The Grimwade Family

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You have Tim who thinks he is a black mam because he is married to a person of colour. His perpetual attempts at Jamaican are wearing. Then theres Ella the Martyr. Has children and does nothing but moan about them and pays zero attention to their non existent social skills. N now pregnant with number 7. God help us, every vlog will be how sick she is feeling and how ill she is and no one is helping so she will just lay about adn let the girls dance to inappropriate songs and create highly inappropriate moves. They clakm they are all about respect but in public, kicking a football every where u go is highly disrespectful in my opinion. Was bad enough with Heze n now Reu and it seems to be encouraged. Then these top parents filmed Reu dancing in a car, in a boaster seat, no back and seat belt under his arm. In a crash, hes dead. As influencers shouldn't they be setting an example in every aspect of life, even car seat safety. This family drive me insane. Not watched for months n months n then tuned in to the pregnancy reveal. 100% was a set up n staged. She kept slipping up saying the baby and then correcting herself by saying i mean if i am pregnant i dont know yet. N Tim is a God awful acter n theres no way u walk in see a camera and go Hi Grimwade gang. . All for views n content. I used to admire there children, now i feel sorry for them, zero social skills pimped out at every opportunity and being failed in education. An utter disgrace.
 
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Yeah, I don’t understand taking the soccer ball everywhere where there is a lot of traffic. I know kids might get bored at the mall but it’s a bit too much. I do understand Heze has goals and dreams and that’s why he takes it everywhere. I just don’t agree with taking it to a busy place like the mall.
 
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I think they should send the kids back to mainstream school. Then The kids can get a proper education , make friends & improve their social skills , Ella can get a break & not be so overwhelmed most of the time. It’s hard having 6 but when will the baby train stop?
 
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I think they should send the kids back to mainstream school. Then The kids can get a proper education , make friends & improve their social skills , Ella can get a break & not be so overwhelmed most of the time. It’s hard having 6 but when will the baby train stop?
I agree, it actually seems a bit selfish and regardless of how bad or good you think the uk education system is it is regarded as being one of the best in the world. Ella and Tim believe their own hype and just because your children are well mannered are they thriving in every aspect of their lives?
Also Heze should have started secondary education so I’m not sure how they’re able to support all the subjects he would be learning about from home.
 
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I agree, it actually seems a bit selfish and regardless of how bad or good you think the uk education system is it is regarded as being one of the best in the world. Ella and Tim believe their own hype and just because your children are well mannered are they thriving in every aspect of their lives?
Also Heze should have started secondary education so I’m not sure how they’re able to support all the subjects he would be learning about from home.
This is what I was wondering. How will they prepare him to sit GCSE’s? Or are they banking on his football career?
 
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This is what I was wondering. How will they prepare him to sit GCSE’s? Or are they banking on his football career?
That’s so bad he doesn’t go secondary school ? Where’s his friends ? Where’s his learning and life mistakes going to come from by having teachers and other authorities figures. They’re so selfish! And even more selfish having another baby. Ella should read this !
 
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Have to say the kids are polite but I can't help but find Hosanna very fake & sneaky. She watches & listens to everything. Notice whoever is talking to the camera at the time, she follows them around hugging them just to get herself on camera. I think she plays the innocent good girl very well but I'd say off camera it's a different story

Homeschooled but all they seem to be taught about is babymaking, relationship advice and how to dance. Harper, Halle & Rue are really intelligent, I think they would thrive in school settings mixing with others. They need to have the kids in more groups/activities to socialise. They won't have a clue about the real world. I think it's more about controlling & shaping the kids to make money, create a brand & groom them for a family business rather than wanting to actually homeschool them.
 
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Also Heze is at an awkward age now and he looks embarrassed when Tim makes sexual advances and remarks to Ella and when they talk openly about sex and baby making. Poor Heze looks mortified but doesn't say anything but he's clearly uncomfortable. Its obvious he doesn't want to hear that. But to hear poor Harper talking about tubes being tied at 5 years old is shocking. Being open with your family is fine but theres a certain age for those conversations

I also think letting Heze run around shops, malls, town, streets, cinema, car trips, days out with that football is so rude and annoying. He's going to knock people over and hurt somebody and Tim & Ella don't care less. Not to mention hes always kicking it off next doors wall. I'd say the neighbours are sick of him in the lane way. Tim & Ella preach about manners and respect but they have none

Anyone else find it strange that Ella said she never experienced racism ever as a black woman in UK, but Tim said he has....
 
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I also find the breastfeeding uncomfortable around Heze with his age. Its so inappropriate to just have ur boobs flapping about in every video
 
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Have to say the kids are polite but I can't help but find Hosanna very fake & sneaky. She watches & listens to everything. Notice whoever is talking to the camera at the time, she follows them around hugging them just to get herself on camera. I think she plays the innocent good girl very well but I'd say off camera it's a different story

Homeschooled but all they seem to be taught about is babymaking, relationship advice and how to dance. Harper, Halle & Rue are really intelligent, I think they would thrive in school settings mixing with others. They need to have the kids in more groups/activities to socialise. They won't have a clue about the real world. I think it's more about controlling & shaping the kids to make money, create a brand & groom them for a family business rather than wanting to actually homeschool them.
100% Hosanna is fake, I'd say all of them that are old enough to understand the camera are.
Every now and then, they give the game away with a look or something they say.
It's very true about Hosanna giving whoever has the camera a cuddle - they're ruining their kids, they don't even know it.
I've said it before, but the kids live for YouTube comments. They want to be good how amazing they are and that's why they say and do things for the camera all the time.

