The Ingham Family #188 Your channel is sinking. You should have put buoyancy aids on!

[charlotte_98]

Becomes a problem when you get an emotional girl who because she is being bullied makes a serious accusation against another lad which has then to be looked into. Even though the allegation was proved wrong mud sticks. Things get very awkward but then along comes covid and hey ho we can do home schooling.



Anyone remember Harry Enfields Kevin and Perry ?

And who is betting that it was her vile mother who put her up to making the allegation.
They just do not stop, they will stoop to any level imaginable to stop people mentioning creepys disgusting behaviour.
I remember that vlog where she pulled Isabelle out because some lads had shouted stuff in the corridor, this was always going to happen not that its right but it was predictable. Sarah called the boy a ‘cretin’
They have failed their kids on every level and opened them up to a world of ridicule and misery.
I feel bad for this boy, because like you say mud sticks.
It would be interesting to know what she accused this boy of doing?
its absolutely shocking, but then when you think about the pure evil stunts this family have pulled in the past nothing surprises me anymore

 

[1335teddyade]

I have to disagree about the OCD, although unsure if lazy is lying or not, OCD isn’t just about cleanliness. I have diognosed OCD and my rooms a complete tip, there’s such a perception that OCD is just turning a light on and off constantly and obsessively cleaning and whilst that CAN be true, it’s not always. It’s a mental condition that if Isla does have needs to be sorted ASAP

Totally agree with this. OCD is often perceived as somebody that obsessively cleans everything but it's not just that. I had terrible OCD around Islas age. I'd have to touch things a certain amount of times or go back and shut the door 3 times etc otherwise I felt like everybody I loved would die.. Its also not something that can just be switched off and disappear so I imagine isla is silently struggling

 

[Behelzabobs]

@Behelzabobs Jace is probably why around other people because the poor child has been held captive by his parents and never socialises with other adults or children his own age.

He sees a camera in his face far more than another human poor child

Yeah they should have done the eye test on a mobile
I’m not saying he isn’t shy just that I don’t believe that an eye specialist wouldn’t take that into consideration they are big old liars covering themselves

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Sarah NEVER EVER watched vlogs back because she doesn’t need to as she lived them and finds watching back kinda cringe.

her words not mine. Thought you only vlogged for memories?

 

[Abbvay]

The problem is they should never have said Isla has OCD when they hadn't (and still haven't) seen anyone about it. And then even worse, claim she's ok now based on a book that ifam sent and the ifam giving her some attention. It's a dangerous message to be sending to any young/vulnerable viewers that may genuinely have OCD or think they might have. They might wonder why Isla did this book and was cured, but that didn't happen for them. They might think if only more strangers online loved them just like Isla, then it will help.

It's obvious that she was struggling at the time and still is, she is desperate for attention and seems bored most of the time. For a 9 year old to sit for an entire hour waiting for her sister to come in a room really suggests that she had nothing else to do. She started to become noticeably more withdrawn as far back as the Euro trip last year, even before most children had gone back to school anyway. However, she will already have known that she wasn't going back to school. Even back then when discussing their decision they didn't mention Isla, just why they felt it was best for Esme and Isabelle.

Chris has talked about having OCD on vlogs and probably off camera too, so it's something she will be somewhat aware of. It also doesn't take much to get diagnosed by Chris, this is the person who knows the protocols midwives should be following and told Sarah she has a blood clot because her hand was a bit sore. Unfortunately they won't get her proper help because there is a very obvious cause/trigger of the change in her behaviour - taking her out of school and making her live this isolated lifestyle, and this would be picked up on immediately.

 

[MrsPastypop]

I’m exactly the same as well, I’m going through the process to be diagnosed with autism/ADHD and I’m currently on an 18 month waiting list

I spent a lot of time at home, my mum had to battle with me to leave the house during the 6 weeks summer holidays, because if I had it my way I’d be on my computer all day everyday

it’s difficult to not feel like you’ve missed out on your teenage years because I feel exactly the same

Please don't be upset! My 16th wasn't what it should have been either because I was groomed by an 30 year old man. I wasn't allowed anywhere unless it was with my family and as soon as I got home I had to ring him straight away or he'd make my life hell. Depression and anxiety is what he's left me with to this day and I'm now in my mid 40s with a lovely husband and children of my own. It never got easier but the feeling of freedom I felt when I broke free in my 20s was something I'll never forget. I think the points people were trying to make was Isabelle used to be an outgoing girl with friends but her life has turned to being isolated, withdrawn and she's probably ashamed of what Chris has done when she's around her peers. Her 16th should have been better and we all see it. You've got your whole life to catch up. I hope you're correctly diagnosed and you feel better in every way soon. Sending you massive cwtches!

 

[Lolly505]

Sorry but I'm absolutely howling at Sarah making a big fuss about wrapping presents, only for Jace to just open them while they're vlogging in the other room
She kept laughing at him - might have been a stress response but it doesn't help him learn if he thinks it's funny. Yeah, it's cute (and it's already been done) but he won't learn why he shouldn't open presents that aren't his if they don't tell him. As much as we don't like Chris, at least he's a bit firmer with him when Jace goes to open more at the end.

"Don't ever leave a toddler in a room with presents because they'll just help themselves" - how do you have five kids and zero foresight?

