I also have more!
My abusive ex husband on our first date was extremely rude to one of the waitresses at a really posh restaurant, he barked at her to "stop hovering around like a blue arsed fly around tit". So anything like this again just screams a red flag for me.
Not sure if I have said it but work selfies do not turn me on how some lads think they do. I find some to be extremely off putting. Especially corny ones.
My 1st ex husband used to write, produce and record rap songs he once recorded one dedicated to me after we were married. I was MORTIFIED. I wanted a divorce straight away.
My 2nd husband is very tall and lean and for some reason whenever he farted, which was very often, I would see him in my minds eye as some sort of long, stringed instrument and it would turn me off.
I cant believe I forgot this one! I remember seeing a lad in my late 20s who was the same age as me, we got stoned alot more than anything at first, he was living with his mum, but would stay at mine from time to time, I went with him to his for the first time and he was sharing a bedroom with who I assumed was his kid brother aged about 12 (big ick) who was sat playing on an x box, it was his mum who actually dropped in conversation it was actually my boyfriends son I was talking to her downstairs, he just forgot to mention in our short relationship his mum was basically bringing up his child for him as in his mums words, he was only teenager himself and his ex was an unfit party animal. To make matters worse his mum showed me photographs round the house of about and I tit you not I probably stopped counting at around 5-6 different kids and only two shared a mother, I started to feel a bit physically sick. His mum also boasted that her son had "super gunk" and he would probably get me pregnant contraception or not. Like he was some sort of stud dog on gumtree. I wasnt sure what was worse, the mum saying that or the fact he told me didn't have any kids! I wasnt sure wether the bigger ick was the amount of kids he had or the fact he lie either! I didnt even want explanations or to fall pregnant, I got the ick and got out. Also the fact he was quite happy to live like a big kid, smoking weed and playing his Xbox all day while mummy dearest bought up his son....
and it would cover a huge portion of his arm. Just absolutely awful. Vile. That would give me the ick right away if I saw it on any bloke.
he thought it was really cool and I thought it looked ridiculous and was a waste of time and money!
I ask him why he woke me (again) and he doesn’t realise he’s doing it half the time. Either I’m possessed when I fall asleep or he’s just bloody paranoid 
