The House Build - Shady AF

midnightrose said:

We have a child poverty crisis here in the UK.
Yet Beggy cares more for her 10th, yes 10th Christmas tree, and tat-filled house while others live in squalor and face destitution across the country. I’ve decided to boycott any company that I see “gifting” which is essentially giving away free products to these influencers and actively encourage others to do so. There is far too much corporate greed in this country, and I can’t stand it anymore than I can stand the climate crisis. It’s disgusting, and those involved should be ashamed of themselves. These companies have a million other ways to promote their products such as running competitions or giving to charities, but they decide not to. They care more about how many followers accounts have, regardless of whether they have been bought or are fake. I’m sick to death of people like TheHouseBuild who take, take and take.

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Emra77 said:

Now she is showing how much she loves her daughter

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Emra77 said:

Now she is showing how much she loves her daughter

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Agatha Quizty said:

Completely agree, I think it's shocking that somebody who is well off takes all these free items. She's contradicted herself anyway, as she said months ago that she likes to promote small local businesses that she uses. She's an utter fake joke. I really hope she reads all these comments but because she's so full of herself she'll label any negative comment as jealousy.

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Rosiepie said:

Oh no the daughter is touching the previous decoration on the tree she’s not allowed to decorate! Please correct me if this is the wrong tree! Very easy to get confused with the amount of trees she has in her house. But I guess it’s ok on this occasion as mummy is making money from it. This woman will sell anything!

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88354 said:

I actually know Becks and Andy personally (Becks since we were teens). She wasn't always a tool but unfortunately I would say since around the time Claudia (mother) bank rolled the Bridal shop she started getting worse and worse). It used to be constant boasting on Facebook it was really really tasteless, a lot of her friends got fed up with it and defriended etc. However, since she started the Instagramming and calling herself a property developer (this is completely not true by the way) she has done less on Facebook which is great. She mainly uses Facebook for begging people to vote for Isabella Grace whenever an award is coming up, it is really desperate and I know for a fact she and her family vote for her as many times as they can hence why she has won so many awards. Completely immoral but not illegal. Andy is actually a nice man and it is him who pays all the bills and always has. If it was not from him then they would still be stuck in their town house on the estate they were on about 10 years ago. I remember when he was made redundant about 6 years ago (approx) and Becks went completely crazy. She rang all her friends in tears, ranted on Facebook constantly about how they would lose their home, not be able to afford to eat, his bosses were bastards etc etc. It really was the end of the world, she made less fuss when Andy's Mum died suddenly approx 5 years ago. Of course Andy found a job within weeks paying even more money, she got a new Merc (which she wrote off within weeks, another drama!) and all was well in the world. I could go on and if it wasn't for our kids getting on well I don't think we would still be friendly but we slowly see less of them (as do other mutual friends). It is sad but Becks has really lost her way and has no idea that her constant bragging is tasteless and unpleasant. Urgh

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TheWitchIsBack said:

Is her drinking as bad as we all think it is? The minute you mentioned written off new merc I instantly thought drunk driving!

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88354 said:

It was in the day time (rather than evening) and of course was the fault of someone else! I remember her gloating when Andy brought her a new MERCEDES she was overjoyed and posted boastful photos on FB etc (you can imagine). I did have to laugh a couple of weeks later (might have been sooner or later but not long after purchase). I think someone crashed into it and either wrote it off or caused major damage, there was the usual drama queen behaviour about how SHE would never buy another Mercedes and how awful it all was. Like it was the cars fault. No gratitude that she was not harmed and all was actually ok. The slightest thing is a major drama, it is draining. I remember when she was pregnant and she was in complete hysterics about something awful happening on Facebook and then on the phone. I thought someone had died or her business had collapsed but all it was, was that the shop she ordered the twins stuff through had gone into liquidation and her goodies would not be delivered. It had to be pointed out to her that the purchases were covered for her money back as she paid with a credit card and she could simply buy elsewhere. The whole over dramatisation was probably the start of her behaviour getting worse, thinking about it, when she was pregnant was when I started noticing these changes but they were only occasional outbursts. Everyday now, there is something she does or says that is unlikeable and without self awareness. It is a real shame especially having such a long standing friendship but I can't see it continuing much longer (or at all if she works out who this is!). Regarding the drinking yes she loves a G&T and wine too, I couldn't say she has a problem. More a problem that she seems to prefer calories from booze rather than proper food!

