSEs are important, I’ve always valued education, always encouraged them to learn, read, and explore the world..but when it comes to my kids mental health, nope that is my priority and always will be.

The education system is set up to fail many of our children, especially those who are neuro diverse.

I do agree that Sarah has failed issy though, by not providing her with any sort of education, not just GCSEs but giving her decent life experiences, educational opportunities like museums etc, that bloody garden of theirs infuriates me.. what a waste of an opportunity, they could have made thier own veg plot etc

Edited to add.. I do have a degree myself.. I only passed 4 GCSEs at grade c and retook Maths and science, still got where I wanted to be..

I nearly lost my eldest daughter at 15 (aug baby) In the greatest scheme of things.. GCSEs really aren’t the be all and end all

You sound like a truly lovely mum and your priorities are in the right place!

I had a bad childhood and was homeless after leaving care with no GCSEs but I now have my own business that employs 3 and specialises in my hobby. I still don't have any formal qualifications, but I feel like I've learnt a lot more in life and street smarts

I agree that Sarah, Chris and the system really failed Isabelle, she wasn't given a fair chance to learn to her full potential but the only thing truly life and death about qualifications is the stress it puts on a person. Some of us just need a little bit longer or have to take a different route to get to the destination, but we do get there in the end!

I truly hope Isabelle finds her way, you can tell that she is a sweet girl, I just fear she won't begin to bloom and grow until she leaves the tight grasp of her family.

 

[Kat5998]

Thank you, I do worry for their future sometimes but it’s one step, one day at a time for us. I absolutely detest the school system, I’ve 4 children and two have autism, one has severe anxiety and depression and my year 7 girl is so angry with the world. If I could home educate I would, I take my hat off to those who do it properly.

I went through school with no one noticing it’s pretty clear I have autism/adhd! I detest the school system too, I’m 23 and trying to sort myself out after all those years of pain and trauma

 

[sarah gould]

I know a lot of us feel sorry for Isla, and I to a point do too. I think she needs to go back to school and socialise and I feel sorry for the fact all of that has been taken away from her. However, I cannot fathom just how greedy she is. Every time she goes out with Lazy, she needs to buy something, usually slime which she has a mountain of. She constantly snatches things off the other kids. Sarah bought the girls and jace donuts around Christmas time and put them on the table, jace pointed to one and asked if he could have it, and Sarah said yes in a minute, with that, Isla snatched it off the plate and ate half of it, then gave the uneaten half to Jace, then snatched the one Isabelle wanted and ate it. When Sarah got sent that fudge by an ifam, Esme and Sarah were stood at the kitchen counter, as soon as Sarah opened the fudge, Isla barged between her and Esme and grabbed a piece, no asking if she could have any, she just took it. I've noticed occasionally she will snatch things away from Mila too. What I don't understand, is why are her parents allowing such behaviour? Read your Daughter, she is bored and is acting up because of it. That said, they should also be teaching their kids right from wrong. Isla never used to be so greedy and grabby, but just lately, it's dreadful and horrid to watch.

How can they not see that Isla has gained a lot of weight (yeh admittedly could be puppy fat)they are openly encouraging it but turning blind eye and letting her get away with this behaviour she constantly wants more and more treats and toys wherever they go what a spoilt greedy child she is I’m shocked at the change in her maybe it’s because it’s the same routine day in day out of not seeing friends not having discipline from a teacher not socialising my granddaughter is same age and would be mortified if she acted like this

 

[sostrange]

Sarah’s little speech about GCSE’s is infuriating. Whilst I recognise that trying your best is all you can do as a valid point, but we have all watched you as a parent destroy, at every turn, making that possible for her to reach her full potential.



I understand that it’s not always necessary to achieve academic results in order to live, work and become successful in the life you want to lead, but they have massively reduced the options she’s going to have going forward in HER life. The decisions they’ve made for her is purely a benefit them and their bank balance. It’s selfish beyond belief!

If they think that Isabelle doesn’t need any other qualifications because she’s set for life with the YouTube channel their own children have cultivated for them then they are woefully delusional (not to mention it’s not their decision).

The cruel irony of Isabelle Inghams existence is that for a girl with no life experience, nothing to say, the one and only story that would be interesting to hear is of a child who’s grown up under the nurture of YouTube vlogging parents and the damage that’s caused, and sadly that’s a story we’re never going to hear because they’ve all been brainwashed into believing their lies.

GCSEs aren’t a good fit for everyone at that stage in their life, but in the context of the Inghams their attitude towards education and attempt at advice that comes across from Sarah is appalling. What gets me is that they actually used to send two of them to private school, what was that for? For most people it would be the quality of education. Sarah mentioned recently that Isabelle wants to be a psychologist, so if that’s to be believed, she needs a lot of support and encouragement from her parents to achieve that. She will need decent grades at every step of the way.

I wish they would just be more honest sometimes, just say we took the kids out of school because it fits our lifestyle. Formal education doesn’t really matter to us as the kids will do YouTube and sell merch. Don’t make out one thing and say another.

Just catching up so sorry if already been said but is she really claiming all these customers spend over £1500 each?

I’m astounded that they’ve fleeced people out of so much money.

 

[Tilly Kister]

Is he really that much of an anti-social moron?

In a word, yes. Yes he is.

 

[LuBiLu]

GCSEs or no GCSEs. The saddest part of all of this is how these children are being failed, in every aspect.

