These kids are not team players they all are developing or have already developed the same ego Tim has and it’s so sad to see these innocent kids become just like him. Harper basically saying she scored all the goals for her team and they did nothing , said she did all the work and she didn’t come across nice when she spoke about the other girls on her team cause she wanted all the attention and praise on her. The other girls probably just wanted a turn to have the ball but Harper probably wasn’t letting them from the sound of it. I’m not hating on Harper for being like that cause this is completely Ella and Tim’s fault that their kids don’t know how to play and interact with other children. They don’t know how to just have fun and not take everything so seriously. Harper sounded like Heze with the way she was speaking about football very full of herself. From the clips I’ve seen of the kids playing football Harper , Hosanna and Halle sometimes look like they’ve no idea what they’re doing and are just trying so hard to copy Heze cause they’ve been told to do that so they don’t seem genuinely interested in what they’re doing they’re just doing what they’re told to do as they’ve no choice and football is all these kids know now so to them it’s normal to be in this football cult. They can’t even be genuinely happy for their siblings they’re so competitive with each other and will happily put one of their siblings down to make themselves look better.
This is what happens when you raise your children to measure their value extrinsically (how many goals they scored, how 'nice' - i.e. close to Eurocentric beauty ideals - their hair is, how many likes they get on their inappropriate dancing videos, etc) rather than their intrinsic qualities. Harper knows that scoring all the goals for her team and her teammates doing 'nothing' is more likely to gain attention and praise from her parents than her being a co-operative, compassionate teammate. She, like all of her siblings, is desperate for approval from her cold parents.
On top of that, this is what happens when you don't send your children to school. Even if they still were brought up with this style of parenting, teachers and, more importantly, other children would soon let them know that this kind of attitude is off-putting and that having friends is important. They are being raised to look down on other children (and have probably secretly become quite fearful of other children due to being so isolated, I would imagine) and it is disgusting. I feel very sad for them.