I will never understand the people who defend the gift grab as though these people whose "love language is giving gifts" would shrivel up if they were asked not to spend ridiculous amounts of money to mail tacky junk to their favorite youtuber. (I once spent $37 to send a box of poptarts to a friend who'd moved to Australia and was missing her favorite flavor, so I can only imagine how many hundreds it must cost to send these heavy boxes of dishes etc to France)Chateau Unwrapped
Caro to the rescue !
Amina
8 hours ago
Stephanie, one way to ‘deal’ with all gifts that many kind, generous people send over is simply to put a stop to it and encouraging funds be sent directly to charities desperately in need. It has become offensive and obscene the amount of items being unwrapped You clearly don’t need to further clutter Lalande or buy more wardrobes to fill. Honestly!
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Suzanne
5 hours ago
Ooooh, think you should just stop watching......!!!!!!!
Amina
5 hours ago
Oh! And how is that going to help some stop this embarrassing behaviour?
Teresa
2 hours ago (edited)
I'm sorry you find these videos so disturbing. I strongly urge you to move on. Seems plenty of other videos out there for you to watch without resorting to shaming good folks. No one is holding you captive here. Did you know that giving gifts is an actual love language!? Seems mean to make those particular ppl stop . They're simply sending items to the Chateau in deepest appreciation of the delight Stephanie & her crew bring us all. Sharing in these happy moments is like hanging out with good friends. Besides, it doesn't mean that ppl don't contribute to charity on their own, but doing that alone may not be as satisfying as lavishing love upon someone you like & admire. Or, seeing & experiencing their joy when they open these gifts. Your acting the arbiter of manners & chief of the minimalist brigade serves no one, but yourself. Plz let it go. Bridget from Cali (using my pal's YT acct)
caroline gooder
53 minutes ago
In the description they ask people to not send gifts if they can't afford it and show all the money that go to their charities. Most of us send money directly to charities now so don't need your scolding.
Paranihia
9 hours ago
Opening the gifts is fun, often things that are handy to have. I wonder if it is time to donate the gifts to charity too? There have been an enormous number of gifts received, and surely - too many for the chateau by now. Of course, some are sent to a specific person, so those go to that person. But the rest - surely ... ? Of course, some gifts are very special to the sender and they want that gift to go to the chateau. It might be difficult to sort them tactfully
caroline gooder
2 hours ago
Family, Friends and guests (often who become friends) also get some of the bath products, etc. Remember there are often 20 people at the Chateau at a time in season. Per the Vlogs, Food and candy they don't use is donated.
My love language is physical touch but I don't suffer from not being able to give celebrities/youtubers i like a hug.
I assume some of the defensiveness comes from people being very well aware of how disgusting the whole gift giving farce is, but not wanting to admit they've contributed to it. If they'd stop getting upset about it and take the out these people are handing them - "Yes, Stephanie we loooove you but since your darling channel has grown so much it's just not a good idea to do this anymore!!" - they'd all be better off, and the walls of the poor not!chateau would be that much less likely to burst.