Lack of proper education since being taken out of school. She can claim she home schooled all she liked, but those kids have not learnt anything. And these tutors are not real teachers who have years of experience educating children.

Lack of medical and dental care.

A diet consisting of 90% junk and processed tit.

Never getting haircuts regularly, always looking filthy and unkempt.

Never seeing friends, or having any full stop.

Days out consisting of trips to B&M, unless it is someone's birthday then they go to a theme park or a cabin.

Travelling in a van for weeks or months, rarely venturing out of said van as they spend so much time driving.

Inappropriate clothing for the weather.

No care for the children's safety at all in water, car/van, or near cliffs.

I could probably carry on and on for ages listing how those children have been failed. It is just so tragic.

 

[Glennie]

Why are they buying suitcases? Do we think they are going on a gifted holiday

 

[YoungHollywood]

Lots of people have stories about their education or their children’s education and being let down by the system. It definitely doesn’t work for some children and really needs a serious overhaul. But that’s just not the case with the Inghams! They took their children out for their own selfish reasons; to put them to work 24/7 and because they couldn’t face up to what Chris is. There was no reason those girls couldn’t be thriving at school with a great future ahead of them, social lives etc. The parents fucked it up.
That picture of her in the thumbnail is heartbreaking. She looks completely drained and fed up - and that won’t be because of exam stress for her.

 

[SooooAnyway]

Why are they buying suitcases? Do we think they are going on a gifted holiday

Moonlight flit before the builder comes round to "discuss" things

 

[GreaseMop]

I bet they will fly off to some all inclusive resort somewhere and say it's a POW! Sooper Surprise holiday for Isabelle for completing her 'exams'. As well as the suitcases, they've bought swimwear, so they think a bit of pool, beach, waterpark is better than endless driving in the van.
Of course Creepy will look his usual ridiculous self sweltering in a beanie until he swaps to a cap and he'll be going in the pool fully dressed.

 

[Priority education]

I don't think it was Harrison's party, they're not in Katrina's TikToks about it and the gift they had was a mathematic and logic ice cream set, which I doubt is Harrison's interest, or any kids interest for that matter lol.

Jace came back saying he was sad because the other kid didn't want to play, Sarah tried to ignore and brush past it but I felt sorry for him. He really needs to be with kids his own age so he can learn these really important life skills, like how to play and socialise with others and deal with rejection.

This was his first ever birthday party he has been invited to at over 3 years old and Sarah left early because she forgot suncream and Chris wanted to go to B&M. They really just won't let Jace have fun and be a kid, everything is always repetitive trips to the shops, sitting in a van for hours on end and going on boring holidays you would do only do when retired. No wonder he is always bursting at the seams, he is under stimulated and has no outlet to learn skills to cope with it all.

Now come on please, I am long retired. There is absolutely no, hell no, way I would embark on any Ingham style holiday even if my days were spent on a commode and I had to eat porridge.

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

What I don’t get about all this talk of resitting exams is that they’ve been saying for the past two years how all the girls have been thriving with homeschool. How they all feel they’re getting soo much more done/learning more easily. Even with the ‘tutor’, it’s all how great they’re doing or at the very worst, how they didn’t understand something and then the tutor explained it again and all of a sudden they just fully understood it.
Now obviously that’s all bullshit. The kids aren’t thriving, they’re probably not even doing the bare minimum, if anything. But does Sarah really not see how it looks to be saying how homeschool is the best thing they ever did and they girls are doing so well yet in the end, all Isabelle has to show for it is constantly talking about resitting?
This is why you don’t lie about this stuff. And why you don’t put your laziness and your disgusting husband above your children’s education and future.

I think if Isabelle is actually taking exams, it’ll be a huge knock to her already low confidence seeing just how unprepared she is.

And what’s more worrying is Sarah’s idea that teaching kids is explaining something to them and then they just know it is going to be really detrimental when Jace and Mila reach school age. That’s if she even bothered to try to teach them.

 

[Sayitso]

I went through school with no one noticing it’s pretty clear I have autism/adhd! I detest the school system too, I’m 23 and trying to sort myself out after all those years of pain and trauma

I’m the same, 40 now and diagnosed with aspergers, getting my child through a system that lets sen children down is a nightmare my child is currently not in a school because of a shortage of teaching assistants, if I’d kept her off they’d be fining me

 

[Gotmepopcorn]

If somebody had said to me at 15 ‘’don’t worry you can always resit your exams if you don’t do well’’ I would laugh in their face. Time is unbelievably precious at that age. No, you can’t just resit without consequences. For most 15 year olds needing to resit would absolutely destroy their lives. Not getting into the right 6th form / college, throwing their entire education back a year, not to mention the social consequences. Lazy doesn’t know what the duck she’s talking about, I really feel so badly for poor Izzy. So much has been stolen from her and her fuckhead mother just natters away as if it’s not an issue.

She puts it on line that isabelle is going to fail .. she is a product of her environment
I had a very neglected childhood, but because of that I could devour all books even adult books.
Reading is my passion and my obsession.
I taught my kids to read before age 5 but none of my kids have picked up reading as a hobby but they are all capable of understanding all the nuances and idiosyncrasies of all we discuss

 

[oldandgrey]

I'm Scottish and I pronounce it tortoys

I can’t think of any other way to pronounce it .

 

[Sadie0801]

I can’t think of any other way to pronounce it .

I think maybe like tor-tis?