The Chateau Diaries #70 Thank you for the little cockerel - it will do for now

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She's possibly gone off to see Potty and Nic on the advice of the accountants to look at opening different bank accounts for the business and her personal one. She's probably been asked to sort it out by next week before the other accountants come. This is her first tax year that is affected by the Patreon money I think? The YouTube money was not so high when she started out, but now she has large amounts coming in, it's has to ve organised better. She'd need Potty and Nic to agree to it.
The "jealousy thing" with Marie, Nics wife. I don't think, there is any animosity between Marie and Stephanie. My husband copes very well when I meet my exes, which I do a few times a year, as there are our shared children and grandchildren and there are always family dos. The exes and my present husband get along very well. Their wives are lovely and I get on well with them. Its all water under the bridge, all passion spent as they say. We fell out of love years ago, all forgiven each other, still have shared memories. Steph doesn't have children, but they share a chateau.
 
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I think you are right about Potty being there....i watched the video once again...there are a lot of voices in the background...i think i heard Potty...it should be interesting if we had some one inhere who could filter the different sounds out of the video...
 
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Yes, if she is using Patreon funds to renovate the chateau, or upgrade b n b quarters, I'd think that was illegal. Can you experts weigh in? It's driven me crazy from the start -- gite conversion, etc. is renovation not restoration, and if she's using Patreon funds for it she should be in the pokey.
 
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This woman is amazing...Her finished restoration is stunning. I've been subscribed to her for years and loved everything she's posted. I want to BE her when I grow up...or maybe in my next life....

Christine is the only person I currently support on Patreon. Everything she does, she does it to the absolute highest level. She usually only produces 1 episode and 1 live chat a month, but the quality, time, and talent are amazing. Definitely worth $3 a month!
 
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And to be fair, there are so many people that are afraid of colour or are just plain uncomfortable wearing colour ( a coworker of mine is like that, she wears black, white and gray, for her b&w stripes are a basic for her but more of an accent colour. She just cannot handle wearing colour, we have tried in vain to get her to wear more ).
 
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IMO I really don’t see evidence that Nic’s Marie hates SJ. She has been around for a long time as evidenced on here with pics of her at the chateau partying. After all SJ met Nic more than 25 years ago. When they were both very young. If they were intimate partners seems like it is water under the bridge. The relationship I don’t get is the Ruthie, Potty & SJ triangle. SJ & Potty lasted a decade and Ruthie being a friend. I certainly don’t like to share! Ever!
I certainly would not get my nails done with a perceived rival, someone I did not like, unless it is a situation of keeping your friends close and your enemies closer.
Also I find it irritating that Nick is keeping up the guise of not appearing on camera. We all know what you look like! I understand not wanting to be filmed so you make that clear before the camera comes out.
 
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I could write an essay about the Everest-level of incompetetent, cavalier, scattergun, devil-may-care, irresponsible, assinine, casual accounting carnage surrounding SJ's business ventures and the Assoiation to which the Patreon income is directed. But there's little point in stating the obvious.

The bill for unravelling this unholy mess will be substantial. Professional fees billed to the Association will be an intriguing item of expenditure

Accountancy (prorated amount from total bill - and the meter's ticking - for the current debacle
Legal fees )setting up the Association
Architect
Land survey (organised by Davey)
Davey - is he doing all that he's done FOC? Nothing to pay cos he goes to stay?
Fees relating to ongoing exptrt advice re the lake

These are items of expenditure which I imagine could, quite legitimately, be paid from the Association funds. Certainly more legitimate than the cost of decorating n and decorative items.

Oops, this is nearly an essy! Final thought: Stephanie in panic mode, which she has been for weeks, more and more reminds me of Goldie Hawn placed in an Enid Blyton book. Ditzy, dizzy, downright silly with an English accent. Which is incredibly unkind to Goldie Hawn.
 
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The "jealousy thing" with Marie, Nics wife. I don't think, there is any animosity between Marie and Stephanie.
The thing is, it's not about jealousy. Marie clearly by now has learned never to question the relationship between her husband and the charlataine again and is very aware she will always lose that battle. If there was animosity between Marie and Stephanie (and there is, just not when they are in each other's company), they are both keen enough not to ever let it show as it would distress the precarious balance they've constructed around owning the shittoo together.
 