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88354 said:

She will read it as I know for a fact she reads this page daily. I thought long and hard before posting but it was the final straw today and I just hope by reading my post she might have a long hard look at herself. To be fair it is unlikely, she is incredibly self obsessed now and believes anyone (real life friends included) are envious if they don't agree with her. She gets beyond furious if anyone points out her Mother bank rolled the bridal shop but unfortunately it is the truth. She likes to tell everyone how hard it is being a successful business woman but that is not the whole story. Chezbec the business she sold before her mother financed the bridal shop was not exactly a roaring success. It was run from a bedroom at her town house on a bog standard estate and was hardly sold for a fortune. Very much a case of promoting one image regardless of the truth. Sadly it will affect the children, they are both quite sweet but you can see traits of their Mother coming through and not always in a good way.

She is not all bad otherwise we wouldn't visit them. She is a great hostess, the food is always good quality and always no expense spared on wine etc (obviously). It is just a case of not having any self awareness about how crass the smug, boastful behaviour is. Not sure what Andy makes of it, he definitely loves the freebies and thinks it is amazing (so do I to be frank). Becks definitely had an eating disorder and I am not convinced she is over it now as she eats so little and likes to stay as thin as possible. The early onset of possible osteoporosis can be caused by her denying her body essential nutrients when on these starvation diets but I don't think anything will change where that is concerned. I only hope Issy doesn't pick up on it as it is not healthy. She is definitely becoming more of a drama queen, when we were kids she was completely normal. However what she perceives as success has gone to her head (actually caused by getting lucky with the town house on the estate which in a few years nearly doubled in value, this was boasted about at the time in an unbelievable crass way!). She has had a few lucky breaks, plus a husband with a very healthy six figure salary and a mother of substantial means who can bank roll where required.

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midnightrose said:

Are you pantileslady?

She is always with her, inviting her to dinner parties.

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88354 said:

No I am not. I certainly do not see her that often and quite frankly I couldn't bear too. We meet up regularly but not that often. Say lunch at her house or ours every 6 weeks (approx). Although we message and chat on the phone more often. I don't do social media in the same way they do. I actually have a real life and I do not live online showing off or trying to make others envious!!

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88354 said:

No I am not. I certainly do not see her that often and quite frankly I couldn't bear too. We meet up regularly but not that often. Say lunch at her house or ours every 6 weeks (approx). Although we message and chat on the phone more often. I don't do social media in the same way they do. I actually have a real life and I do not live online showing off or trying to make others envious!!

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88354 said:

It was in the day time (rather than evening) and of course was the fault of someone else! I remember her gloating when Andy brought her a new MERCEDES she was overjoyed and posted boastful photos on FB etc (you can imagine). I did have to laugh a couple of weeks later (might have been sooner or later but not long after purchase). I think someone crashed into it and either wrote it off or caused major damage, there was the usual drama queen behaviour about how SHE would never buy another Mercedes and how awful it all was. Like it was the cars fault. No gratitude that she was not harmed and all was actually ok. The slightest thing is a major drama, it is draining. I remember when she was pregnant and she was in complete hysterics about something awful happening on Facebook and then on the phone. I thought someone had died or her business had collapsed but all it was, was that the shop she ordered the twins stuff through had gone into liquidation and her goodies would not be delivered. It had to be pointed out to her that the purchases were covered for her money back as she paid with a credit card and she could simply buy elsewhere. The whole over dramatisation was probably the start of her behaviour getting worse, thinking about it, when she was pregnant was when I started noticing these changes but they were only occasional outbursts. Everyday now, there is something she does or says that is unlikeable and without self awareness. It is a real shame especially having such a long standing friendship but I can't see it continuing much longer (or at all if she works out who this is!). Regarding the drinking yes she loves a G&T and wine too, I couldn't say she has a problem. More a problem that she seems to prefer calories from booze rather than proper food!

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