 

[Joris Bobson]

Omg he looks like vik reeves character

 

[Kat5998]

Please don't be upset! My 16th wasn't what it should have been either because I was groomed by an 30 year old man. I wasn't allowed anywhere unless it was with my family and as soon as I got home I had to ring him straight away or he'd make my life hell. Depression and anxiety is what he's left me with to this day and I'm now in my mid 40s with a lovely husband and children of my own. It never got easier but the feeling of freedom I felt when I broke free in my 20s was something I'll never forget. I think the points people were trying to make was Isabelle used to be an outgoing girl with friends but her life has turned to being isolated, withdrawn and she's probably ashamed of what Chris has done when she's around her peers. Her 16th should have been better and we all see it. You've got your whole life to catch up. I hope you're correctly diagnosed and you feel better in every way soon. Sending you massive cwtches!

Awh bless you, I’m so glad you’re free now

Thank you lovely

 

[Mostyn]

Issy got 16th birthday clothes from Shein? I'm probably poor compared to the Inghams but at least two of my daughter's 16th birthday presents are clothes from Lazy Oaf. I have no words, they couldn't even buy decent clothes for Issy for her birthday.

I love the name Lazy Oaf.
Makes me think of big Sarah 38

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Sarahs rant. If you don’t want people to care about your son don’t film it. That simple.

Isabelle is turning into her catty mother with a bad attitude.

Also, sarahs excuse for the eye not being dealt with because of Covid and everything was shut/off work. Not doctors, nurses and gp’s sarah but nice try. Your husband would have been down there quick enough if he fell over on his skates I’m sure. What happened to his chronic weekly tonsilitis too? Strange that suddenly cleared up when Covid hit.

 

[Liaaat35789]

Do you wanna know what life is like for someone diagnosed with OCD I will give you a glimpse; Going to work on a farm, having to do over 20,000 steps on my Fitbit, having to have all my jobs done & more and getting home and cleaning my car, I’ve been sat out there in the dark and rain before using a toothbrush to clean my tyres. I’ve broken down in tears not being able to stop myself from my obsessions and compulsion. It’s very misunderstood... OCD is real and it is a serious illness.

 

[Jamhead]

Do you think Lazy48 looks through Izzy's videos before she posts them?
I don't see much wrong with the majority of what she picked (seems it's what most girls her age are wearing) albeit they seem inappropriate for the season.
However that white top she had on was completely see-through, she wasn't wearing a bra and you could clearly see her nipples through it.
Why does biglazy think that's appropriate footage to have on the internet? There is absolutely no safeguarding going on at any point in these kids lives.
Jason just left to his own devices in a livingroom, he could easily have pulled the tv on to himself or disappeared up the cinema stairs and slipped.
If your life is so hectic biglazy then put the camera down and focus on your kids a bit more.

 

[Sayitso]

Yeah they should have done the eye test on a mobile
I’m not saying he isn’t shy just that I don’t believe that an eye specialist wouldn’t take that into consideration they are big old liars covering themselves

Of course they take it into consideration, my daughter doesn’t speak outside close family and they managed an eye test with her. They’ll find any excuse they can

 

[JacquiW1000]

bleeping hell. Just had to pop over and check out Isabelle's shein haul. Seemed clear to me it was less about the crappy clothes and more about the opportunity to shove her not insubstantial chest into the camera. 16 or not, there's no bleeping way I could sit back and let my daughter parade herself in front of god knows who like that. Is she completely naive or does she know exactly what she's doing

 

[Clairer86]

Did anyone else notice on Izzy's vlog when she mentioned about one top being expensive? I fully expected her to say it was at least £50, but then she said it was £13 or £14.

I did feel a bit sorry for her during that because she does not come across as natural or comfortable at all, and having Isla rating her outfits was just strange.

 

[Jamhead]

bleeping hell. Just had to pop over and check out Isabelle's shein haul. Seemed clear to me it was less about the crappy clothes and more about the opportunity to shove her not insubstantial chest into the camera. 16 or not, there's no bleeping way I could sit back and let my daughter parade herself in front of god knows who like that. Is she completely naive or does she know exactly what she's doing

Considering she acts like an 11 year old I would say naive.
That's why her mother should be checking the videos before she posts them!

 

[Choosday]

I found it quite uncomfortable viewing. I was trying to work out this too… if anything that image is out there forever. Poor kids.

Did anyone else notice on Izzy's vlog when she mentioned about one top being expensive? I fully expected her to say it was at least £50, but then she said it was £13 or £14.

I did feel a bit sorry for her during that because she does not come across as natural or comfortable at all, and having Isla rating her outfits was just strange.

 

[YoYo]

And who is betting that it was her vile mother who put her up to making the allegation.
They just do not stop, they will stoop to any level imaginable to stop people mentioning creepys disgusting behaviour.
I remember that vlog where she pulled Isabelle out because some lads had shouted stuff in the corridor, this was always going to happen not that its right but it was predictable. Sarah called the boy a ‘cretin’
They have failed their kids on every level and opened them up to a world of ridicule and misery.
I feel bad for this boy, because like you say mud sticks.
It would be interesting to know what she accused this boy of doing?
its absolutely shocking, but then when you think about the pure evil stunts this family have pulled in the past nothing surprises me anymore

Have we actually had it confirmed that OP was implying Izzy had been the accuser?

 

[Somerset girl]

I found it quite uncomfortable viewing. I was trying to work out this too… if anything that image is out there forever. Poor kids.

I felt cringe on her behalf. Everything is "cute" and she comes across as much younger than 16 which just adds to the uncomfortable feeling watching it.