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Hope she's put some money aside cos our audit last year cost over £30k. Had a second one a month ago which will prob be a similar figure.
 
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’tis very true...her little accounting admission is intentional. u know...I am just a scatterbrained, silly little blonde. she thinks she’s clever.
the accountant refused to be filmed and wanted her input as to what expenses she ‘claims’ are business, patreon, YT, etc., and where each expenditure is really used and for what. will he or she sign off on this mess? they will attempt to fix this for her, but the hourly will wake her highness up. she is screwed if she has been comingling all these accounts and she might have a juicy tax bill despite the questionable ‘charity status’ of her patron funding. Jmo...but really, this scam account juggling is No surprise at all.
 
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My house is built on native American land, ripped off 500 years ago by nicey nicey conquistador monks. Its kachina spirit has appeared. I don't believe in that stuff, but it happened.
Yes, it's quite an experience when you don't believe in spirits, then you see one. My house has a troubled history, I found out there was a rape in the house, and a suicide. It felt so different when the medium moved "William" on. He told her, (yes she sat and chatted to him!) he was afraid of his house being spoilt, that we would remove the period features. He agreed to move on and the house took on a different character, It became light as if a heavy weight had lifted, and we had no more appearances, no more footsteps and knocking. He took his dog too!
We kept the period features.
 
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IMO I really don’t see evidence that Nic’s Marie hates SJ.
I don't think Marie hates SJ, nor do I think they will ever become real good friends. The whole girly-nail-thing was a really cheap shot to make us forget about smoke and mirrors and it seems to be working. But everything that SJ does is either fake or has a hidden agenda.
Nick and Marie used to spend a lot of time at the shittoo and were even willing to break lock down regulations to get there in the past. Not this year though. And all of Nick's best friends, apart from Kim Raad's professor husband who did visit this summer but only because his wife pushed that, have not been at her HMN for years now. It clearly is no fun for them to party if it's going to be filmed and published on the internet, yet that is the prize they pay for the money SJ is wheeling in.
 
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The level of money fecklessness literally makes the hair on my arms stand up.
The greed and the scrounging ... SJ seems to think that she's entitled to receive money and gifts from other people, as do the other
château scroungers, which is really quite incredible ...
 
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Even if Marie and Nick decide to come for Halloween, and they probably will as Marie has said it herself in the patreon video, I hope they leave Antoine in Belgium. It's really not fair to a child to be subjected to that level of toxicity, especially if they allow SJ to film him. And even if they don't allow it, she will, we all know that.
 
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Is there the same animosity between Ruth and SJ Clara?
 
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Re. the directors in their 3 differentes companies :

Films and audio production company : only 1 director (Steph).



BnB company : 1 name (Steph)


Charity Association (Association 1901) : No name

 
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Doesn’t Steffi need Antoine from time to time for her unwrap videos? So that his childlike innocence gives her superficial happiness a break.
 
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Indeed...imagine to have that bunch in your brocante...they already had a few drinks...i think...My greatuncle who had no children had a house full of antiques..His wife had a lot of precious juwels too...When he died she used to live there but at 98 she was forced to go to a nurseryhome..Everybody in the family wanted thier stuff..so she decided to held an auction. .just with the familymembers....I didnt buy anything as we have already too much stuff..her juwels she took with her...her big safe going with her in the nurseyhome caused quit a stirr..and much amusement too....the whole home spoke about it..The damn thing was so heavy it recuired a special movingcompany to get it into her new appartment..When she was 100 and suffered a bit of dementia..she left the key in the door...and all her juwels were stolen...my father made a joke about it..he said..well now that those are gone...we dont have to take care of that stuff anymore..
 
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Every time he says "much nicer than what I've got" I want to scream
I honestly don’t understand MPK’s obsession with Spode Blue Willow. I mean, it’s ok…but the Blue Willow pattern itself is fairly common. It’s been produced by many manufacturers…not exclusive to Spode. I guess if I was going to collect, I’d pick a more interesting, less common pattern. And, yes, it was like he was scoping out grandma’s house for himself. Also, grandpa didn’t want to have anything to do with the video…I don’t think he said two words!
 
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