I think school would be great for them. Of the few times they've been on camera doing anything academic, they all seem far behind their expected level for their age.

The family is an utter mess. Such a shame for the children.
 
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Out of all the kids, I find Hosanna unbearable. Anytime their asked a question, they pipe up with answers that the parents want to hear or that have been rehearsed. Its like they try to sound mature, grown uo & experienced but the poor kids never leave the house except to go food shopping. They have zero interraction with people outside their family. For example its not healthy for Heze to constantly be around babies &small kids instead of peers his own age. Hes nearly a teen and even when he gets a break to go football, the whole family goes along. As for the bedroom situation. Its not fair for them to have to share with babies when their nearly teens. And Houston was dumped into the cramped bedroom when she was a couple of months & Hosanna was doing night feeds. So it wont be long before #7 is dumped in too. Tim & Ella actually had the nerve to say Rue & Houston in their room prevented them from intimacy. Wtf is wrong them
 
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This has to be the most patronising family on YouTube!

The constant preaching and boasting is unbearable, I genuinely think they feel like they are above everyone else.
Tim is the worst. He thinks hes down with the black people just because hes married to Ella. He acts and speaks more Jamaican than she does. They really push the Jamaican thing on the kods but neither Tim.or Ella have ever been there let alone the kids. But what I dont understand is Tim tries to get the kids to act white in some situations and black in others. Just let them be happy free kids for god sake.
 
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The more I watch them the more I can’t unsee the accuracy of everyone’s comments on here and how fake/staged their interactions on camera are.They have become so cringe to watch.
 
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Their reslly pushing the branding and trying to shape the kids into stardom. Be much healthier if they let the kids play with other children and lead normal lives because their becoming so robotic
 
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This is what I was wondering. How will they prepare him to sit GCSE’s? Or are they banking on his football career?
exactly this ! I am a school teacher and I can guarantee he is missing out. I have three children and I wouldn’t dream of any of my kids not going to school !
 
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exactly this ! I am a school teacher and I can guarantee he is missing out. I have three children and I wouldn’t dream of any of my kids not going to school !
Their not learning any independence because they whole family goes everywhere in a large group. Any interaction with the outside world is overly supervised by the Whole family. How is Heze going to hat about girls and teenage boy stuff with his parents and siblings stood there preaching at them. At least the girls have each other but poor Heze is surrounded by girls, babies and his parents 24-7. I cant help but think these parents are doing more damage than anything. Poor Rue is spoken to like hes an adult. Harpers ignored unless she stands in front of the camera smiling. They only talk to Houston when she screams to get her to stop. Heze is the golden child they are relying on being a footballer to make cash. Their relying on Halle to get into tv/modelling as shes the "pretty" one. They are realising Hosanna isnt getting much work so are hoping she'll be tiktok famous with her dances and sending her along to Halles jobs in the hope she gets something out of it. The kids would be happier if they did some sports, activities, playdates instead of moulding them for stardom to make cash cows out of them
 
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Tim is the worst. He thinks hes down with the black people just because hes married to Ella. He acts and speaks more Jamaican than she does. They really push the Jamaican thing on the kods but neither Tim.or Ella have ever been there let alone the kids. But what I dont understand is Tim tries to get the kids to act white in some situations and black in others. Just let them be happy free kids for god sake.
😄😄 I'm sorry, but the "down with the Black people" has floored me. I agree with whoever said he acts more Jamaican than Ella does.

The kids are always trying to come across as the kindest, most intelligent, loving kids ever and they're just kids! Kids, by nature are a little selfish, energetic and silly. They have their whole lives to be those other things, childhood lasts for such a short time, they will regret selling their kid's childhood for what ever they're getting from this exposure.

I'm just watching them telling the kids and Heze and Hosanna are definitely acting. They are the ones who realise the gravity of what this means for the family.

And yup, the content is going to be "I'm so sick", "We hope it's twins", "let's go to the scans", "gender reveal", etc. Uugggghhhh. They need to move on.
 
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Anyone else notice the kids get a gift of a stocking with magazines/poundland toys, toothbrushes, and a shared ipad for xmas which is totally fine... but Tim & Ella gift each other Apple watches and crazy expensive london hotel/penthouse stays.

In 15 years time...
Heze - motivational speaker
Hosanna - working in tesco or housewife
Halle - Social media influencer on Insta or a makeup artist
Harper - College student
Rue - Jack the lad
Houston - Wildchild, bratty, loud

I can't be the only one who thinks Tim would have a bad temper off camera. Ella & the kids seem so eager to please him constantly and make sure everything is perfect for him, almost like their all scared to put a foot wrong with him. And Ella has made refernces to Tim being trouble and getting up to no good in his younger days and that her parents didn't like him so they hid the relationship for years. Lazy Tim sits on his bum all day playing computer games and a lot of vlogs hes still in bed while Ella & the girls run around cleaning & cooking
 
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I was confused when she said in the last video that her mums been there nearly everyday at her house helping. Surely that’s what Tim should be doing no? It’s not like he has a real proper job and commitments?? Especially when her mum has to look after her sister with special needs. Maybe that’s just me but it comes across like Tim is very lazy.

To add to what someone said about the gifts ^^ I totally agree. Your exploiting your kids for income but seems as though you rather spend that money on yourselves with expensive gifts and not to mentions and brand new BMW ( which seems as though only Heze is allowed in 😂). Even when they are in a shopping centre, seems as though it’s only to buy the boys football boots and stuff. Never see them getting anything for the girls. I know they went clothes shopping for Hosanna but even that came out of her own birthday money.

I really can’t stand this family anymore 😩😩
 
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